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Old 03-15-2011, 05:54 PM   #151
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Aggressive as in letting her desires be known, a HUGE turn on...aggressive as in inflicting pain and/or humiliation, not so much,
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Old 03-17-2011, 02:40 PM   #152
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I absolutely love it when a woman makes the first move or indicates that she is attracted to me. Major turn on! eehehee
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Old 03-17-2011, 02:53 PM   #153
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This thread title bothers me. I know Dims is fatland, but honestly, what does "BBW" have to do with anything in this case?

It makes it sound like there's something distinctive about a sexually aggressive fat woman vs. sexually aggressive women in general, which is how people who dislike fat people think--that any sexual gesture from a fat woman is embarrassing--and aggressive by definition--because she's not supposed to have them/inflict them on other people. In the context of Dims, the phrasing seems esp odd. Why make the distinction?

Just noting.
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Old 03-18-2011, 07:02 AM   #154
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As a guy I have to say that I like an agressive woman. I'm happily married and I can't say that it has happened in a VERY long time with anyone else but even with my wife I hate being in the drivers seat all of the time. She might sugggest, but I have to interpret and decide what she REALLY means. Is said something she is interested in doing, or is interesting in the way a purple house is "interesting" (appologies to all of you living in purple houses). I also think this is where a lot of confusion comes from. I had a friend growing up that interpretted every glance and nicety as "she wants me" even though they would tell me what a creep they thought he was, and not in a "I think he's a creep, but I really want him" sort of way. I also grew up with 5 girls so I am very comfortable talking with women. I think I am better talking with women than men most of the time. I think it has been since I was a teen/early twenties and I was rockin the Don Johnson look (it was cool then) that a woman has thrown herself at me.

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Old 03-18-2011, 06:02 PM   #155
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This thread title bothers me. I know Dims is fatland, but honestly, what does "BBW" have to do with anything in this case?

It makes it sound like there's something distinctive about a sexually aggressive fat woman vs. sexually aggressive women in general, which is how people who dislike fat people think--that any sexual gesture from a fat woman is embarrassing--and aggressive by definition--because she's not supposed to have them/inflict them on other people. In the context of Dims, the phrasing seems esp odd. Why make the distinction?

Just noting.
I think it's an important difference to note because it's part of the culture of bigotry against fat women. It's that old stereotype of the fat girl chasing a reluctant man, from Looney Tunes cartoons to the Pirates of the Caribbean, from Misery to lovely Wendy Jo Sperber's Amy pursuing Peter Scolari's Henry on Bosom Buddies, to Miss Piggy/Kermit, and more. The dominant culture seems to have come to accepting aggressive women but only as long as they fit the ideal "hottie" image and only in certain fantastical situations. Any woman deemed unattractive, whether that means fat, old, anything that doesn't fit the cookie cutter, et cetera, is still considered joke material and worse.
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