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24 Carrot Magic
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Yes Im hoping when I finally get my RYT, my excercise classes look like that Olivia Newton John video. But slowed down, and the guys never get ripped. However, niether here nor there.
So guys, the burning question is this? Have you always been turned on by being heavy? Or was it something you never thought of until finding Dims? If so, after finding Dims, did this change? Are there still things you would never want an FFA to do in an intimate setting? Is this serious sociological type question because I want to understand the depth of your souls or because Im just a pervert? Burning questions really..
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2. No. 4. No, I'm pretty off limits, and I guarantee that I'm into freakier shit than you. 5. Pervert, but I like it. |
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2. do what ever you want lol 3. the perverts are always the good ones ![]()
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I know I got really excited when I found this board. I wouldnt say I was ever turned on by being heavy. But it was cool finding so many great people to talk to and who are accepting of big guys. As far as intimate settings, I cant think of anything I would be opposed too. Maybe I'm a pervert too, lol If you are really truely into the person then why be shy?
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I'm a grade A Narcissist when it comes to my hair. Who needs porn when you have hair as sexy as mine?
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King Of The Robo-Sluts
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True story. I started being attracted first to bellies in general. First female, then I was more attracted to male bellies. I knew I wasn't gay, and I had always been heavy, and originally I had been that stereotypical fat kid with the low self esteem and all that. I eventually realized I prefered fat on males as a projection onto myself vs. women. That's how I found the initial attraction, and then this site helped me embrace it.
At this point, I am now confident and if I met an FFA, I don't think I would be horribly uncomfortable in an intimate setting for anything relating to my weight.
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It was never exactly my weight that turned me on its just the size difference. I noticed it the most after I hit 6'+ and 311+ lbs in high school. Well I had a few girls tell me they liked guys with belly's. This was in the early 90's way before I knew of Dims (or the internet). I wouldn't say its a Post Dim's thing I'd say its a Post serious relationship with FFA's. My relationship with Chicken Legs has had a profound impact on what I'm comfortable with. I was open to exploring but she was more than happy to find out if I had limits.
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I don't actually get turned on by being heavy. I tell you what, before I found Dims, I thought there wasn't really such things as girls who liked big guys so my mindset was "I need to lose weight so girls will actually like me". After finding Dims however, I'm hella more confident. Intimate setting wise, I very much doubt there's anything I would be opposed to haha.
Dunno about the pervert thing, but there's certainly nothing wrong with it ;D |
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I've essentially always been turned on by being heavy...without ever being all that heavy. Kind of the dream that I only take sips of without ever gulping it all down. Mind you, I did my best to bury that desire for years, and it was only after finding places like Dimensions that I really got back in touch with it (not that I ever forgot the desire, I'd just gotten pretty good at pretending to myself that it wasn't there).
No real comment on the things to do with an FFA in the bedroom--I'm sure there could be FFA who were interested in things that I was not, but I don't think fat related things would be on that list. I can't say I've ever had to worry about the issue much though, so that is not a highly thought out opinion. As to your last question, if you have to ask......
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To answer the first part of your question, when I was growing up I had an uncle that was huge and I thought he was the coolest guy on the planet, and my mom dated a guy they called Mountain man he was like my hero. To the second part, I have always been open up to the point of causing pain or leaving permanent marks .
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Firstly, I wouldnt say i'm turned on by the fact i'm heavy. I dont even know if I like being as large as I am, it's just something i'v always been. I do however accept this is who I am, and for better or worse I doubt I would change it.
What I would say is that being part of DIMS has enlightened me to the possibility that OTHER PEOPLE are turned on by me. Not many, but some and that's something to hope for. I'm still kinda coming to terms with my sexuality, having had over a decade of bullying to deal with up till i left school a few years ago that told me I was overweight and ugly (some of the worst of this by girls i might add) it's hard to see myself as a desirable figure. I'm trying though ![]() As for what i'd let an FFA do with me in 'intimate situations'....I guess i'll cross that bridge when I get to it.
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My Fist, Your Face!
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I have never liked being fat, mostly because of the lost dating opportunities I feel it's cost me. Being on Dims has not really changed that.
Not that I hate myself or any drama like that. But if someone made a magic fat-be-gone pill and offered it to me, I'd gladly take it. |
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24 Carrot Magic
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Awe man, I have to find out that Im a creeper and a pervert in the same day.
![]() ![]() On that note Rellis, Id be glad to help you as far as FFA desires go. All we need is you, me, Judex, a stuffed buffalo, waterski's ice cubes, handcuffs, a golf club and the Harlem Globetrotters. Trust me, its only kinky the first time...
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I do not get turned on at all by size but have always loved myself being bigger and stronger then everyone else. I parlayed my size into a free education via sports and expanded my confidence in daily life off of my own interpretation of myself being manlier then all others.
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My Fist, Your Face!
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Well I wouldnt say heavy turns me on, but after my first ex I found I actually prefered bigger women. Softball players get me a tingling. lol. On me personally Im not against being fat, just not my current size. Ive never wanted to be my "ideal" weight ever. If I were to choose and have it be this second I would say 225 would be a nice fit for me. I have always liked that linebacker look. lol.
And right now I havent had enough of the regular sex to try any new stuff, but im not against it.
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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1. No, I am different, I look at someone I attracted to and like to know the whole picture. I have met beautiful women small and large and in-between so to me size is irrelevant, its the substance of the person.
2. I knew something like Dims existed but never searched for it till a few years ago. 3. No change, life goes forward, we live, we die. 4. A person do as they please but if I am involved, I like some advance notice even its 5 seconds, lol. I enjoy new things but at the same I do not drawing attention when I do not seek it. 5. Serious questions, yes they are somewhat, your soul or pervertness is something you need to deal with, I cannot judge you on your desires since I am not involved in them. 6. Burning? I think you need to see a doctor about that sensation, j/k ![]() |
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She could have Wood.....
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