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Old 07-21-2010, 03:25 AM   #26
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So? Even if it's true, that doesn't fat women should be "grateful" for any sexual attention and it doesn't mean that a man should think he can expect more sexual attention from a fat woman without giving anything back.
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Old 07-21-2010, 07:23 AM   #27
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Before I came to this site, I would have thought that fat girls don't get as much sex and so will be grateful when they get an opportunity, but after reading what people say here, I think I might have been misguided, at least as far as the women here are concerned.
If there is one thing you learn from this site, I hope it will be that fat women are not like puppies, eager for any and all attention and approval, regardless of the source. We are not all grateful for the opportunity to bone some kind benefactor, and we are not all hoping that thin people will approve of our food choices - and better yet, comment on them! We don't want or need patronizing little pats of approval when we do something that strikes thin people as "correct". Many of us are just out living our lives just like everyone else, without explanations or apologies, so please stop thinking of us as some exotic bovine species featured on Wild Kingdom. Just think of us and treat us like regular people who happen to be fat, and allow your preconceived notions and assumptions to fade away.
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No I'm calling you a troll, because I don't believe anyone who actually thought that would be on this site in the first place. Seriously... fat girls should be grateful? If you believe that, or that it's ok for others to believe it, you've no right to be here.



Yeah and I stayed out of those threads because I had no interest in getting into a big stupid argument, but when I say "a guy treated me badly" and you effectively said "well that's understandable," frankly you've made it too personal to ignore.
some people have problems with reading comprehension. he first thought that fat girls didn't get any but the posters on here changed his mind.
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Old 07-21-2010, 10:48 AM   #29
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Most women I know fat or skinny can get laid any time they want. Men make me laugh when they think we are desperate. Some of us are just picky and willing to wait for the right one
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Old 07-21-2010, 10:55 AM   #30
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puzzy doesn't have a face. any woman can get fucked when the man is horny.
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puzzy doesn't have a face. any woman can get fucked when the man is horny.
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puzzy doesn't have a face. any woman can get fucked when the man is horny.
puzzy wuzzy was a bear. puzzy wuzzy had no hair. puzzy wuzzy wasn't fuzzy, was he?

moral of the story: puzzy got a brazilian wax.
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Old 07-22-2010, 12:43 AM   #33
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puzzy wuzzy was a bear. puzzy wuzzy had no hair. puzzy wuzzy wasn't fuzzy, was he?

moral of the story: puzzy got a brazilian wax.
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Anyway.......back to the subject of the thread.
I'd rather be spoiled and receive. And to be quite honest, I'm not that great at giving.
Small mouth + sensitive gag reflex = horrible bl*w job.
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Just think of us and treat us like regular people who happen to be fat, and allow your preconceived notions and assumptions to fade away.
but don't some really fat people want sympathy? I mean, not those who are happy with who they are, but you cannot deny there are fat people who want to be treated with sympathy.
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Old 07-22-2010, 06:55 AM   #35
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Anyway.......back to the subject of the thread.
I'd rather be spoiled and receive. And to be quite honest, I'm not that great at giving.
Small mouth + sensitive gag reflex = horrible bl*w job.
You poor girl! Missing all the fun. You have to learn the fine art of sword swallowing..lol. It's all about the right angle
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If it's someone I feel connected to, and we have a safe, close, intimate relationship, I like giving and receiving pretty much equally (tho of course there are times when I am really in the mood to give, and times when I'm more in the mood to receive - but both are awesome). But if it's someone I don't feel safe with or who I don't feel emotionally connected to, I will not enjoy receiving oral from them, it's just too intimate. Giving doesn't have that same feeling, though.
I agree with what you are saying! I pretty much agree to it all
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You poor girl! Missing all the fun. You have to learn the fine art of sword swallowing..lol. It's all about the right angle
LOL you said it chicka
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but don't some really fat people want sympathy? I mean, not those who are happy with who they are, but you cannot deny there are fat people who want to be treated with sympathy.
Sympathy because we are fat?? WOW that has got to be the funniest thing I have heard all week LOL.
With all do respect I cannot stand when guys think because we are BIG we are grateful to get some etc.
I have been BIG all my life and trust me I have never needed to be grateful for any sex I have had in contrary I have had to turn down SO many.
I go out with my skinny girlfriends and can pick up more than they can.
SIZE has nothing to do with this. Confidence is everything and hunnie let me tell you, you can be a size 2 and not have an inch of confidence!
Fat chicks get as much sex and head as any other girl and we aren't looking for any sympathy.
It's WRONG to assume.
Get out and do your homework
cuz fat chick are making moves and getting all kinds of dick etc.

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Also wanted to add, that this question was posted for fun and to see what people do prefer. I love hearing about other people's like/dislikes and thoughts on things
Too bad that it always has to turn out negative somehow...
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but don't some really fat people want sympathy? I mean, not those who are happy with who they are, but you cannot deny there are fat people who want to be treated with sympathy.
You seem to bring this sort of thing up a lot. Anyways, I don't know about anyone else but I've never heard of anyone wanting sympathy for their fat.
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but don't some really fat people want sympathy? I mean, not those who are happy with who they are, but you cannot deny there are fat people who want to be treated with sympathy.
There are people of all sizes wanting sympathy for any variety of reasons. My message to you was that your way of thinking "fat people are this" or "fat people want that" is patently inaccurate. Approach people as individuals instead of looking at their body size and assuming, based on that, that you already know who they are and what they're about and how they want to be treated. That was my point.

As a side note, when you do come across someone - of any size - seeking sympathy, you're really not doing them any favors by providing it. Everyone has challenges in their life, so walking around with a poor pitiful me attitude is pretty lame and pointless. No need to reinforce that.
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Also wanted to add, that this question was posted for fun and to see what people do prefer. I love hearing about other people's like/dislikes and thoughts on things
Too bad that it always has to turn out negative somehow...
Well when certain posters have to drop in to make a comment, yeah, it's a guarantee, pretty much like the LA Clippers never amounting to anything.
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For me, give over receive. For me, a big part of the turn-on is my partner being turned on, and another big part is touching my partner. Receiving just seems too detached, it is not the best for either of those.
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Sympathy because we are fat?? WOW that has got to be the funniest thing I have heard all week LOL.
With all do respect I cannot stand when guys think because we are BIG we are grateful to get some etc.
I have been BIG all my life and trust me I have never needed to be grateful for any sex I have had in contrary I have had to turn down SO many.
I go out with my skinny girlfriends and can pick up more than they can.
SIZE has nothing to do with this. Confidence is everything and hunnie let me tell you, you can be a size 2 and not have an inch of confidence!
Fat chicks get as much sex and head as any other girl and we aren't looking for any sympathy.
It's WRONG to assume.
Get out and do your homework
cuz fat chick are making moves and getting all kinds of dick etc.

Trust me!

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it is nothing about confidence. You are a porn star cos you have a big ass and big knockers, and that is the reason you also get hit on more than your skinny girlfriends.
There are however fat women out there who are not porn stars and hate being fat and are miserable, and they want someone to have sympathy for them for having a life they hate.
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As a side note, when you do come across someone - of any size - seeking sympathy, you're really not doing them any favors by providing it. Everyone has challenges in their life, so walking around with a poor pitiful me attitude is pretty lame and pointless. No need to reinforce that.
I disagree. People are different, some are able to handle their problems well, and some aren't. Sometimes we all need some sympathy, so that we just know that the other person understand our plight - that's all.
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I disagree. People are different, some are able to handle their problems well, and some aren't. Sometimes we all need some sympathy, so that we just know that the other person understand our plight - that's all.
World of difference between sympathy and pity.

Take, for instance, the pity that I'm feeling for you right now.
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