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Old 11-02-2010, 07:00 PM   #1
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Does anyone else find that their weight gain fantasies become more intense when they are feeling insecure? For example, if some crisis occurs in your life do you think about it more? And on the flipside, when you're feeling good about yourself and are on top of the world can you take it or leave it?
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Old 11-03-2010, 07:29 AM   #2
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To some extent. For sure my weight gain fantasies are part escapism (forget about a lot of things and just enjoy indulging myself!), so naturally that aspect is stronger when there is more I'd like to escape from. Also when life is going really well and is busy, may just be less apt to drift off into fantasy because there is so much else good to think about?

But mine never really go away, and the erotic appeal is there all the time, no matter what else is going on in my life.
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Old 01-06-2011, 09:39 PM   #3
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Does anyone else find that their weight gain fantasies become more intense when they are feeling insecure? For example, if some crisis occurs in your life do you think about it more? And on the flipside, when you're feeling good about yourself and are on top of the world can you take it or leave it?
Not me, October. Sorry. My experience with all this is limited, but so far my weight gain fantasy was triggered by my wife pinching/jiggling my holiday weight gain and whispering sexily that she loved it. If I ever had feeder tendencies, she unleashed them, then.
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But mine never really go away, and the erotic appeal is there all the time, no matter what else is going on in my life.
this.
sometimes i place a lot of focus on my fantasies. sometimes i don't focus on them that much.
sometimes i act on them voraciously. sometimes i don't act on them at all.
but no matter what, they are ALWAYS on my mind.
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Different things attract me at different times, but my fantasies go down as my self-esteem falls. I'm more interested in sexuality and fantasies when I'm feeling good about myself
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I think about gaing pretty much all the time, but yeah, in the last couple of weeks, there have been some bad moments where I just wanted to stuff myself to feel better. More of a sad/angry thing than a low self-esteem thing, though.
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