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Old 01-25-2011, 03:28 AM   #1
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Had a question for you people....I find it hard to talk to girls that im with about gaining. I've always loved girls that gained but never had a girl be willing to do so.....any advice?
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Old 01-25-2011, 04:47 AM   #2
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If the gaining thing is a dealbreaker for you then you should put that bit up front instead of finding someone and THEN bringing up the gaining stuff. Only you know your priorities, so all you gotta do is act on them correctly.
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Old 01-26-2011, 10:56 PM   #3
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Idunno, I've always found it more 'sexy' and less 'creepy' if it's a question posed after a few dates. Feel out how comfortable she is with her BBW status and then in the middle of a conversation that relates to it just ask.
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You find someone you have a lot in common with. You get to know them, go out with them, earn their trust. Then you bring up the subject....if they're into it you scored. If they're not and if it REALLY matters then move on and try again.
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I'd say bring up the topic between several dates and actually getting serious. Too early on and you may come off as only being interested in one thing, but waiting until shes invested feelings in you could end up ruining things. Couples are supposed to continually learn things about one another, but gaining is a sensitive topic, especially as a yes/no can be a dealbreaker for both partners.

If it's just a kink you can live without OP then maybe later on would work, but if it's something big you want to incorporate in your daily life, make it clear early on. From experience, I haven't liked getting attached to guys only for them to spring on me that it's important for me to gain for them to want to go further with me.
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