Male FAs with gay tendencies

[SSBBW Katerina]

I actually know quite a few gents ['FAs' & non-FA] that fit that. Quietly Bi, I guess yet totally monogamous to the woman they're with/ married to and told them about their identity from get go. I've asked them if they've ever engaged in MMF or MFM/ 3 somes. Only one actually did it when he was in his 20s & stoned. ROFL!! He's in his 50s now. Otherwise the guys I know are single and married, they know what turns them on, as most of us do, but they don't just jump any stray that crosses their path. And the chaps I know have never cheated on their lover/ spouse or partner. Although there are some guys, and dolls, that do; str8 or bi.

It's like just because they see the statues of 'David' or 'The Thinker' in a museum, they enjoy & admire it. They don't run up, scurry onto it & try dry humping it.

Now if its been a long while & they're single & totally unattached to anyone, male or female, then notify those museums to put extra security, and a cleanup crew, around those sculptures cuz they won't stand a chance.

Toodles from a gal whose been 'with' bi guys,
Katerina

[trackstar]

I have heard the stereotype numerous times that male Fa's were gay or bi. I'm still a closeted fa, and nobody I've heard this from has been an Fa, so they say it like this. "A guy with a fat fetish? Isn't that like all gay guys?"

I've heard a lot of snippets that allude to this though on tv, or overhearing conversations throughout my life... Its similar to the older stereotype that gay men are pedophiles (this isn't as popular as it used to be. There is alot more acceptance now)

[natepogue]

I've never heard this.

I actually consider myself the exact opposite of gay. I feel like my FAness is what makes me so awesomely straight

However, I do have a friend who likes "thick" girls (big butts, nice tummy) and recently came out as bisexual.

My opinion on this, and bisexuality in all men, is as follows:

Women are universally appealing and sexually attractive
even the gayest of gay men have been known to have sex with women. If a guy is Bi, my opinion is that he is gay but can't help that women are attractive too (women are just THAT damn good )
Some may disagree, but I think women (especially big girls) are just so sexually attractive that even gay guys wouldn't mind being with them, and therefore consider themselves Bi.... but they're just gay foremost.

[Blackjack]

Originally Posted by natepogue

I've never heard this.

I actually consider myself the exact opposite of gay. I feel like my FAness is what makes me so awesomely straight

However, I do have a friend who likes "thick" girls (big butts, nice tummy) and recently came out as bisexual.

My opinion on this, and bisexuality in all men, is as follows:

Women are universally appealing and sexually attractive
even the gayest of gay men have been known to have sex with women. If a guy is Bi, my opinion is that he is gay but can't help that women are attractive too (women are just THAT damn good )
Some may disagree, but I think women (especially big girls) are just so sexually attractive that even gay guys wouldn't mind being with them, and therefore consider themselves Bi.... but they're just gay foremost.

[willowmoon]

Originally Posted by natepogue

I've never heard this.

I actually consider myself the exact opposite of gay. I feel like my FAness is what makes me so awesomely straight

However, I do have a friend who likes "thick" girls (big butts, nice tummy) and recently came out as bisexual.

My opinion on this, and bisexuality in all men, is as follows:

Women are universally appealing and sexually attractive
even the gayest of gay men have been known to have sex with women. If a guy is Bi, my opinion is that he is gay but can't help that women are attractive too (women are just THAT damn good )
Some may disagree, but I think women (especially big girls) are just so sexually attractive that even gay guys wouldn't mind being with them, and therefore consider themselves Bi.... but they're just gay foremost.

Here you go, you earned it.

[natepogue]

So what are you guys mad about? I'm assuming you're both bisexual because nothing I said was "fail" and was all purely my opinion.

[Christov]

Originally Posted by natepogue

So what are you guys mad about? I'm assuming you're both bisexual because nothing I said was "fail" and was all purely my opinion.

[CastingPearls]

Actually Nate, since you just said by your own admission that all bisexual men are actually gay, you're saying they're gay*

LOLOLOLOL Yeah, okay.



*Not that there's anything wrong with that. LOL

[Angel]

Originally Posted by natepogue

I've never heard this.

I actually consider myself the exact opposite of gay. I feel like my FAness is what makes me so awesomely straight

However, I do have a friend who likes "thick" girls (big butts, nice tummy) and recently came out as bisexual.

My opinion on this, and bisexuality in all men, is as follows:

Women are universally appealing and sexually attractive
even the gayest of gay men have been known to have sex with women. If a guy is Bi, my opinion is that he is gay but can't help that women are attractive too (women are just THAT damn good )
Some may disagree, but I think women (especially big girls) are just so sexually attractive that even gay guys wouldn't mind being with them, and therefore consider themselves Bi.... but they're just gay foremost.

Originally Posted by natepogue

So what are you guys mad about? I'm assuming you're both bisexual because nothing I said was "fail" and was all purely my opinion.

Your opinions are just that - your opinions. How many gay or bisexual men have you interviewed in depth? If you are indeed "the exact opposite of gay" and "so awesomely straight" how can you know how gay or bisexual men feel with regards to their sexuality and with regards to what arouses them?

Just to clarify, your opinion seems to be based on your thoughts alone and NOT on any facts or data. Have you ever taken any human sexuality courses at all?


Both your opinions and your assumptions are seriously flawed; and without merit.

By the way, attempting to label two men as bisexual just because they find fault with your opinions speaks volumns as to how you really feel about gay or bisexual men.

[willowmoon]

Originally Posted by natepogue

So what are you guys mad about? I'm assuming you're both bisexual because nothing I said was "fail" and was all purely my opinion.

Well, I'm hardly mad at all, nor am I bisexual (or gay, for that matter.) But your quote of "even the gayest of gay men have been known to have sex with women" just seems rather far-fetched. Angel summed up everything perfectly in her post, so I won't restate what she has said already.

I wish you well on your quest for clarity, though.

Godspeed.

[natepogue]

Originally Posted by willowmoon

Well, I'm hardly mad at all, nor am I bisexual (or gay, for that matter.) But your quote of "even the gayest of gay men have been known to have sex with women" just seems rather far-fetched. Angel summed up everything perfectly in her post, so I won't restate what she has said already.

I wish you well on your quest for clarity, though.

Godspeed.

Far fetched? I've heard of plenty of gay men who have had sex with women.

[Christov]

Originally Posted by natepogue

Far fetched? I've heard of plenty of gay men who have had sex with women.

Really. Do tell.

And while you're at it, please explain how what you've 'heard' is meant to apply to the gayest of men and so on.

[LalaCity]

Nate, you really do need to get out more.

[willowmoon]

Originally Posted by natepogue

Far fetched? I've heard of plenty of gay men who have had sex with women.

Nate, you're the only person I know who, when on a ship, sees an iceberg ahead and plows straight into it expecting an outcome different than that of reality.

I'm guessing this would be the dialogue ...

First officer: ICEBERG AHEAD !!!!!

Nate: F**k it, full speed ahead! Oh, and I almost forgot ... come at me 'bro.

[LisaInNC]

OK OK I know a lot of gay men and the majority of them have had sex with women. I am not taking up for this guy, but he is not making this up. I even know a couple of gay guys who have told me they would like to have sex with me.

[gobettiepurple]

Originally Posted by LisaInNC

OK OK I know a lot of gay men and the majority of them have had sex with women. I am not taking up for this guy, but he is not making this up. I even know a couple of gay guys who have told me they would like to have sex with me.

I am not trying to fuel the fire, but for every gay guy that you know that wants to sleep with a woman, someone else [like me] knows a ton of them that are so grossed out by boobs they were never even think of being intimate with a woman.

Its called circular logic, and it doesn't lead as anywhere, people.

Some people are gay, some are straight, some are somewhere in between. [I've always held the personal opinion that bisexuals are greedy, but its more for fun than based in actual facts] plus, I have always been of the opinion that someone's sexual identity and predilictions are their own to decide, because who are we to decide what is for them, acceptable.

I think that a lot of FA's are "similar" to gay men in their love for fat women as friends - behind every strong bbw, there is a gay that loves her for who she is because he knows how hard it is to live against what society considers "normal" and "beautiful". Its our mutual admiration for our differences that makes the rag-tag-fag-hag group so strong.

I think FA's might agree that having fat women as friends means being a champion for their cause just like gay men would and the dynamic is similar, at least before they fall in love with said bbw

[natepogue]

Originally Posted by LisaInNC

OK OK I know a lot of gay men and the majority of them have had sex with women. I am not taking up for this guy, but he is not making this up. I even know a couple of gay guys who have told me they would like to have sex with me.

Christov owned.

I wasn't making it up, many gay men have sex with women. And like I said, even the "gayest" ones.

[Christov]

Originally Posted by natepogue

Christov owned.

I wasn't making it up, many gay men have sex with women. And like I said, even the "gayest" ones.

How am I owned?

You pull something out of your ass, somebody else vaguely backs it up, and suddenly it becomes undisputed fact?

[MisterGuy]

I knew a gay guy once who I think got blown by a girl. True story.

[Wild Zero]

But my cousin Walter jerked off in public once. True story. He was on a plane to New Mexico when all of the sudden the hydraulics went. The plane started spinning around, going out of control, so he decides it's all over and whips it out and starts beating it right there. So all the other passengers take a cue from him and they start whipping it out and beating like mad. So all the passengers are beating off, plummeting to their certain doom, when all of the sudden, snap! The hydraulics kick back in. The plane rights itself and it land safely and everyone puts their pieces or, whatever, you know, away and deboard. No one mentions the phenomenon to anyone else.

[MisterGuy]

Originally Posted by Wild Zero

But my cousin Walter jerked off in public once. True story. He was on a plane to New Mexico when all of the sudden the hydraulics went. The plane started spinning around, going out of control, so he decides it's all over and whips it out and starts beating it right there. So all the other passengers take a cue from him and they start whipping it out and beating like mad. So all the passengers are beating off, plummeting to their certain doom, when all of the sudden, snap! The hydraulics kick back in. The plane rights itself and it land safely and everyone puts their pieces or, whatever, you know, away and deboard. No one mentions the phenomenon to anyone else.

I think this proves the fact that all gay guys want to fuck women.

[CarlaSixx]

Most of my friends are gay. Only 3 have had sex with women, and only 2 would do it again. It's a topic that's often discussed in my group of friends. Saying all gay men would have sex with a woman is pulling something from your ass.

[natepogue]

Seems like my point is being proven by people who dislike me and my opinion and so they don't want to admit my statement had much basis.

[Christov]

Originally Posted by natepogue

Seems like my point is being proven by people who dislike me and my opinion and so they don't want to admit my statement had much basis.

No dude. You're just talking shit.

[thatgirl08]

I can't figure out the distinction between "gay" and "gayest" like, what makes one man "gayer" than another if they're both gay?