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Old 02-14-2010, 04:40 PM   #1
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Hi All,
I've been reading this forum for a while now and finally decided to sign on / start posting. I'm kind of concerned that I don't fit the model. I'm reading some postings where the FFA's are going for guys who are 400+ 500+ etc and I'm just high 200's/low300's at 5'9"

And only recently have I hit the 300+ mark. I'm a pretty active guy and I think carrying any more weight would pretty much stop me in my tracks. Is there a middle ground that's ok? Because, I'm definitely not thin, but I'm not what you would call a SSBHM either.

For reference here's a pic of me after eating it on a snowboard jump.
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Old 02-14-2010, 04:48 PM   #2
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Well you are pretty big and I would consider you a BHM..
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Old 02-14-2010, 04:57 PM   #3
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I was worried about being too middle of the road I guess
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Old 02-14-2010, 06:04 PM   #4
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Hi All,
I've been reading this forum for a while now and finally decided to sign on / start posting. I'm kind of concerned that I don't fit the model. I'm reading some postings where the FFA's are going for guys who are 400+ 500+ etc and I'm just high 200's/low300's at 5'9"

And only recently have I hit the 300+ mark. I'm a pretty active guy and I think carrying any more weight would pretty much stop me in my tracks. Is there a middle ground that's ok? Because, I'm definitely not thin, but I'm not what you would call a SSBHM either.

For reference here's a pic of me after eating it on a snowboard jump.
welcome 4wd I agree you fit as a BHM....some of us actually PREFER BHM to SSBHM......
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some of us actually PREFER BHM to SSBHM......
And some of us are connoisseurs of the entire range.

With your stats, you're very likely in BHM territory. But we probably need belly pics. You know...just to be sure.
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Old 02-14-2010, 07:51 PM   #6
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*blush* Being that i've spent most of my life keeping my belly covered I don't have any pics of it....yet

thank you all for the kind words, an awesome welcome to the forums :-)
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Old 02-14-2010, 08:30 PM   #7
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Hey, you're still bigger than me... I'm only about 260 (if the scale can be trusted, which it can't) and I'm still here.
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*blush* Being that i've spent most of my life keeping my belly covered I don't have any pics of it....yet

thank you all for the kind words, an awesome welcome to the forums :-)
Yes but you could take some. Believe me they are well received around here.

Oh, and you bring the "H" most definitely. And lots of women here love smaller BHM or love, as it put above, the "entire range" so no worries about being too small.
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Old 02-14-2010, 11:36 PM   #9
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As a petite BHM myself (198.9 lbs) I've also found my place in this forum to be awkward at times. Take pride in who you are 4wdBHM, no matter what size you are... and don't dwell on what other people may think of that. BTW, I noticed that you have an Ubuntu Linux avatar.... That by itself makes you OK in my book. Just sayin'...
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As a petite BHM myself (198.9 lbs) I've also found my place in this forum to be awkward at times. Take pride in who you are 4wdBHM, no matter what size you are... and don't dwell on what other people may think of that. BTW, I noticed that you have an Ubuntu Linux avatar.... That by itself makes you OK in my book. Just sayin'...
All this talk of Linux makes me think of crossing this thread with the sex positions thread:

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I remember back when pushing the turbo button was the thing that everyone was doing...
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I lol'ed. Improvement on the original thread, in my opinion. Anyway, welcome, 4wdBHM!
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4wdBHM I think you will be fine here I wouldn't worry about it.
Post pics of your belly when you can.If I can speak for the ladies here we do love the eye candy.
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Are you saying it isn't cool anymore?



Man, what do ya do when your applications can't deal with a 75MHz Processor speed?

While we are talking about old computers: what if we had comptuers 100 years ago?

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i've spent most of my life keeping my belly covered I don't have any pics of it....yet
That's a crime around these parts. tsk tsk *waves finger* Shooowwwwwww and tell.
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That's a crime around these parts. tsk tsk *waves finger* Shooowwwwwww and tell.
Hey give him a break, he hasn't reached the point where its actually hard to cover his belly.....(yet)...
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good point escapist,

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I love guys between 230 and 330, although obviously depends on the guy. You're exactly in my size range preference Welcome to the boards!
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The ones who think you need to be >400 lbs (or some other arbitrary number) to be a "bhm" need to stfu....
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Yeah, I think we need to use something like BMI or at least waist measurement to get a better idea of what's what. Unless you're talking about numbers of 400+, how big a guy is at a certain weight can vary massively. I'm 225 now and just crept past the 50" waist mark because I'm just 5'3" (listens to the stampede of FFA height queens rushing to move to the next message ). That's big. But, for example, a guy who's 6'5" would be even a bit skinny at 225.
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You're big, you're handsome, you're a man. You certainly qualify to be a BHM. This isn't like Hollywood where one size fits all. There are ladies on here that like men of all sizes, so don't be ashamed of what you've got.
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While we are talking about old computers: what if we had comptuers 100 years ago?
I don't know what's more retro: the turbo button or that steampunk case mod?

I had a 486 with a turbo button back in the mid 90's. I never knew it actually had a use. I thought it was some kind of weird prank or marketing gimmick, like tail fins or racing stripes. It certainly didn't seem to do anything--the computer was slow as heck with or without it on.
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Don't want to help derail the thread, but I cannot not reply and show my dinosauritude.

My first PC (I had other computers before that) was a Turbo AT. Turbo because a normal AT was 8 MHz, but when I flicked the turbo button, it ran at 12.5 MHz! And you know, it WAS noticably faster.
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Yeah, I think we need to use something like BMI or at least waist measurement to get a better idea of what's what. Unless you're talking about numbers of 400+, how big a guy is at a certain weight can vary massively. I'm 225 now and just crept past the 50" waist mark because I'm just 5'3" (listens to the stampede of FFA height queens rushing to move to the next message ). That's big. But, for example, a guy who's 6'5" would be even a bit skinny at 225.
Yep, I would be FREAKISHLY skinny at 225.

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I had a 486 with a turbo button back in the mid 90's. I never knew it actually had a use. I thought it was some kind of weird prank or marketing gimmick, like tail fins or racing stripes. It certainly didn't seem to do anything--the computer was slow as heck with or without it on.
The turbo button was for older applications that couldn't compensate for the increase in speed. Now days thats all done via the windows API (Application Program Interface). This is also by the way how "Speed Hacks" work in gaming. By using a secondary application to hook into the game and lie to it/windows and increase processor resources. Soooo yeah, depending on the applications you were running you would notice a difference with the turbo button on, and yes it was standard (by design) to leave it on unless the slow down was needed.

I'm sorry man, Steam Punk Rocks!

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Haha wow! I can't keep up with the posts!

But yeah, recently moved to Linux after being forced by Vista, still have a few XP boxes lying around

I love the Penguin Positions, that's awesome

Belly pics ....sometime ;-) That looks so funny reading it

And I'm loving this positive feedback everyone!

Oh and I noticed a quote above by Anthony Bourdain, I love No Reservations!
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