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Old 07-13-2010, 10:52 PM   #1
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This is for men and women. Do you have anything that you wish the opposite gender knew or understood about you? Misunderstandings, complaints, questions? Just curious what people have to say.
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Old 07-13-2010, 10:55 PM   #2
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Just because its girl time or close to girl time does not mean if I am angry or upset I do not have a valid reason
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Old 07-13-2010, 11:25 PM   #3
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That some of us guy are not out just to get laid..... I want a relationship with a lady who knows who I am and won't get confused about why I spend time with her. I can't tell you how many times I have been chased off because I was too kind. Too me love is not just about sex it's about giving of yourself and receiving in kind. I guess I'm a bit old fashioned. But I have never enjoyed sex without a deeper connection, not that I'm all that experienced but this F buddy business and one night stands never had any appeal to me. If that is all there is I'll stick with porn at least you don't have to worry about where that smell is coming from or is my partner having a good time or if they have something you can't wash off with Ajax.
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Just because I have male friends does NOT mean they're trying to get in my pants, nor does it mean they have been in my pants in the past. And it doesn't mean they're all gay, either.
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I look forward to hours of joyful laughter as this thread fills up.




...just so I make sure I contribute something I'll say this:

"Getting angry at us for not reading your mind is like getting angry at yourself for not being able to fly. It's not just futile, it's physically impossible."
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Just because I'm a guy does not mean I will sleep with you.

Back off or next time, I will bring my rape alarm.
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if I tell you something and you dont remember it it doesnt mean I havent told you or that I am dreaming I have told you. You just need to learn to listen better and not tune out :-p thats regression to the past two relationships lol I am sure not all men forget important stuff we say
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Be direct as possible. Don't worry about hurting our feelings, don't think it's going to reflect poorly on you. Say what you mean.
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can I say ditto to that so over guys who cant get to the point and say whats bugging them and the like
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Old 07-14-2010, 06:39 AM   #10
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If you want something, and you want us to know you want it, say that you want it.

If you like something, and want us to know that you like it, then say you like it.

If you don't like something, and want us to know that you don't like it, then say that you don't like it.

And "Hey, do you remember that time when X......" does not mean you've said that you liked it and want to do it again.
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Please don't make comments about men, like I'm not one, while you're talking to mel

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"I wish guys would talk to me."

Uhhh...last time I checked, I am a guy, and I'm talking to you. So yeah.
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If you want us to care about you then takes notes on our personality because we are taking notes on yours. Details go a long way. Example, if you remember she likes a particular candy bar and you pick one up, without her asking for it, its better than bunch of roses or a big box of chocolates. However, don't make a big deal that you remembered and expect her to suck your cock for it..lol. That just negates all the goodness.

Just because we want to fuck you doesn't mean we actually want a full relationship. In this day in age, sometimes we just want one regular lover while we sort our shit out.

Guys with pets or gardens are soooooo attractive to me. However, its also very cool when guys take an interest in my hobbies. They don't have to participate but just realize its my happy place and don't fuck with it. Likewise, just because you really like something doesn't mean I want to actually participate in it.
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I agree 100%
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If you want us to care about you then takes notes on our personality because we are taking notes on yours. Details go a long way. Example, if you remember she likes a particular candy bar and you pick one up, without her asking for it, its better than bunch of roses or a big box of chocolates. However, don't make a big deal that you remembered and expect her to suck your cock for it..lol. That just negates all the goodness.

Just because we want to fuck you doesn't mean we actually want a full relationship. In this day in age, sometimes we just want one regular lover while we sort our shit out.

Guys with pets or gardens are soooooo attractive to me. However, its also very cool when guys take an interest in my hobbies. They don't have to participate but just realize its my happy place and don't fuck with it. Likewise, just because you really like something doesn't mean I want to actually participate in it.
Uh okay LOL
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Kind of close to what Carla said, in reference to boyfriends, just because a guy calls me to say hi does not mean he wants to get some, so don't get jealous because you know I love only YOU.
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If you want us to care about you then takes notes on our personality because we are taking notes on yours. Details go a long way. Example, if you remember she likes a particular candy bar and you pick one up, without her asking for it, its better than bunch of roses or a big box of chocolates. However, don't make a big deal that you remembered and expect her to suck your cock for it..lol. That just negates all the goodness.

Just because we want to fuck you doesn't mean we actually want a full relationship. In this day in age, sometimes we just want one regular lover while we sort our shit out.

Guys with pets or gardens are soooooo attractive to me. However, its also very cool when guys take an interest in my hobbies. They don't have to participate but just realize its my happy place and don't fuck with it. Likewise, just because you really like something doesn't mean I want to actually participate in it.
What if we need a relationship to really want to fuck and a medical record maybe a birth certificate if you look young maybe some proof that there is no husband in the closet. You never know I have been shot at once and cut twice over old boyfriends.
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Maybe thats because I'm just plain old white trash LOL
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Just because its girl time or close to girl time does not mean if I am angry or upset I do not have a valid reason
Inspired by this post ^

1. I am often angry for a valid reason (usually work or douchebags).
2. I will still fuck during girl time, provided that the bed doesn't look like an abbatoir when we're done.
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1. I am often angry for a valid reason (usually work or douchebags).
2. I will still fuck during girl time, provided that the bed doesn't look like an abbatoir when we're done.
Mmmm, Crime Scene Sex.
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Just because I flirt back doesn't mean I realize I'm flirting back all the time, and doesn't always mean I'm actually interested. Take it as a compliment when I'm single, and if it's my partner, don't read into it if it looks like I'm flirting with others. Most times, I can't even tell what is flirting and what is not. So if I'm with you and doing it to someone else, it's nothing serious. Otherwise I would already not be with you.
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LMAO Now thats funny. Just make sure you wear gloves, you don't want to contaminate the scene

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Just because I flirt back doesn't mean I realize I'm flirting back all the time, and doesn't always mean I'm actually interested. Take it as a compliment when I'm single, and if it's my partner, don't read into it if it looks like I'm flirting with others. Most times, I can't even tell what is flirting and what is not. So if I'm with you and doing it to someone else, it's nothing serious. Otherwise I would already not be with you.
Oh I'm sorry. You may flirt in a dishonest manner. But I always mean what I say and always say what I mean. Any questions?
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LMAO Now thats funny. Just make sure you wear gloves, don't want to contaminate the scene
I would prefer if latex gloves were worn, yes.
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