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Old 03-30-2010, 08:49 AM   #1
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Ladies who like the big fellas,

What kind of build do you prefer they have: Solid like an NFL lineman, soft like bowl full of jello, or in between that...where are you on the sliding scale? I saw this topic posted on another site, so thought I'd bring it up here. I run about 6'1 and 265 lbs sort of decent build...thought I'd see if I can get my place on the scale...BTW if any want to see a pic send me a private message.
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Old 03-30-2010, 09:39 AM   #2
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I think what you will find what woman finds sexy, is just someone who is sexy. No one person is alike, so every woman on here is probably going to have a different mental image of what they conjure up for their ultimate chubby fantasy.

If your seeking a personal review of yourself. You might get better response by just posting in the: Gentlemen, Post An Awesome Pic Of Yourselves thread, and let the responses come as they will.
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Old 03-30-2010, 09:40 AM   #3
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I mostly date guys that are in between... the former football player look, rather than current football player. I definitely love a big, solid build... but I absolutely melt for big tough guys that got soft around the middle when they let themselves go
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Chubby Muscle Bears For the Win! YEAH! eheheheh or is that bigger than what your talking about Esther?
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Nope, that's pretty accurate! Haha. You summed it up better than I did. I like them bearded and hairy too, like the classic bear type.
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Yeah i'd say solid for sure, the football player gone to seed is just the look that turns me on. If this makes sense, i like fat but not flab. The BHM i'm currently drooling over has a belly that i'd swear is made of granite, practically no hang at all--it just sticks out from his body like a globe and doesn't even bounce when he walks. I also like male bodies that are thick with broad shoulders, muscular legs, etc. The type that even if they lost weight would still look stocky and broad.
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Old 03-30-2010, 09:59 AM   #7
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Nope, that's pretty accurate! Haha. You summed it up better than I did. I like them bearded and hairy too, like the classic bear type.
Yeah I've been getting educated in it. I was only recently informed thats what I am. For those who need a visual reference Chicken Legs posted this earlier:


According to her I'm a chubbier version of the guy on the bike.
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Yeah I've been getting educated in it. I was only recently informed thats what I am. For those who need a visual reference Chicken Legs posted this earlier...
Haha yeah! That kind of build. Now just picture one of those guys with a beard, a red plaid flannel shirt and a toque... and you have the stereotypically canadian-looking giant lumberjack man I'm into.
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:09 AM   #9
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In my younger days I used to go pretty much for the more solid guys, and now it seems like I'm drawn to the softer guys. What changed? I have no idea.

Maybe it was my own interaction with a really really hawt softer guy? Could be, but heck, I guess I could say all 3.

In the end it depends on the personality inside the body though.
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Old 03-30-2010, 10:11 AM   #10
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Haha yeah! That kind of build. Now just picture one of those guys with a beard, a red plaid flannel shirt and a toque... and you have the stereotypically canadian-looking giant lumberjack man I'm into.
Is this a bad time to admit when I lived in the NW I used to wear a a red plaid flannel shirt ? ......Yeeaaahhhhhh....I tried to play it off like it was just the cool 90's grunge look lol. Come on its cold! You have to wear shirts like that its the only way to stay warm.
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Ladies who like the big fellas,

What kind of build do you prefer they have: Solid like an NFL lineman, soft like bowl full of jello, or in between that...where are you on the sliding scale? I saw this topic posted on another site, so thought I'd bring it up here. I run about 6'1 and 265 lbs sort of decent build...thought I'd see if I can get my place on the scale...BTW if any want to see a pic send me a private message.
Big tree trunk legs get me everytime. Short or tall, soft or firm, big belly or small belly, ass shelf or just a wide ass.....they have to have big legs (in proportion to their body), or the river runs dry and we can just be friends..lol.


hehehe...yes I'm equal opportunity when it comes to the lovin' of the large and sexy..
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Old 03-30-2010, 05:52 PM   #12
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Soft. It just offers so much tactile potential.

Scientific explanation: the 'hard' fat is visceral fat, underneath the muscle and surrounding the internal organs. The 'soft' fat is subcutaneous fat, under the skin and covering the muscles.
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Old 03-30-2010, 07:18 PM   #13
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Soft for sure. I mean, I still love a typically "Male" body (broad shoulders, yadayadayda), I don't have much of an attraction towards hard bellies. Plus, soft fat tends to be better distributed throughout the body, and well, yeah. It makes me happy. ^^
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Old 03-31-2010, 04:50 AM   #14
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I prefer very tall big bellied men who are solid as a rock..aka Andre the giant type men..because I love the contrast in public and people will think who is on top and who is on the bottom.

Never really cared for men who are soft though I have been there and done that and now following my dreams...

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Old 03-31-2010, 02:26 PM   #15
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I usually go for the soft guys the ones soft all over the body proportianet, but then again like many have said or a person said it comes to the inside personality that gets the last point.
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After a very pleasant hour of stroking his belly and chest, I gotta say: soft
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...although futher research may be required.
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Ahw bummer...

to bad i have an soft-pillow like belly =(
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A soft pillow like belly is nothing to be sad about
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I almost kinda wish a poll had been attached to this...
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to bad i have an soft-pillow like belly =(
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Well I am soft all over. If any FFA wants to check for herself she is more than welcome to.
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Soft all over, all the way.

I'm crazy for the fat ex-jock type (broad-big-strong), but especially when softened. But "hard" fat doesn't do it for me so much.
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Haha yeah! That kind of build. Now just picture one of those guys with a beard, a red plaid flannel shirt and a toque... and you have the stereotypically canadian-looking giant lumberjack man I'm into.
...you're into my boyfriend??
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