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Old 08-02-2010, 03:03 PM   #1
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Men seem to greatly outnumber women whether it is feedee, feeder, Fa, etc. There seem to be so few women who are out there although there are a few who are out and talking on this site and FF. How can men meet women of whatever preference without finding them online as it doesn't appear very successful. Are there things to look for in a woman to know her preference or interest? Are there places to look? What are your thoughts about this?
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Being just such a woman, I can tell you it isn't something women talk about, into it or not. FFA's are so grossly outnumbered and judged...your best bet is just to find a chick who's checking you out with that hungry look in her eye. I don't have any FA friends...at all. And they don't know my preference.

Like my issue finding a receptive guy...good luck.
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Being just such a woman, I can tell you it isn't something women talk about, into it or not. FFA's are so grossly outnumbered and judged...your best bet is just to find a chick who's checking you out with that hungry look in her eye. I don't have any FA friends...at all. And they don't know my preference.

Like my issue finding a receptive guy...good luck.
It is funny that we both gave each other the same advice and I think you are right. Still, I wanted to see people's views on this. It is a question that has been asked before. I am curious if people's views have changed and if there are any nuggets of insight to be gleaned.
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I hope so...I'd like to know myself. It seems there's a dry spot here somewhere, with you and me and probably a lot of others thinking the same thing. I would like some fresh meat, so to speak.
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Women on the internet, especially in sexually-oriented parts of the internet, are a rarity simply because they might be there and/or interested but the deluge of BULLSHIT they have to deal with keeps them in lurk mode or something. Wonder why?
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I hope so...I'd like to know myself. It seems there's a dry spot here somewhere, with you and me and probably a lot of others thinking the same thing. I would like some fresh meat, so to speak.
Judging from both of your screen names and the location it seems the two of you might just get along...hint hint
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THIS.

I can't tell you how many times I've met women on here and FF that later deleted their accounts because of "creepy men", "guys only interested in my weight" or "someone was stalking me" type excuses.

Bad behavior on the part of males is what keeps the female involvement as low as it is.
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Judging from both of your screen names and the location it seems the two of you might just get along...hint hint
Good point and I would be into it but I don't think she wants to get together with a guy in his 50s. I would not want to be one of the many guys making the women feel uncomfortable.
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Men seem to greatly outnumber women whether it is feedee, feeder, Fa, etc. There seem to be so few women who are out there although there are a few who are out and talking on this site and FF. How can men meet women of whatever preference without finding them online as it doesn't appear very successful. Are there things to look for in a woman to know her preference or interest? Are there places to look? What are your thoughts about this?
As far as places to look...just go out. I've met boyfriends via friends, stores, meetings, laundromat, work...basically places I regularly go. As far as realizing interest, if they are nice, chatty, give you random gifts, and just generally thoughtful towards you is a good sign. The thing is, your head has to be in a good spot to notice these things. If you're walking around with a funky (aka sad, depressed, overly friendly (kinda creepy) attitude you will either not notice them showing interest or scare them away.
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*shrug*

Women feeding their s/o's well, and their s/o's subsequent weight gain, has been culturally acceptable (spoken or otherwise), if not expected. At least in my little corner of the world. It very well could be that there are plenty of FFA's and/or feeders who don't even know that they are. Possibly generations of them have gone undetected. I know that was the case for me until recently. I've always had these feelings and often acted on them. I just never made the connection until recently, much less knew there was a name for them. LOL.

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Women feeding their s/o's well, and their s/o's subsequent weight gain, has been culturally acceptable (spoken or otherwise), if not expected. At least in my little corner of the world. It very well could be that there are plenty of FFA's and/or feeders who don't even know that they are. Possibly generations of them have gone undetected. I know that was the case for me until recently. I've always had these feelings and often acted on them. I just never made the connection until recently, much less knew there was a name for them. LOL.

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I've been saying this for years! When I was little, when a man gained weight the first thing people would say was "His wife must be a good cook!" Indeed, this was the major sign that a woman was a good cook --everyone in her household got fat. The line between a good cook and a feeder is a fine one!

By the way, I notice you are a professional chef! I have noticed that more than a few chefs and waitresses/waiters have feeder-like traits!

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I am alway looking at the chubby short ladies with the short haircuts. They do exist. They do smile back!
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