Question for the BHMS: Lets Get Physical.

rabbitislove · 08-01-2010, 09:55 PM

Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there.

So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting?

Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert?

Burning questions really..

Paquito · 08-01-2010, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there.

So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting?

Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert?

Burning questions really..

1. Yes. Always.
2. No.
4. No, I'm pretty off limits, and I guarantee that I'm into freakier shit than you.
5. Pervert, but I like it.

Lil BigginZ · 08-01-2010, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there.

So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting?

Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert?

Burning questions really..

1. i have always accepted my weight. i am/was happy with being fat. the only thing i struggle is at being at a comfortable weight for me. i had no clue there was a community out here for us fatties lol until i found dims though. it just made it easier.

2. do what ever you want lol

3. the perverts are always the good ones

Stevenz1inoc · 08-01-2010, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there.

So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting?

Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert?

Burning questions really..

I know I got really excited when I found this board. I wouldnt say I was ever turned on by being heavy. But it was cool finding so many great people to talk to and who are accepting of big guys.

As far as intimate settings, I cant think of anything I would be opposed too. Maybe I'm a pervert too, lol

If you are really truely into the person then why be shy?

Sasquatch! · 08-01-2010, 10:47 PM

I'm a grade A Narcissist when it comes to my hair. Who needs porn when you have hair as sexy as mine?

WillSpark · 08-01-2010, 11:01 PM

True story. I started being attracted first to bellies in general. First female, then I was more attracted to male bellies. I knew I wasn't gay, and I had always been heavy, and originally I had been that stereotypical fat kid with the low self esteem and all that. I eventually realized I prefered fat on males as a projection onto myself vs. women. That's how I found the initial attraction, and then this site helped me embrace it.

At this point, I am now confident and if I met an FFA, I don't think I would be horribly uncomfortable in an intimate setting for anything relating to my weight.

RentonBob · 08-01-2010, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there.

So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting?

Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert?

Burning questions really..

I never was turned on by the fact that I was big. I've never had a problem with being big other than not having any girlfriends because I never met anyone that liked big men. I had only really met one girl that was ever into big guys and she introduced me to dims a few years ago. I really like the fact that there are girls out there that could find me attractive. Nothing is off the table for discussion, I'm pretty open minded and would want to make my partner happy and not want her to hold back. I just don't really see it happening for me again...

escapist · 08-01-2010, 11:29 PM

It was never exactly my weight that turned me on its just the size difference. I noticed it the most after I hit 6'+ and 311+ lbs in high school. Well I had a few girls tell me they liked guys with belly's. This was in the early 90's way before I knew of Dims (or the internet). I wouldn't say its a Post Dim's thing I'd say its a Post serious relationship with FFA's. My relationship with Chicken Legs has had a profound impact on what I'm comfortable with. I was open to exploring but she was more than happy to find out if I had limits.

djudex · 08-02-2010, 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims?

I'm not necessarily turned on by being fat but it certainly doesn't bother me from an aesthetic point of view. The only problem I have with it is fitting in to airplane seats and breaking those lousy little plastic patio chairs.

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If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting?

The only things I wouldn't want an FFA doing are the same things I wouldn't want any other woman to do either.

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Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert?

You're a total pervo, that's why I like you

freakyfred · 08-02-2010, 06:32 AM

I don't actually get turned on by being heavy. I tell you what, before I found Dims, I thought there wasn't really such things as girls who liked big guys so my mindset was "I need to lose weight so girls will actually like me". After finding Dims however, I'm hella more confident. Intimate setting wise, I very much doubt there's anything I would be opposed to haha.

Dunno about the pervert thing, but there's certainly nothing wrong with it ;D

Tad · 08-02-2010, 10:10 AM

I've essentially always been turned on by being heavy...without ever being all that heavy. Kind of the dream that I only take sips of without ever gulping it all down. Mind you, I did my best to bury that desire for years, and it was only after finding places like Dimensions that I really got back in touch with it (not that I ever forgot the desire, I'd just gotten pretty good at pretending to myself that it wasn't there).

No real comment on the things to do with an FFA in the bedroom--I'm sure there could be FFA who were interested in things that I was not, but I don't think fat related things would be on that list. I can't say I've ever had to worry about the issue much though, so that is not a highly thought out opinion.

As to your last question, if you have to ask......

taobear · 08-02-2010, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there.

So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting?

Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert?

Burning questions really..

To answer the first part of your question, when I was growing up I had an uncle that was huge and I thought he was the coolest guy on the planet, and my mom dated a guy they called Mountain man he was like my hero.

To the second part, I have always been open up to the point of causing pain or leaving permanent marks .

rellis10 · 08-02-2010, 10:28 AM

Firstly, I wouldnt say i'm turned on by the fact i'm heavy. I dont even know if I like being as large as I am, it's just something i'v always been. I do however accept this is who I am, and for better or worse I doubt I would change it.

What I would say is that being part of DIMS has enlightened me to the possibility that OTHER PEOPLE are turned on by me. Not many, but some and that's something to hope for. I'm still kinda coming to terms with my sexuality, having had over a decade of bullying to deal with up till i left school a few years ago that told me I was overweight and ugly (some of the worst of this by girls i might add) it's hard to see myself as a desirable figure. I'm trying though

As for what i'd let an FFA do with me in 'intimate situations'....I guess i'll cross that bridge when I get to it.

MasterShake · 08-02-2010, 12:06 PM

I have never liked being fat, mostly because of the lost dating opportunities I feel it's cost me. Being on Dims has not really changed that.

Not that I hate myself or any drama like that. But if someone made a magic fat-be-gone pill and offered it to me, I'd gladly take it.

rabbitislove · 08-02-2010, 12:12 PM

Awe man, I have to find out that Im a creeper and a pervert in the same day.

On that note Rellis, Id be glad to help you as far as FFA desires go. All we need is you, me, Judex, a stuffed buffalo, waterski's ice cubes, handcuffs, a golf club and the Harlem Globetrotters.

Trust me, its only kinky the first time...

rabbitislove · 08-02-2010, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MasterShake

Not that I hate myself or any drama like that. But if someone made a magic fat-be-gone pill and offered it to me, I'd gladly take it.

I know you gotta do what you gotta do, but if that happened Shake, I think several FFAs would charge you screaming NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!! !

(myself included).

RJI · 08-02-2010, 12:20 PM

I do not get turned on at all by size but have always loved myself being bigger and stronger then everyone else. I parlayed my size into a free education via sports and expanded my confidence in daily life off of my own interpretation of myself being manlier then all others.

MasterShake · 08-02-2010, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

I know you gotta do what you gotta do, but if that happened Shake, I think several FFAs would charge you screaming NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!! !

(myself included).

Excellent! The first part of my ingenious plan to get gang-tackled by FFAs is complete!

freakyfred · 08-02-2010, 12:47 PM

Mastershake is a devious mastermind

Paquito · 08-02-2010, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by WillSpark

True story. I started being attracted first to bellies in general. First female, then I was more attracted to male bellies. I knew I wasn't gay, and I had always been heavy, and originally I had been that stereotypical fat kid with the low self esteem and all that. I eventually realized I prefered fat on males as a projection onto myself vs. women. That's how I found the initial attraction, and then this site helped me embrace it.

At this point, I am now confident and if I met an FFA, I don't think I would be horribly uncomfortable in an intimate setting for anything relating to my weight.

^ More eloquent than my response. I'm basically the same way.

bigpulve · 08-02-2010, 02:10 PM

Well I wouldnt say heavy turns me on, but after my first ex I found I actually prefered bigger women. Softball players get me a tingling. lol. On me personally Im not against being fat, just not my current size. Ive never wanted to be my "ideal" weight ever. If I were to choose and have it be this second I would say 225 would be a nice fit for me. I have always liked that linebacker look. lol.

And right now I havent had enough of the regular sex to try any new stuff, but im not against it.

shhtx1970 · 08-02-2010, 02:24 PM

1. No, I am different, I look at someone I attracted to and like to know the whole picture. I have met beautiful women small and large and in-between so to me size is irrelevant, its the substance of the person.

2. I knew something like Dims existed but never searched for it till a few years ago.

3. No change, life goes forward, we live, we die.

4. A person do as they please but if I am involved, I like some advance notice even its 5 seconds, lol. I enjoy new things but at the same I do not drawing attention when I do not seek it.

5. Serious questions, yes they are somewhat, your soul or pervertness is something you need to deal with, I cannot judge you on your desires since I am not involved in them.

6. Burning? I think you need to see a doctor about that sensation, j/k

rellis10 · 08-02-2010, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by rabbitislove

On that note Rellis, Id be glad to help you as far as FFA desires go. All we need is you, me, Judex, a stuffed buffalo, waterski's ice cubes, handcuffs, a golf club and the Harlem Globetrotters.

Trust me, its only kinky the first time...

That's some combination, why am i most worried about the golf club though?

djudex · 08-02-2010, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by rellis10

That's some combination, why am i most worried about the golf club though?

Maybe because she didn't specify if it was a putter or a driver

rellis10 · 08-02-2010, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by djudex

Maybe because she didn't specify if it was a putter or a driver

She could have Wood.....

....ok that was unnecessary smut

08-01-2010, 09:55 PM	#1
rabbitislove 24 Carrot Magic Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Alberta Posts: 1,410	Question for the BHMS: Lets Get Physical. Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there. So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting? Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert? Burning questions really.. __________________ "I am made from the dust of the stars and the oceans roll in my veins" - Neil Peart

08-01-2010, 10:47 PM	#5
Sasquatch! A wild loser appeared! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Cardiff Posts: 3,068	I'm a grade A Narcissist when it comes to my hair. Who needs porn when you have hair as sexy as mine? __________________ --Breaking British--

08-01-2010, 11:01 PM	#6
WillSpark King Of The Robo-Sluts Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: NJ. It's where the cool people hang out. Posts: 1,636	True story. I started being attracted first to bellies in general. First female, then I was more attracted to male bellies. I knew I wasn't gay, and I had always been heavy, and originally I had been that stereotypical fat kid with the low self esteem and all that. I eventually realized I prefered fat on males as a projection onto myself vs. women. That's how I found the initial attraction, and then this site helped me embrace it. At this point, I am now confident and if I met an FFA, I don't think I would be horribly uncomfortable in an intimate setting for anything relating to my weight. __________________ A balanced diet is a cookie in each hand!:happy:

08-01-2010, 11:29 PM	#8
escapist Belt Buster! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sin City Posts: 2,137	It was never exactly my weight that turned me on its just the size difference. I noticed it the most after I hit 6'+ and 311+ lbs in high school. Well I had a few girls tell me they liked guys with belly's. This was in the early 90's way before I knew of Dims (or the internet). I wouldn't say its a Post Dim's thing I'd say its a Post serious relationship with FFA's. My relationship with Chicken Legs has had a profound impact on what I'm comfortable with. I was open to exploring but she was more than happy to find out if I had limits. __________________ "I don't know whether to eat that or roll around naked in it”." - Anthony Bourdain

08-02-2010, 10:10 AM	#11
Tad mostly harmless Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 12,614	I've essentially always been turned on by being heavy...without ever being all that heavy. Kind of the dream that I only take sips of without ever gulping it all down. Mind you, I did my best to bury that desire for years, and it was only after finding places like Dimensions that I really got back in touch with it (not that I ever forgot the desire, I'd just gotten pretty good at pretending to myself that it wasn't there). No real comment on the things to do with an FFA in the bedroom--I'm sure there could be FFA who were interested in things that I was not, but I don't think fat related things would be on that list. I can't say I've ever had to worry about the issue much though, so that is not a highly thought out opinion. As to your last question, if you have to ask...... __________________ Criticism is so often nothing more than the eye garrulously denouncing the shape of the peephole that gives access to hidden treasure. -Djuna Barnes, writer and artist

08-02-2010, 06:32 AM	#10
freakyfred \_(O_o)_/ Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 1,074	I don't actually get turned on by being heavy. I tell you what, before I found Dims, I thought there wasn't really such things as girls who liked big guys so my mindset was "I need to lose weight so girls will actually like me". After finding Dims however, I'm hella more confident. Intimate setting wise, I very much doubt there's anything I would be opposed to haha. Dunno about the pervert thing, but there's certainly nothing wrong with it ;D

08-02-2010, 10:28 AM	#13
rellis10 tuh-maw-tow Join Date: May 2010 Location: West Yorkshire, England Posts: 3,793	Firstly, I wouldnt say i'm turned on by the fact i'm heavy. I dont even know if I like being as large as I am, it's just something i'v always been. I do however accept this is who I am, and for better or worse I doubt I would change it. What I would say is that being part of DIMS has enlightened me to the possibility that OTHER PEOPLE are turned on by me. Not many, but some and that's something to hope for. I'm still kinda coming to terms with my sexuality, having had over a decade of bullying to deal with up till i left school a few years ago that told me I was overweight and ugly (some of the worst of this by girls i might add) it's hard to see myself as a desirable figure. I'm trying though As for what i'd let an FFA do with me in 'intimate situations'....I guess i'll cross that bridge when I get to it. __________________ I'm an open book, but you still need to turn the page to find what you want.

08-02-2010, 12:06 PM	#14
MasterShake My Fist, Your Face! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Overland Park, KS Posts: 680	I have never liked being fat, mostly because of the lost dating opportunities I feel it's cost me. Being on Dims has not really changed that. Not that I hate myself or any drama like that. But if someone made a magic fat-be-gone pill and offered it to me, I'd gladly take it.

08-02-2010, 12:12 PM	#15
rabbitislove 24 Carrot Magic Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Alberta Posts: 1,410	Awe man, I have to find out that Im a creeper and a pervert in the same day. On that note Rellis, Id be glad to help you as far as FFA desires go. All we need is you, me, Judex, a stuffed buffalo, waterski's ice cubes, handcuffs, a golf club and the Harlem Globetrotters. Trust me, its only kinky the first time... __________________ "I am made from the dust of the stars and the oceans roll in my veins" - Neil Peart

08-02-2010, 12:20 PM	#17
RJI Excuses, Excuses, Excuses Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: South Jersey Posts: 638	I do not get turned on at all by size but have always loved myself being bigger and stronger then everyone else. I parlayed my size into a free education via sports and expanded my confidence in daily life off of my own interpretation of myself being manlier then all others. __________________ Bob :eat1:

08-02-2010, 12:47 PM	#19
freakyfred \_(O_o)_/ Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 1,074	Mastershake is a devious mastermind

08-02-2010, 02:10 PM	#21
bigpulve Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Omaha, NE Posts: 346	Well I wouldnt say heavy turns me on, but after my first ex I found I actually prefered bigger women. Softball players get me a tingling. lol. On me personally Im not against being fat, just not my current size. Ive never wanted to be my "ideal" weight ever. If I were to choose and have it be this second I would say 225 would be a nice fit for me. I have always liked that linebacker look. lol. And right now I havent had enough of the regular sex to try any new stuff, but im not against it. __________________ wait, what?

08-02-2010, 02:24 PM	#22
shhtx1970 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: San Antonio or Houston, TX Posts: 51	1. No, I am different, I look at someone I attracted to and like to know the whole picture. I have met beautiful women small and large and in-between so to me size is irrelevant, its the substance of the person. 2. I knew something like Dims existed but never searched for it till a few years ago. 3. No change, life goes forward, we live, we die. 4. A person do as they please but if I am involved, I like some advance notice even its 5 seconds, lol. I enjoy new things but at the same I do not drawing attention when I do not seek it. 5. Serious questions, yes they are somewhat, your soul or pervertness is something you need to deal with, I cannot judge you on your desires since I am not involved in them. 6. Burning? I think you need to see a doctor about that sensation, j/k