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Old 03-14-2010, 02:07 PM   #1
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Default "Out" F/FAs - shout out!

I'm sick of so much discussion hinging on the idea that most F/FAs are shamefaced closet cases. It'd be great if we could explode this for the myth I expect/hope it is. So if you're unashamedly, openly, a lover of girls or guys that are bigger - please shout out in this thread!
Me for one.

And I posted this on the main board cos I wanted it to be widely visible to non F/FAs too...
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Old 03-14-2010, 02:49 PM   #2
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Old 03-14-2010, 02:54 PM   #3
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I am who I am. I like what I like. I'm also fond of sushi, Leonard Cohen, backgammon, old motorcycles and science fiction; many other things. I'm certainly not ashamed of my tastes but they don't define me either. I can also be friends with and respect those who happen to hate things I like. Liking fat girls isn't an identity or a crusade for me. Yes, it's fundamental to my attraction but not exclusively so. There are several other things that have to be present simultaneously to hold my attention. And even with my limited emotional intelligence I'm clear I've never loved a woman for her size.

You love a whole person, not just one or two aspects of them. So that FA thing? Really just not me. Does that mean after dozens of almost exclusively SS girlfriends and almost 30 net years of marriage to two different SS wives I'm in some horrible, unacceptable closet? Frankly I don't care. See my first two statements.
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Old 03-14-2010, 03:17 PM   #4
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@Ernest - no, you don't have to crusade. Yes, clearly you are an "out" FA.
And thanks for posting all that other stuff, cos one of the next myths on my hitlist was: "F/FAs only care about a fat body." Thank you for exemplifying that as untrue. Me too.
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Old 03-14-2010, 04:19 PM   #5
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FUCK YOU I LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH FAT PEOPLE

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Old 03-14-2010, 05:52 PM   #6
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Old 03-14-2010, 06:51 PM   #7
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WHAT UP, BIZ-NATCH?! *peace sign*

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Old 03-14-2010, 07:30 PM   #8
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Hot, fat biatches make me happy in my underpants Ja, I'm out!
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Old 03-14-2010, 08:15 PM   #9
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Old 03-14-2010, 08:22 PM   #10
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Old 03-14-2010, 09:37 PM   #11
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Old 03-14-2010, 09:40 PM   #12
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Considering my old band of cronies used to call any larger lady they saw a Hayes Special....I'd say I'm pretty out.
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Old 03-14-2010, 09:41 PM   #13
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... So, you're coming out... on a site... that's already for FA's?

What...

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*throws peanuts at you*
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Peanuts or not, the lady has a point. Maybe we should organize a "Call in FA" day...
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Peanuts or not, the lady has a point. Maybe we should organize a "Call in FA" day...
The point of this thread is for people to say that they're not afraid of being an F/A in public. "Out of the closet" so to speak.

Apparently Joswitch has had enough of being labeled a closet case and wishes to speak out *shrugs*
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Old 03-14-2010, 10:06 PM   #18
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Maybe "coming out" was meant in more general life terms, you know, life outside the internet. And even on the net, being on a site, using a pseudonym, and a picture that may or may not reflect your face is not necessarily "out." If that were the case I (and many others) would have to watch some of the other sites I frequent...
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I'm sick of so much discussion hinging on the idea that most F/FAs are shamefaced closet cases. It'd be great if we could explode this for the myth I expect/hope it is. So if you're unashamedly, openly, a lover of girls or guys that are bigger - please shout out in this thread!
Me for one.

And I posted this on the main board cos I wanted it to be widely visible to non F/FAs too...
No one's really talked about the *experience* of being out yet, so I'll try. I'm not out to the whole world yet, but I do have a circle of kinky RL friends who I'm comfortable talking with about my desires with. (Is anyone ever out to everyone about their sexual desires that isn't straight or gay? There just seems to be too many risks involved.) But they know about the feeder thing and gently tease me about it, ask me questions about it, etc.

Actually, being "out" seems to involve a lot of teaching. Feederism is rare enough that even kinky people don't know a lot about it, and so I'm usually just answering questions. Even that was hard in the beginning and I used to blush a lot when even saying the word "feederism", but I'm getting over that now.

Also my last fuckbuddy DC Boy knew, and even tho he wasn't a feedee we did a lot of sweet things together. I found I was able to relax a lot more and was able to get close to orgasm more easily just knowing it was ok with him if I squeezed his tummy now and then!
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Old 03-15-2010, 03:15 AM   #20
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Yes, as in "out" in real life!
@Krissmiss - no, not as in "coming out" on here, as in already "out" IRL. :P
@khayes - yes, exactly..
@Tau - you rock! Can't rep you, so *hugs*
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Old 03-15-2010, 09:47 AM   #21
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Ya' know it's funny. I thought I was "in the closet." But when I started being open about my views on the female form, most of my friends pretty much already knew. I think people notice what catches your eye.
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Old 03-15-2010, 02:23 PM   #23
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My girlfriend met my parents last week and before that we bumped into my local cinema whilst they were heading in to see their film, also I kiss her; hug her; put my arm round her; etc in public when I'm with her!

I seriously think that FA's need a lot more positive threads about us because theres alot of negative, man bashing ones and the like about on here...

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Old 03-15-2010, 02:55 PM   #24
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I never understood what there was anything to be "out" about. I've always been very open and honest about my preference, starting in high school. Also about my "turn-offs" as well.
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Old 03-15-2010, 05:21 PM   #25
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