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Old 07-22-2009, 07:08 PM   #1
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Ladies, I thought this might be a fun and telling topic.

In your wildest, most persistent fantasies, what is your ideal mate like?

Please describe in detail and go to town. Are you into a certain physical look? Do you have a scenario that you go through in your mind over and over again? What do you desire?

Tell us all about your ideal MAN (or WOMAN!) and don't skimp on the juicy, dreamy details.

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this thread would definitely make even more people hate me and judge me on here and I would probably be banned LOL
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this thread would definitely make even more people hate me and judge me on here and I would probably be banned LOL
Oh, I think this could be a good place for women to express their own desires. I was especially thinking of how "hungry" I was when I was younger to find out, to KNOW anything about being a fat woman and sexual.

As fat chicks, we're so often underrepresented in the public eye. One of the big fears I had when I was growing up was that if I grew up fat, I would never be able to have sex or romance in my life. You simply didn't see many fat women discussing their fat woman desires, so it was almost like fat desire did not exist. The way romance and sex are talked about in the mainstream, it's often assumed that only thin women are entitled to romantic, sexual lives.

So I'm hoping to kind of "leave a trail" here that shows just what a fat woman wants in her romantic or sexual life. Because I KNOW that the BBW here do have desires and personal agency! And I hope there'll be no judgment!
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Just a friendly reminder that this thread on the BBW forum is meant for women to describe their fantasies without comment from others. As well intentioned as comments of affirmation might seem, they also have the unintended consequence of suggesting that women's fantasies are secondary to the adoring looks of men. That forecloses greater participation by the women of this board, and that would be a shame.

Thank you for your understanding.
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Hm...if I could write my dream man into life...

To start with, he'd be about six feet tall, just the right height for me to look into his eyes or rest against his shoulder. His eyes would be a mix of colors--perhaps blue, with patches of orange, or perhaps hazel--but fascinating in that way that interesting eyes always are; a little bit hypnotizing, even. He'd wear his hair long, but not as long as mine. His shoulders would be broad and strong, but his belly a little bit soft and snuggly. His arms would be toned but not ripped...the sort of manly arms that could sweep even me off my feet. (Well, okay, it's pretty easy to get me off my feet, but much harder to keep me off the ground!) And big hands, big enough to make me feel small when he's holding my hand.

His voice would be strong and masculine, capable of carrying over a field or whispering my name in just the right tone to make me melt inside. He might have a hint of a British or Irish accent--just a hint, of course, and maybe something he can pick up or drop as he pleases for fun, since he'd be an all-American guy no matter where he was born.

He'd be smart, absolutely brilliant, even. He'd be geeky, too--he'd enjoy video games, and like watching animated movies, play D&D or Magic, have models of the Starship Enterprise(s), and know how to program a computer. He'd like books, and have spent more time in college actually learning than partying.

He'd also have a strong moral character. He wouldn't smoke, he'd avoid breaking the law, he'd try to play the good samaritan when he had the opportunity, he'd stay out of debt, and be kind to children and animals. He'd be Christian, but not the scary sort that tend to give Christians a bad name. He'd manage to do all this because it was right, without being critical of others who failed to live up to his personal standards.

He'd also be optimistic, dominant, and snuggly.

And when he saw me, he'd be unable to keep his eyes off me. He might not say anything--just watch me. It would be like the rest of the world had vanished for him, and I was the only thing that remained. But of course, he would eventually say something to me--perhaps ask me to dance, or play a game with him, or compliment my hair. (He could ask me to dance in a grocery store--and we'd do it, too, just for fun!)

Then he'd kiss me while we were dancing, slow and soft at first, and my mind would go blank. The voices in my head would shut up for a while and it would just be pure sensation--his arms around me, his lips against mine, his body close--and for a little while, that would be all I needed. Air, water, shelter...all overrated. We'd have each other.
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My dream guy would be into BDSM and not be afraid to be part of the overall scene. He'd understand what Dominance actually is, and he'd be more than willing to learn new tricks, in other words be patient and adaptable, and he wouldn't be threatened by other Doms. He'd also be able to say no if he's not feeling like being in top space no matter how badly I'd want to scene. He'd just have to be a good Dom. Those are so hard to find.

He'd be into sci-fi, comic books and other geeky stuff and be able to follow me when I start to geek out. Like if I felt like having a star trek marathon he'd be right there with me and quoting lines verbatim from the really good episodes.

He'd have good tastes in music and movies too. We don't have to have the same exact tastes, but we should have enough in common to be able to do random stuff together.

As for looks....he just has to be taller than me (lately I've been noticing the height thing becoming a more rigid desire, when I never used to care so much) and strong enough to handle me, both physically and emotionally. Like he has to be mature and together and able to take care of business. He'd be more of a doer than a dreamer.


That's probably all not so much fantasy as it is, just a list of must haves in a potential mate.

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I don't know. I really don't.

I guess I do have a type, but most of the guys I've dated/crushed haven't matched up. Some features and qualities just happen to converge in magical ways, even if in theory they're not exactly my first choice mix. Some very special people make it extremely easy to accept and appreciate them just as they are (and on occasion, that happens to be unemployed and flakey, lolz).

In 34 years, only one dude came really close to my comprehensive, on-paper ideal. In fact, I think he met and exceeded every category minimum on my man-wishlist. This was both amazing and highly ironic, considering that he actually WAS missing some features that *everyone* takes for granted and most people would consider vital in a mate if they stopped to think about it. But I didn't care. In fact, I didn't really notice. And when I did, it wasn't in disappointment.

Anyway, if I had to state my general ideal, I'd say it'd be a cocky, funny, crazy-intelligent, well-spoken, articulate, extremely well-educated, kind, outgoing, well-adjusted, reliable, slightly older guy. Balding with very short hair. I haven't given much thought to coloring. I tend to like blue-eyed men with blond-to-brown hair. Strong features, but not too craggy. Toned and a bit muscley, but not too bulky. Tallish, six feet or so. Good taste, dresses well, but not too fussy. Has interests, passions, pursuits, and artistic sensibilities. Confident. Maybe even kinda fearless. But gentle and sensitive. Someone who's in touch with his inner child but isn't afraid to take on a bit of a parental role when my inner girl needs reinforcement. Someone stable but NOT boring.

I guess the bottom line is that I desire someone who is both interesting and interested. Severe mutual physical attraction is ideal, although precisely what I'll find attractive is hard to anticipate. Further, I need someone who respects me, finds me fun, and thinks I'm brilliant. Someone who will worship me like I worship him. Someone who will love me and make me his priority in life. Someone with whom I can fall in love again and again, every day of my life.

As for the sexual side of things, heh. I'm kind of like Anais Nin's Elena. I yearn to lose myself in someone, sorta.
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But with dark hair instead of red.

He'd be very powerful, and dark, and have a beautiful soul. He'd be clever with an interest in books. He'd also be very old fashioned but a complete FA. lol
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Shape shifting wolf mated to me for all eternity! No, I joke - sort of...

Somebody strong - strong mind and strong body. Somebody who can hold me down and tell me off when I need it, who can be in charge and lead for a little bit the times I lose my way. Physically I have a weakness for thick, veiny arms and giant man-hands. A sweet smile, friendly eyes, a sense of humour. Somebody passionate about life and about where they are going and what they want to achieve for themselves and for this world. A family man who puts me and our children first always. Somebody who appreciates beauty - who adores me - and has an unbeatable lust for me, adventures, beauty in all its forms and life.
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Wow, I really don't have a fantasy, especially compared to some of you guys! Not that there's anything wrong with that. I tend to like more Mediterranian guys, the dark hair and eyes is a nice thing, so I guess Portuguese is included in that Taller than me, but not too tall, and with a personality that meshes with mine.

That's about it.
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That's about it.
me too! i also like broad shoulders and sensitive hands--what ever that is. i has something to do with how a man holds and uses his hands. i love dark eyes and an intense gaze. he has to be a take charge no nonsense sort of a guy. but he also has to have sensitivity to other people and not just me. if someone goes around hurting other women its a big turn off.

when it comes to lovemaking i tend to like staying in the moment. but when i fantasize alone its about a sensual encounter usually with someone i know that i feel might be a lovematch. celebs or strangers are icky to me in general. i don't need a special situation or environment, just the person and what we do to each other.
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It changes depending on my mood-- although BHM are certainly a recurring theme.

Right now, what I would like is to cuddle with someone and watch tv and feel him stroke my hair and then fall asleep with my head on his shoulder.

It's usually something sexier, I swear.
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I'll start off with the physical fantasy. As far as height, that can be anything from my height of 5'3" up to 6'5" or higher. Dated both heights and many in between and found very positive things about both short and tall. I wouldn't want him to be very hairy. I like kissing all over and I don't like hair in my mouth....LOL I like a man with an athletic body. Anything from slim like a swimmer up to muscle bound. Very sexy.

He'd LOVE my fat. Would find it hard to keep his hands off my body. He'd love the softness, the curves, the way it jiggles. He'd think I was the sexiest woman he'd ever seen. He'd be adventurous in bed and not afraid to try new and erotic things. He could be in control, but also able to give up that control to me when I was feeling the desire to dominate.

He would be romantic and thoughtful, not afraid to show how he feels about me around others. He would be strong and masculine without being a tough guy. He'd need to be sweet, gentle and affectionate. Smart, but not boorish and humorous. He'd love to make me laugh and would try to do it often.

But most importantly, he'd have to be deeply, madly, passionately, forever in love with me.
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To start with, he'd be about six feet tall, just the right height for me to look into his eyes or rest against his shoulder. His eyes would be a mix of colors--perhaps blue, with patches of orange, or perhaps hazel--but fascinating in that way that interesting eyes always are; a little bit hypnotizing, even. He'd wear his hair long, but not as long as mine. His shoulders would be broad and strong, but his belly a little bit soft and snuggly. His arms would be toned but not ripped...the sort of manly arms that could sweep even me off my feet. (Well, okay, it's pretty easy to get me off my feet, but much harder to keep me off the ground!) And big hands, big enough to make me feel small when he's holding my hand.

His voice would be strong and masculine, capable of carrying over a field or whispering my name in just the right tone to make me melt inside. He might have a hint of a British or Irish accent--just a hint, of course, and maybe something he can pick up or drop as he pleases for fun, since he'd be an all-American guy no matter where he was born.

He'd be smart, absolutely brilliant, even. He'd be geeky, too--he'd enjoy video games, and like watching animated movies, play D&D or Magic, have models of the Starship Enterprise(s), and know how to program a computer. He'd like books, and have spent more time in college actually learning than partying.

He'd also have a strong moral character. He wouldn't smoke, he'd avoid breaking the law, he'd try to play the good samaritan when he had the opportunity, he'd stay out of debt, and be kind to children and animals. He'd be Christian, but not the scary sort that tend to give Christians a bad name. He'd manage to do all this because it was right, without being critical of others who failed to live up to his personal standards.

He'd also be optimistic, dominant, and snuggly.

And when he saw me, he'd be unable to keep his eyes off me. He might not say anything--just watch me. It would be like the rest of the world had vanished for him, and I was the only thing that remained. But of course, he would eventually say something to me--perhaps ask me to dance, or play a game with him, or compliment my hair. (He could ask me to dance in a grocery store--and we'd do it, too, just for fun!)

Then he'd kiss me while we were dancing, slow and soft at first, and my mind would go blank. The voices in my head would shut up for a while and it would just be pure sensation--his arms around me, his lips against mine, his body close--and for a little while, that would be all I needed. Air, water, shelter...all overrated. We'd have each other.
Keb, I want in on yours! That sounds like my fantasy man, minus the long hair and models of the Starship Enterprise
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Not even a giant Lego model of the Enterprise version NCC-1701D? ::drools::
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Hahaha.

I'd be extra-thrilled with someone who'll go to Disney theme parks with me and like it. Someone who'll listen to my monthsworth of Disney attraction audio without bitching and moaning. Someone who can stand hours of my babbling about mid 20th century transatlantic luxury liners and Saturn V rockets and the 1964-65 New York World's Fair and the Unisphere and...

Sigh. I needs me a space-age dude. Who also likes 1880. And 1912. And maybe even the English Regency.
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In my fantasy I'd prefer a kind gentleman who has a deep and abiding respect for women intermingled with a deep worshipful love for my plushy body (esp la belly) and my talents.

I am a FA male admirer so while I like all men, I most enjoy the thick-as-a-brick man who sinks when you put him in water. In my fantasy he would dress nicely when we went out and be unafraid of dancing, eating, and singing. He would be a big charming fellow who still always puts his woman first and foremost and shows how proud he is to be with her. Kids and animals would flock to him. And he would still keep most of those old fashioned manners so many have forgotten.

I also fantasize that he would have a tendency to do things himself and build things. That way he could build me a house and restore me a nice 1940's car. He would enjoy car camping, truck-stops, and diner stops. He would love to cook and be agile in the kitchen as well as elsewhere.

He would be lusty and vigorous in the bedroom, combine it with music almost like a dance and he would love retro lingerie and hot rod red.

Is Guy Fieri single? Hehe.
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1. My intelligence equivalent or someone smarter. Ability to spell and construct complex sentences is a plus. I actually prefer someone who's way smarter, but not condescending about it. I have a really hard time respecting someone who lacks in the brain department. But I wouldn't want someone who has a superiority complex because their IQ is high. No thanks.

2. A gentleman. A man who'll respect my boundaries and knows how to be tender and nice to me.

3. Someone who can appreciate my quirks and my odd sense of humor. I am not a fan of super sensitive men who easily take offense to my jokes.

4. I want a faithful partner who'll be honest enough to break off the relationship rather than cheat on me. I'm a very picky person. I have yet to commit to one man because of my high expectations. I have trust issues and I'm somewhat weary of having my feelings hurt. I'd rather deal with loneliness or a broken heart rather than experience the pain of infidelity.
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Are you having an affair with my husband, because you described him to a "T"!

Seriously though, Nick is almost everything you described, except for the fact that he has a Romanian Accent. I can honestly say that I have married the love of my life and my soulmate. Nick is truly my dream man. .


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Hm...if I could write my dream man into life...

To start with, he'd be about six feet tall, just the right height for me to look into his eyes or rest against his shoulder. His eyes would be a mix of colors--perhaps blue, with patches of orange, or perhaps hazel--but fascinating in that way that interesting eyes always are; a little bit hypnotizing, even. He'd wear his hair long, but not as long as mine. His shoulders would be broad and strong, but his belly a little bit soft and snuggly. His arms would be toned but not ripped...the sort of manly arms that could sweep even me off my feet. (Well, okay, it's pretty easy to get me off my feet, but much harder to keep me off the ground!) And big hands, big enough to make me feel small when he's holding my hand.

His voice would be strong and masculine, capable of carrying over a field or whispering my name in just the right tone to make me melt inside. He might have a hint of a British or Irish accent--just a hint, of course, and maybe something he can pick up or drop as he pleases for fun, since he'd be an all-American guy no matter where he was born.

He'd be smart, absolutely brilliant, even. He'd be geeky, too--he'd enjoy video games, and like watching animated movies, play D&D or Magic, have models of the Starship Enterprise(s), and know how to program a computer. He'd like books, and have spent more time in college actually learning than partying.

He'd also have a strong moral character. He wouldn't smoke, he'd avoid breaking the law, he'd try to play the good samaritan when he had the opportunity, he'd stay out of debt, and be kind to children and animals. He'd be Christian, but not the scary sort that tend to give Christians a bad name. He'd manage to do all this because it was right, without being critical of others who failed to live up to his personal standards.

He'd also be optimistic, dominant, and snuggly.

And when he saw me, he'd be unable to keep his eyes off me. He might not say anything--just watch me. It would be like the rest of the world had vanished for him, and I was the only thing that remained. But of course, he would eventually say something to me--perhaps ask me to dance, or play a game with him, or compliment my hair. (He could ask me to dance in a grocery store--and we'd do it, too, just for fun!)

Then he'd kiss me while we were dancing, slow and soft at first, and my mind would go blank. The voices in my head would shut up for a while and it would just be pure sensation--his arms around me, his lips against mine, his body close--and for a little while, that would be all I needed. Air, water, shelter...all overrated. We'd have each other.
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Ladies, I thought this might be a fun and telling topic.

In your wildest, most persistent fantasies, what is your ideal mate like?

Please describe in detail and go to town. Are you into a certain physical look? Do you have a scenario that you go through in your mind over and over again? What do you desire?

Tell us all about your ideal MAN (or WOMAN!) and don't skimp on the juicy, dreamy details.

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Well, i am married, so I do have that friend,lover, and the man of my dreams!

BUT, My fantasy is quite different.
My wildest fantasy would be me with atleast 2 gorgeous bbws and atleast 4 men. The men would be complete FA's of course. 2 of the the men would be white and 2 would be darker skinned. Body wise for the men, 1 thin guy, 1 bhm, 1 muscle man type, and 1 average guy. All handsome , affectionate, well endowed and long lasting in bed.
We would be in a beautiful hotel room, the floor covered with mattresses, pillows,sex toys, KY, and a variety of condoms aplenty Over in the corner would be a very large Jacuzzi, filled with nice hot water and rose petals. Candles would be on shelving through out the room. Soft music in the back-round would be playing.
The men would cook us a beautiful, delicious dinner! Serve it and feed it too all 3 of us women. Then we all get belly rubs and go relax in the Jacuzzi . The men then can have their dinner while the women are having fun in the hot tub chatting, kissing, feeling, well you get the point.
Then the men would join us in the jacuzzi, joining in the fun.
We would all move to the mattress area filled with goodies. It would be hours and hours of pure sexual enjoyment for all.
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It is very funny how when you fall in love, your dream Fantasy Totally changes.

Before I feel in love- I would have written ,
A six foot two guy. With lighter colored hair ( longer ) . Blue eyes, thin , toned body.
Christian, Artistic, loving, kind, humorous, attentive, adventurous, passionate, kisser, cooker, intelligent, ambitious
who loves all animals, traveling, movies, board games, snuggling, making out, sex,beaches, my since of taste, likes giving me my way ( sometimes)

Now that I am in love- I know he is my Fantasy...
Five foot eight , dark colored hair ( shorter) black eyes, thin, toned body.
Who is Artistic, Ambitious, Intelligent, great Cooker, loving, bossy,great kisser, has a strong since of style and opinion .
Who loves Movies, sex, school, showing me off, traveling, and rubic cubes...
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My fantasy is a fat man (250-500 pounds preferably, love a guy who carries his weight in the belly) who's also tall, charming, intelligent, funny, all those things every girl wants. We would never eat a meal using our own hands, he'd feed me and I'd feed him, and we'd get fatter together. Then once we're absolutely stuffed we'd worship eachothers belly. First starting off by a massage that gets slightly more agressive, then fingering eachothers belly button, until we decide we want to lick and kiss eachothers belly button and immerse our faces in eachothers fat, only stopping so we can feed eachother more, or putting food inside our fat and making the other use their faces to find it.
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