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Old 10-25-2009, 04:44 PM   #1
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My wife has gained a considerable amount of weight in the 10 years we have been married. She was a bit too skinny for my tastes when we met and now is super hot and sexy with the weight on. Her hips, ass, thighs, boobs, tummy-just writing this makes me think of her sexy body-are way hotter to me now. I love to touch, lick, kiss, fondle and suck every inch of her now. I have a hard time keeping my hands off her. The problem is that she can't or won't believe me that I find her much sexier now than before the weight. She has a hard time with sex with all the lights on or walking around naked in front of me or sex in positions that proximately display her loveliness. What can I do to make her realize that I find her sexier and am more attracted to her with the weight? What can I do to make her comfortable being naked around me? Confidence would add to the sexiness and I want her to be confident and know what a hot sexy babe she is. I want her to feel as sexy as she used and understand that sexy women come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. She keeps insisting that I am just being kind. Iím just being honest. Any advice?
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Old 11-03-2009, 04:40 PM   #2
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OK, crazy idea but my wife became more confident about herself after catching me looking at fat porn. It was uncomfortable for a while, but it gave me the opportunity to exaplain what I really liked. I've always said I enjoyed all her curves, especially the extra ones, but she didn't really believe me.

Hope that helps!
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Old 11-05-2009, 09:31 AM   #3
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Proceed with caution about the pr0n though. There are people who totally flip out over their SOs pr0n usage. It might be too much. If she has a meltdown this would be counter productive to your ultimate goal of letting her know that you dig HER and not some waist wobbler in a pr0n video.

Instead of man handling her and chomping on her bits, maybe you can try more subtle things since the whole "wildly attracted" angle is already covered. It will cost you though. Take her for a romantic evening out on the town. Buy her some flowers and have them sent to her job just because. Hold her hand, etc. Do some things that let her know she is loved, cherished and special. If this is out of your range personality wise, fake it. Seriously, us chicks dig that shit. It will work.
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Old 11-05-2009, 09:40 AM   #4
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Just tell her how much you love her.Let her know that she is perfect.Just a thought.
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I agree...you clearly love your lady for who she is.

Let her know she's still sexy and beautiful regardless of what her scale says.

Just tell her.

My best to you, sir.


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Old 11-05-2009, 09:41 PM   #6
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Yeah that can go either way. My wife has no problem with porn in general, but SSBBW girls kinda scare her. She sees that I adore a 500lb girl, then she feels like maybe her 200ish lbs isn't enough for me. And since she has no desire to be much bigger, then feels kinda bad about it.

So, just be careful.... get porn with girls about her size i guess.

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