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Old 04-25-2010, 10:16 AM   #1
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Default When you were younger, did it hit you "I like Big Girls"(/Boys)

I've said this in another and a great thread here by DreamyInToronto. He asks about a struggle with denial about being an FA, I'm wondering who else didn't have a struggle with denial and when they were younger had a single moment & they knew.

When I was 12 and in secondary/middle school the year was divided in classes, someone I knew was friends with someone from another class and the momemt I saw her Big Girl friend, I felt a stiring downstairs lol and knew instantly "I like Big Girls"

Anyone else had a moment when it hit them?

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Old 04-26-2010, 07:05 AM   #2
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Yep, there I was, sitting in class one day in grade six--I think it was geography but I'm not positive anymore--and my mind and eyes were wandering. They fell upon C, the chubbiest girl in class, and I suddenly noticed her....you know how sometimes they'll run an ad that is all in black and white except for whatever is being advertised that is in colour? It was kind of like that, where she was suddenly present for me in a way that others weren't....and in particular I felt a sort of connection between our small tummies, like they were meant to be next to each other. (OK, I know that sounds weird, but that is how it felt to me at the time).

From that moment on I had no doubt at all that I was interested in the plumper portion of the female gender. I did have crushes on some non-plump, athletic, girls, but I knew that in the long run I'd want someone softer.
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Old 04-26-2010, 07:47 AM   #3
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No, but then it often takes me a while to catch on. I think I was in my twenties before it struck me that a considerable number of my girlfriends had been larger than average.
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Old 04-26-2010, 11:16 AM   #4
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When I was about 11 I started having feeling for this short chubby girl who I had known for years (She didnt know I existed but that ok cuz the day she turned 18 she got lypho and got it sucked off and now she looks like shit). Before that girls were gross lol. So yeah I can say that Ive liked big girls ever since I liked girls lol
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I started out in the 5th and 6th grade liking regular size girls but as we all got older I started noticing how some girls were filling out more. The best that ever happened to me was that my family moved between 7th and 8th grade. The new school was like chubby heaven, I would say about half of the girls were chubby and some much more. I was enthralled by the various shapes and sizes, it was a very exciting education.
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ever since i was 6 or 7, my eyes have always drifted towards fat women. i would always gaze at the fat girls in my class, and would definitely try to be as nice as possible to the fat female assistants and substitutes.

ever since i was 9, i realized that i find weight gain attractive. i was led to this conclusion with help from a Porky Pig cartoon called "Porky's Romance," in which Petunia lounges around eating chocolates, and gets fat(ter).

i've been an FA as long as i can remember.
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I was lucky enough to have a babysitter who was chubby, I think that 1st did it for me. I mean she was only a few years older than me but she was amazing. Also in school I was always attracted to the chubby girls. I just loved how the school uniforms clug to their bodies, and their chubby legs looked great in those school tights...
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I don't think denial was the biggest thing for me. It was more that I was still developing the trait.

I was 12 when I had the first two girls that sort of made me wonder, but they weren't really that big. The first was an hourglass too anyway. Just a little bigger than what I had normally gone for.

I mentioned in my FA story that it took until 16 before there was no major disconnect between sizes in the women I saw in private, and the ones that I found out and about. For the longest time, I would still find most of the bigger girls unattractive (But that could just be coincidental), so I think I may have come to the realization that I liked big women around 12, but it took all that time for me to go "Ok. How far is this going to go?"
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.... I think I may have come to the realization that I liked big women around 12, but it took all that time for me to go "Ok. How far is this going to go?"
If you're like me and many other FAs, several decades later you still will not have an answer to that question.
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Grade 5, whatever age that is, I noticed that I preferred the curvier girls and didn't find the skinny girls' figures attractive. So the preference for curvy girls began right at the same time that interest in girls in general began.
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ever since i was 6 or 7, my eyes have always drifted towards fat women. i would always gaze at the fat girls in my class, and would definitely try to be as nice as possible to the fat female assistants and substitutes.

ever since i was 9, i realized that i find weight gain attractive. i was led to this conclusion with help from a Porky Pig cartoon called "Porky's Romance," in which Petunia lounges around eating chocolates, and gets fat(ter).

i've been an FA as long as i can remember.
pretty much this for me, plus or minus a year in either direction on some of these.

it's just always been there. i have known nothing else. i had to learn that fat was "bad". :[
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It hit me like an hammer in 7th grade. I'm still attracted to skinny gals, but I really really (prefer) get attracted to bbws and ssbbws
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I can't remember a time when I didn't like big girls--long before puberty.
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Never had a revelation, I just always liked big girls!
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I had probably been attracted to big girls long before then, but the actual revelation came through my interest in comics...at around age 13-14, I found the following: http://dimensionsmagazine.com/Weight...mallville.html

...And, unlike previous times, I found myself getting a boner on schedule rather than at random. Surely, I thought as I kept scrolling, this must mean something? Then, alas, it was downhill all the way...
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I would have to say for the most part yes. Ever since about 4th or 5th grade I would catch myself looking at "fat" girls/women and think to myself there has to be a reason why I am doing this. I spent a good amount of time trying to figure that out too as it wasn't until I was about 20 when I found out about this whole FA/BBW community.
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In the 8th grade, my school had a "prom". I did not go with my best female friend at the time because she was chubby and I was afraid of the social repurcussions...I HAD to go with a hot girl. So I invited this other girl who was waifish. I had an aweful time with her, primarily because she just wasn't that into me, so I ended up dumping her on the dance floor and proceeded to dance the rest of the night with my chubby girlfriend.

Obviously, the way I behaved made it impossible for me to pursue anything further with my friend, and that's forever burned me with regret. However, that made it very clear to me that I should never deny myself what I truly like just to follow the herd.
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I knew in like 3rd or 4th grade that I liked big boys...but I felt compelled to make a confession to my best friend when I was in 7th grade. I saw an episode of Montel Williams with obese teenagers. There was a guy named Stuart and he was huge...OMG I knew right then and there that I could never deny it again LOL
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I didn't really know it until I was about 17 or 18. I think that was when I knew I liked big women.
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Just over the last year or so, and I'm currently 18. Was kinda repulsed at first, but I'm open to many things. I just though, well, if that's what makes me happy, might as well get on with it.
If I think about it, I want to get the most out of life, so ignoring this and trying to be 'normal' would make my life boring haha
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Just over the last year or so, and I'm currently 18. Was kinda repulsed at first, but I'm open to many things. I just though, well, if that's what makes me happy, might as well get on with it.
If I think about it, I want to get the most out of life, so ignoring this and trying to be 'normal' would make my life boring haha
Just out of interest, do you know what triggered it? Most of the people here seem to have liked bigger people for ages but you are quite a recent convert
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Just out of interest, do you know what triggered it? Most of the people here seem to have liked bigger people for ages but you are quite a recent convert
not a recent convert, I've only just come to terms with/accepted it. I have no idea what could have 'triggered' it. I don't know, my Mum's always been big-ish and she's the one who's stuck by me and supported me with everything, but I don't think that's it tbh.
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I don't think it really occurred to me until I'd been out of high school for a few years.
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