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Old 12-21-2009, 09:01 AM   #26
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I would not be turned off in the least if my partner gained weight. Not at ALL. YUM.

However, I would be turned off if the weight gain caused him to become all self conscious and hate himself. I've had enough in the past of the "self-hating fat man". It's very hard to handle, especially when they start to despise you for having a preference.
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Old 12-22-2009, 06:55 PM   #27
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I think its confusing because if i saw someone who was really thin and then a year later i saw them and they were fatter then i would find them hotter. Weight gain is not one of my fetishes on others though if someone was thin and they gained weight i would think they were more attractive. gah! I think i'm going to have to say no because it is not a fetish of mine...though i can see how in some cases it could be hot.
ETA-I don't find weight gain un-arousing ie. I wouldn't be turned off if my partner gained weight.
Hi mergirl! I quoted you because you said you weren't sure and I have a specific question that I am curious about, from you and anyone else that might want to answer.

My husband is turned on by weight gain. And he likes to see other women's progress in gaining. But he also likes to see a random girl who might not even be considered big at all, who has obviously gained weight because the clothes she is currently wearing appear to be too tight. So I guess the question is, does it turn you on to see a girl who is wearing clothes that are too tight which indicates she is becoming larger?
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Old 12-22-2009, 08:03 PM   #28
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My husband is turned on by weight gain. And he likes to see other women's progress in gaining. But he also likes to see a random girl who might not even be considered big at all, who has obviously gained weight because the clothes she is currently wearing appear to be too tight. So I guess the question is, does it turn you on to see a girl who is wearing clothes that are too tight which indicates she is becoming larger?
Absolutely. That's why I like seeing stretchmarks and other such things; they may not be sexy in themselves (although tight clothes are, and stretch marks are not necessarily a turnoff, either), but they indicate weight gain, which is crazy hot.
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Agreed.

I'm far more into the idea of a man having gained then him even being big. Like if a shirt is just a little too tight or a belt is on the final hole, or if I can tell he used to be thinner, it's really hot for me.
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Hi mergirl! I quoted you because you said you weren't sure and I have a specific question that I am curious about, from you and anyone else that might want to answer.

My husband is turned on by weight gain. And he likes to see other women's progress in gaining. But he also likes to see a random girl who might not even be considered big at all, who has obviously gained weight because the clothes she is currently wearing appear to be too tight. So I guess the question is, does it turn you on to see a girl who is wearing clothes that are too tight which indicates she is becoming larger?
No..not about becoming larger, for me anyway. I think too tight clothes can be hot because they excentuate the curves that are already there. This is my personal oppinion but i know there are a lot of people that are turned on by this because it is a sign of a gain. Though, yeah tight clothes are hot..can't deny it!
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Agreed.

I'm far more into the idea of a man having gained then him even being big. Like if a shirt is just a little too tight or a belt is on the final hole, or if I can tell he used to be thinner, it's really hot for me.
oh really? So you would prefer to be with a guy who was 200lbs when you knew he had gained say 50lbs in a year than you would be with a guy who was 300lbs who you knew had been that weight for a while?
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Absolutely. That's why I like seeing stretchmarks and other such things; they may not be sexy in themselves (although tight clothes are, and stretch marks are not necessarily a turnoff, either), but they indicate weight gain, which is crazy hot.
See.. i shouldn't have been getting pissed off and buying bigger clothes all year, i should have been wearing the same ones and making porn!!!
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Old 12-23-2009, 02:43 PM   #33
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Huh? What? Oh yes, porn. NOT ENOUGH OF THAT AROUND HERE THESE DAYS.

Remember if you post in the thread, vote in the poll! There seems to be a bit of disconnect between the responses in the thread (a lot of "no, not exactly") and the responses in the poll (mostly "oh fuck yes!").
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Old 12-27-2009, 03:18 AM   #34
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Old 12-27-2009, 12:30 PM   #35
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Weight gain is definitely arousing to me...but to a certain extent...i don't want my gf to become a permanent fixture on my couch or bed.
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Old 12-28-2009, 04:16 PM   #36
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In an abstract, fantasy kind of way, the idea of women gaining weight is hot. I've never had real experience with it, and I've never found myself wanting anyone I've been with to gain weight.
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Old 12-28-2009, 05:26 PM   #37
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I find a "too thin" man gaining some weight in the right places makes him look more appealing....that being said, I don't think it's the gaining that I like but rather the end results
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Old 12-29-2009, 03:15 AM   #38
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No, I do not find weight gain arousing, I just like big women.

I am actually very surprised by these results. I always thought that FAs who are aroused by weight gain were a minority. I wonder if FAs who find it arousing are over-represented here because they are more inclined to answer the poll?
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No, I do not find weight gain arousing, I just like big women.

I am actually very surprised by these results. I always thought that FAs who are aroused by weight gain were a minority. I wonder if FAs who find it arousing are over-represented here because they are more inclined to answer the poll?
Good question. I don't think a majority of FAs are put off by weight gain, it's usually the bigger the better for most FAs and for me it's like that, but to a certain extent. Like, if my gf was 300lbs and she puts on 50lbs throughout the next few years, would I shun her for it? Hell no! I think it's the way the weight is put on where the tastes differ as far as weight gain is concerned.
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:49 AM   #40
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I'm an FFA. Weight gain is arousing on me but not on him. Should I put no?
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Old 12-29-2009, 11:01 AM   #42
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An observation that (hopefully) is within the bounds of this topic;

If, as FA/FFAs, we can look at a thin person (of the gender/s we are attracted to) and conclude... with certainty... that the person in question is less attractive than they would be to us if he/she were fat instead... then are we not all, to some extent, interested by the idea of weight gain? This statement presumes that being an FA means you at least prefer large partners (even if one is a bisizual FA/FFA...) but I think thats a reasonable assumption to make.

In general... if all else remains equal, the FA/FFA's natural condition is to see aesthetic beauty in a large body. Correspondingly, one could make an argument that all FAs are inherently into weight gain. It seems like the nuance here is in whether the FA/FFA is attracted to a process of gaining or the outcome of having gained (and thus being 'not thin').

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OMG! The Weight gain on a BBW really gets me sweating & all excited.
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It seems like the nuance here is in whether the FA/FFA is attracted to a process of gaining or the outcome of having gained (and thus being 'not thin').
That actually sounds like an idea for yet ANOTHER thread. I love how these things snowball like this.
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It seems like the nuance here is in whether the FA/FFA is attracted to a process of gaining or the outcome of having gained (and thus being 'not thin').
That is how I (and I think most people) interpreted the question anyway. Was I wrong with this interpretation? I am just attracted to big women as they are, but the process of gaining in itself does not attract me. Knowing that she gained some weight recently does not make a woman more attractive or arousing to me.

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That actually sounds like an idea for yet ANOTHER thread. I love how these things snowball like this.
See above: not sure that requires a new thread, unless I have misunderstood this one.
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Old 12-29-2009, 11:21 PM   #46
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You can like fat women and not care about if they've gained weight doing so (obviously they have.) You can also like fat women BUT find the road they took to get there (the process of gaining) arousing; the yes or no answer to that is what this thread is about.

I find the gain itself to be extremely sexy. I also think that there are some who find the gain sexier than the big man or woman themself, and that's what the other thread is about.

Does that help?
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At times. It's about what and what for me. lol
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not really no, i find a big appetite really sexy (especially when it's something i've cooked) and i certainly don't mind it, but it's not something i could ever see myself doing personally or encouraging my partner to do.
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On a woman: always and forever. Something I have never understood but embrace the excitement and arousal watching a woman gain weight
On me: I have always harbored the desire. With the right woman I think I would indeed gain b/c I find mutual gaining and encouraging so erotic and sensual.
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