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Old 08-13-2009, 04:11 PM   #51
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Just a quick response as it's been a long night. But my serious response is, size isn't an issue if you are willing to make adjustments in movement/positions if necessary.

The only problem I've heard of from SSBBW friends that I know is if a guy is extremely small in the 2-3inch range. But I think men with that size, would have trouble with any size woman.

Average is also a common term men use, but doesn't really apply at all times. I know many men who think that 6-7 inches is average, when that's definitely not the case. I believe the actual average is 4.9-5.3 inches. Not saying you are not applicable, but just saying based on men I've spoken to or have been intimate that thought they were average and weren't.

In closing, you have the benefit of being skinny. Skinny boys work very well with giant fatties. You get into nooks and secret spots easier then if you were bulky. Also, if this is something that isn't just a curiousity but a worry for you, I'd say concentrate on other "fun" things that doesn't involve penetration until you are more comfy with said SSBBW. If she makes you feel inadequate in any way, then find someone else to get horizontal with.
thats a good point, I've always been an on top kind of girl and being on top a skinny guy is much easier when spreading my legs and it allows for more contact between our bodies (in my experience)
I weigh 305 so I dont know how it is for larger women but I'm comfortable on top and it allows me to control the movement that works best for me whether the guy is on the larger or smaller side.
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Old 08-16-2009, 11:13 PM   #52
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What she said.

I know its cliche, but I definitely view it in the same way. Even if you're big pantsologically it doesn't get you off the hook much. It's like any other tool: you can have a big hammer, but it doesn't actually mean much until you learn to swing it. And that being said, guys with smaller hammers can out-swing you any day if you don't learn how to use yours.

And being with a BBW/SSBBW doesn't really diminish the ease of the sexual experience, especially as it pertains pantsologically. Sure, there are some positions that work better and some that work worse, but in general fat sex with someone you love is as good as it gets. In the right context, don't hesitate.
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Old 08-16-2009, 11:14 PM   #53
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thats a good point, I've always been an on top kind of girl and being on top a skinny guy is much easier when spreading my legs and it allows for more contact between our bodies (in my experience)
I weigh 305 so I dont know how it is for larger women but I'm comfortable on top and it allows me to control the movement that works best for me whether the guy is on the larger or smaller side.
Exactly!

Now if you were my size and height (soo short), your partner would have to be slim in order to be on top. Or you'd weeble wobble off.. no matter how hard you tried to balance.

So for those with this problem, find a bed with a sturdy headboard or a tall dresser right near the bed for reaching out to balance with.
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This topic may go well or it may go poorly, but know that it was started with the best of intentions.

(Yes, yes, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. I've seen the bumper sticker.)

OK, so as I've admitted before, I am a perfectly average guy in the penis category. I have never had sex with a BBW/SSBBW. My question is, should I be worried that my eventual go at the greener pastures will end in tears and frustration because I won't be able to "reach?" How have other average guys dealt with it? I know where there's a will, there's a way, but I'm sure even Thomas the Tank Engine gets derailed sometimes.
Don't worry pal. Despite I don't have those problams, i got some solutions to help. 1. Try viagra (if you have an ego prblem do it secretly). 2. This may sound wierd but get yourself a lil aroused b4 sex. 3. If all else fails, let your gal do all the work . Those suggestion should keep the fuel burning.
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Old 08-17-2009, 12:56 AM   #55
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I'm gonna join the average club, and tell you that where there's a will, there's a way. Trust me, Mini, once you get your first nekkid BBW in front of you, you won't be average any more.
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Old 08-20-2009, 10:33 AM   #56
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what would the average size be???
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Old 08-20-2009, 01:12 PM   #57
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what would the average size be???
If memory serves, the last science page I read that included the topic mentioned the average length of the male appendage is in the range of 4-5 inch on the low end and 6-7 on the high end. I'm sure with the right search terms and some patience to weed out the porn links it can be found in a google search. I just dont have that much patience today.
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If memory serves, the last science page I read that included the topic mentioned the average length of the male appendage is in the range of 4-5 inch on the low end and 6-7 on the high end. I'm sure with the right search terms and some patience to weed out the porn links it can be found in a google search. I just dont have that much patience today.
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I did a little search and overall the consenus seems to be that approxately 55% of men are between 5.5-6.5 in. in length...Which makes me feel like I should get into the dirty movie biz
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I did a little search and overall the consenus seems to be that approxately 55% of men are between 5.5-6.5 in. in length...Which makes me feel like I should get into the dirty movie biz
Must...fight...urge...to...ask...

I think creativity is the key. If you're a big man (by "big" I mean weight- and height-wise), it might be a little more difficult mechanically (lots of rolls to get around on both sides) and if you have smaller-than-average junk, that may present a problem. But if you're a close couple, you should be able to talk about it without it being embarrassing or off-putting. There are always WAYS to make love, even if penetration isn't exactly possible.

For a thinner or average-weight guy who has an average sized diddle stick (or even smaller than average), I don't see a problem, honestly. I think it would be quite fun trying to figure out what works and what doesn't as long as I don't end up feeling like Gulliver being mulled over by a Lilliputian, it's all good.
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For a thinner or average-weight guy who has an average sized diddle stick (or even smaller than average), I don't see a problem, honestly. I think it would be quite fun trying to figure out what works and what doesn't as long as I don't end up feeling like Gulliver being mulled over by a Lilliputian, it's all good.[/QUOTE]

u are funny
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But alas, looks aren't everything... *sigh*
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true true, but what u said was just funny
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It's how I've felt in the past...Being bigger than my partner and having him NOT know what the hell he's doing PERIOD and just making me feel like the whole thing is one big expedition and just NOT fun...Gulliver (me) and the Lilliputian (him). I felt like telling him to just cover me in flour and look for the wet spot...
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It's how I've felt in the past...Being bigger than my partner and having him NOT know what the hell he's doing PERIOD and just making me feel like the whole thing is one big expedition and just NOT fun...Gulliver (me) and the Lilliputian (him). I felt like telling him to just cover me in flour and look for the wet spot...
i see what you mean
handeling a BBW takes a certain skill with either a small one or a big one. I think i have an average one, i am sorry about your past experiance.
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The funny thing is that he totally had the equipment...and I'm pretty *ahem* flexible? But it was just...I dunno...totally awkward lol. He just had no game whatsoever lol
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a man with no game is no good. even if he has equipment
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LMAO...that sounded like a baseball PSA...
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what about a man with samll equipment that has skills?
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My motto is "It's not the size of the boat, it's how you rock it when you dock it"...that pretty much says it all. It's all about technique and (for me) even moreso about how I feel about the person.
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My motto is "It's not the size of the boat, it's how you rock it when you dock it"...that pretty much says it all. It's all about technique and (for me) even moreso about how I feel about the person.
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Yah, ditto (to the post above); this is one of the oldest, meanest fat jokes in the book. Weird to see it on Dims.
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