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Old 04-08-2011, 03:27 AM   #26
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If this site is anything like Plenty of Fish...it's a horrible place and should be avoided at all costs.
POF is like a big joke most of the time.guess most dating sites are.lol alot of people on dating sites aren't sure what they want for starters i think.LOL
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Old 04-08-2011, 02:05 PM   #27
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Internet dating sites seem to be more miss than hit in my experience. They all seem to be filled to the brim with scammers and fakes.
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OK cupid has a lot of fun quizzes. Many are fan-created and there are even BBW-FA quizzes but I have yet to see a BHM-FFA quiz.

They have a question bank for your profile, which is the main basis for the % compatibility score. There are some questions in there like "I am willing to date an overweight partner, true or false". Unfortunately, they come up randomly so you might have to answer 200 really stupid questions to get there. You can also assign an importance to the qeustion. Almost all the questions rate zero importance for me.

Ok Cupid is very intelligently designed, but I never found an FFA on it or even "a good cook" which is ALMOST as good as an FFA.

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I filled out an account just for shits and giggles to see how bad the matches were. One of my first matches, 86%, reported these as 6 things he couldn't live without.

1. Gym
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5. Bacon
6. Protien (No, this is not a typo)


Perfect match. He even put the gym TWICE.
How many questions have you answered? I think the matching system gets more accurate with the more questions you have answered. Most of the people I match with have similar interests.
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Old 04-09-2011, 09:56 PM   #30
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So i just signed up a while ago for this, but is there any way (besides chace) to see if people are fa/ffa's?
there are a few questions you can answer regarding size.

"if one of your potential matches was overweight, would that be a dealbreaker?"

"No, in fact I prefer overweight people. "

This one I came across recently.
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Old 04-09-2011, 10:04 PM   #31
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How many questions have you answered? I think the matching system gets more accurate with the more questions you have answered. Most of the people I match with have similar interests.
I answered more and eventually found a guy who's list was as followed:

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So yeah. It got better.
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I answered more and eventually found a guy who's list was as followed:

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5. Sagan
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So yeah. It got better.
hahaha. I want to meet that fellow. I like how he thinks.
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My old roommate found her boyfriend on OKCupid, but they're both very typically 'thin preppy' people. I like the sites interface, but it does seem that there aren't a ton of big people/ FA/FFAs on there.
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I think any "normal" dating site, would not be very FFA/BHM friendly. Most places that I've checked out have been very one sided weight wise. Which makes it a very futile effort to even try those. hopefully there will be a FFA/BHM friendly site eventually.
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I think any "normal" dating site, would not be very FFA/BHM friendly. Most places that I've checked out have been very one sided weight wise. Which makes it a very futile effort to even try those. hopefully there will be a FFA/BHM friendly site eventually.
My info is couple years out of date, but I recall that even on match.com you can find FFA's. The code phrase seems to be "looking for a teddy bear type". Using "teddy bear" as a search term will reveal some FFA's.
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My info is couple years out of date, but I recall that even on match.com you can find FFA's. The code phrase seems to be "looking for a teddy bear type". Using "teddy bear" as a search term will reveal some FFA's.
My match.com profile says....I prefer big men. Heavyset.

LOL I'm very specific.
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My match.com profile says....I prefer big men. Heavyset.

LOL I'm very specific.
Great, now I have to make a match.com account so I can perv your profile
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If all else fails there's always Fantasyfeeder.com

Heck, I even have an ad up on the off chance that something crops up.
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If all else fails there's always Fantasyfeeder.com

Heck, I even have an ad up on the off chance that something crops up.
Yea, I've done the FF thing, and it kinda freaks me out with the sheer amount of fakes, weirdos and creepers that seem to congregate there. most of the time it seems they're more interested in your fat than you.
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I think any "normal" dating site, would not be very FFA/BHM friendly. Most places that I've checked out have been very one sided weight wise. Which makes it a very futile effort to even try those. hopefully there will be a FFA/BHM friendly site eventually.
i agree,most regular sites aren't bbw bhm freindly,and you dont find alot of ffa on there.the ffa bbw bhm sites i have found you usually have to pay to get the good stuff,there's not alot of free ones.the ones i have found that are free are not really active at all.it's a shame really...
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I met two of my favorite people on this earth on OKCupid, oddly. One of them I dated a while, but it didn't work out. We're great friends, though. The other likes me, a lot, but he says he won't date me 'cause I don't live in the same county and he can't deal with the "distance" (an hour and a half...maybe). Also great friends. Go figure.
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One of my close friends is in a great relationship right now with a guy she met through OkCupid. It makes me want to try it but I would assume that the success rate of finding someone who you can truly be happy with is extremely slim with all sites of that nature.
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i've actually met more women off of PoF than OKC and none of them turned out to be anything serious. that's me though, not the sites. the one girl i did meet on OKC though was like a 98% match and her personality was sooo much like my own that we never could have dated. we're still friends though years later.
This oddly enough reminds me of a Seinfeld episode when Jerry dated this woman that was like his exact replica. They got married and then divorced mutually which everyone did not believe was true.

I have a profile on PoF and OKC. Like yourself I got more responses on PoF than OKC. Although my OKC account is only half finished, which I guess explains the lack of interests/messages. On PoF women are very flaky I have noticed, some of then have no idea what they are after.
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I'm on there. I've never braved out enough to find anyone. Just a few random chats with a few people about interests. I think everyone is right though. Just not a lot of BHM's or FFA's on there.
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I went and made a profile the other day. I've been there 2 days and have already gotten hit by a scammer.
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OMG QUOTED FOR TRUTH!! i have said this time and time again,completely agree!
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yes,OKC tends to have more spammers then POF i've noticed...i get hit by a spammer too on OKC once.
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I've only had one spammer message me.

My visitor list (and by extension, my inbox) has been DEAD the past 2 or 3 weeks...I don't log in much anymore, anyways.
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My visitor list (and by extension, my inbox) has been DEAD the past 2 or 3 weeks...I don't log in much anymore, anyways.
the spammer that got me turns out she did it to ALOT of people,glad i did some research.LOL but i visited OKC today,sent a message,looked around,just checking things out.lol
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OMG QUOTED FOR TRUTH!! i have said this time and time again,completely agree!
MOST - not all obviously, but most - women your age are still little girls trying to grow up and they don't know what they really want from relationships or even the world.
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