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Old 10-30-2009, 03:40 PM   #1
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I feel that I can share with everyone that I lost my husband 3 weeks ago. He died of a brain aneurism. His mind was gone before he left the driveway in the ambulance, his body lived for 4 days after the aneurism. He wasn't in there, in his body.

As some of you know, I have been working very hard to get healthy, get my diabetes under control, losing weight, all in the expectation of giving my husband 25 years. He always said, 25 years but as it happened it was only 12 years. I am grateful for those 12 years. He was a good man and loved me like no one ever has.

Life is short. Please don't ever take for granted that they'll always be there because sometimes they can be sitting in a chair with a headache and an hour later they can be gone. It has taken me a while to bring this here. The pain is almost unbearable. Just always remember to show the people in your life how much you love them. Always let them know...
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Old 10-30-2009, 03:43 PM   #2
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Steely, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love and prayers.
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Old 10-30-2009, 03:55 PM   #3
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I am so very sorry for your loss... Good thoughts and prayers all the way from Canada!
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Old 10-30-2009, 03:58 PM   #4
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Oh my goodness, Steely!! I am SO sorry!! I wish I could do something for you. You are in my thoughts.
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:02 PM   #5
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I am so so sorry for the loss of your husband Steely. Sending you all my love xxxx
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:04 PM   #6
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I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Many happy thoughts being sent your way.
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:09 PM   #7
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:12 PM   #8
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My condolences Steely. Sorry for your loss.
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:12 PM   #9
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Steely, I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))

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Old 10-30-2009, 04:13 PM   #10
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Steely, I'm so very sorry. You have my deepest sympathy.
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:14 PM   #11
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I'm sorry for your loss Steely.
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:22 PM   #12
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Oh, Steely, I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm so glad you were blessed with twelve wonderful years together.
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:50 PM   #13
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You have my deepest sympathies.
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Old 10-30-2009, 04:55 PM   #14
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Oh steely, I am so very sorry to hear that Wish I could give you a hug.

Sincerest condolences and my support....
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Old 10-30-2009, 05:02 PM   #15
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I don't know what to say. I'm sorry.
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Old 10-30-2009, 05:05 PM   #16
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Steely, I hope you have people around to love you and be there for you at this time. My deepest sympathies for your loss.
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Old 10-30-2009, 05:11 PM   #17
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Old 10-30-2009, 05:56 PM   #18
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My deepest of sympathies, Steely. And I'm going to take your advice about not holding back with the people I love.

I wish you much love and support as you cope with your grief.
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Old 10-30-2009, 05:57 PM   #19
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Steely, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
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Old 10-30-2009, 06:14 PM   #20
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Amy, so very, very sorry to hear of your loss.

I was wondering where you've been, haven't seen you posting ... I'm so sorry to hear it was because of a tragedy of this magnitude.

Thanks so much for sharing this, though. I will go out and hug my husband right now ... We can never take our loved ones, or our own life, for granted.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry.
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Old 10-30-2009, 06:15 PM   #21
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Steely, I'm sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.
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Old 10-30-2009, 06:23 PM   #22
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Steely, there are no words to make you feel better, just know, when you are down, we are here to help lift you up. hugs...and strength...
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Old 10-30-2009, 06:41 PM   #23
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So very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts. Please surround yourself with loving family and friends. It will help.
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