Dimensions Forums  
Home Register Premium Membership Stories Ye Olde Library Health Issues Market Place Big Fashion

Go Back   Dimensions Forums > Discussion > BBW Forum



Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 06-10-2011, 08:40 PM   #1
lovelocs
Nunc est Bibendum
 
lovelocs's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Squaresville USA
Posts: 1,102
lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default What Do You Want, a Medal?!?

Today, I was discussing my job situation with a friend of mine, and we were talking about jobs which made us unhappy, and how it changed us. I started to talk about how much money I spend when I'm unhappy. She agreed, then she stopped, got that look, and asked:

"Mind if I ask you a funny question?"

"Ask me anything," I said.

"Do you think if you were happier you would...

eat...

less?"


I just looked at her. She had just finished politely noticing that I had had 3 leftover biscuits with jam (*gasp*). She claims to never get hungry, and tends to get sick after she eats. I'm six inches taller than her and a good 100 pounds heavier, and I'm a damn sight healthier, fat and all.

I continued to just look at her. Then I told her:

"No, I actually have a tendency to lose weight when I'm really stressed."

She told me she did, too, we went on to have a pleasant, silly conversation after that. I did not bust her upside the head with a skillet. I think I deserve a medal.


How have you won the medal of patience, tolerance, and non-violence toward clueless folk?
__________________
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Ad astra per alas porci.
lovelocs is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-11-2011, 12:15 AM   #2
crayola box
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 432
crayola box knows EXACTLY what's going oncrayola box knows EXACTLY what's going oncrayola box knows EXACTLY what's going oncrayola box knows EXACTLY what's going oncrayola box knows EXACTLY what's going oncrayola box knows EXACTLY what's going oncrayola box knows EXACTLY what's going on
Default

Unfortunately I have not...not in this situation anyway. Perhaps though it's because most often when it happens the other person is asking because they are "concerned" and "want to help" rather than coming from a place of neutrality or curiosity. When this occurs I admit I am guilty of winning the medal for defensiveness, icy stares, and silent withdrawal.
crayola box is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-11-2011, 05:10 PM   #3
lozonloz
 
lozonloz's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Suffolk UK/London
Posts: 270
lozonloz knows EXACTLY what's going onlozonloz knows EXACTLY what's going onlozonloz knows EXACTLY what's going onlozonloz knows EXACTLY what's going onlozonloz knows EXACTLY what's going onlozonloz knows EXACTLY what's going onlozonloz knows EXACTLY what's going on
Default

My best girl has driven me to distraction, and I love her so I grit my teeth and say nothing.

Basically, I was trying to introduce her to the concept of Fat Acceptance and clue her in on some of the issues I have because I'm fat. They haven't been brought up before because she's been a single teenage mum and frankly she's had to deal with so much more prejudice for that, but it came up in conversation so I went with it. Anyway the topic got onto HAES and how I feel that's something I'd like to try harder at.

And the whole conversation is going well and then she says:

"Well of course hun, YOU'RE not like that, but those lazy fat women really should lose some weight. I'm not talking about you, but the OTHER fat women I see, well some of them really could lose some weight if they tried..."

I changed the subject before I bit her head off. I was kinda proud for managing it.
__________________
Raised by wolves, but fostered by sloths.
lozonloz is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-13-2011, 02:23 AM   #4
Pitch
 
Pitch's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Louisville, Ky
Posts: 230
Pitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 club
Default

I've not won the medal for fatness as I shoot my mouth off, but I have won it for race. I had to start squaring my shoulders and walking away instead of blasting off every time someone dropped the "n bomb" at me. Even 'jokingly'.

Or I would have lost all my hair by now.
__________________
"And you look a little touché'd..." -[SIGPIC]http://i53.tinypic.com/2zi3h3k.jpg[/SIGPIC]
Pitch is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-13-2011, 06:57 PM   #5
littlefairywren
Chi Chi
 
littlefairywren's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Sydney, Australia
Posts: 15,316
littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!
Default

Years ago when I was shopping on my own, I foolishly smiled at a random man and was moving on through to get my things when he took the smile as an opening to say very loudly "you know....men don't like to fuck fat women." Now, this was before Dims, and before feeling relatively comfy in this body of mine, which is a whole lot bigger now.

I didn't say boo to him because I didn't like to be rude....crazy hey. Of course if someone said that to me now I'm sure I'd not be so timid, but I am more a lover than a fighter. Besides, what goes around surely comes around.
__________________
There is only one happiness in life -- to love and to be loved ~ George Sand
littlefairywren is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 02:56 AM   #6
Deacone
For Azeroth!
 
Deacone's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Bristol, UK
Posts: 1,498
Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!
Default

I think both you and littlefairywren both deserve a medal. I would have smacked my friend around the head if she said that to me. (thankfully all my friends are very fat accepting) and fairy, I would have called him a c*&t - even if we were in a shopping area.

Some people are just dicks and need to know that they're being one.
__________________
Blaaarrrr
Love me!
Deacone is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 07:41 AM   #7
Heavy_Cream
 
Heavy_Cream's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: The Bay Area, near San Francisco, California.
Posts: 321
Heavy_Cream can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokesHeavy_Cream can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokes
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by littlefairywren View Post
Years ago when I was shopping on my own, I foolishly smiled at a random man and was moving on through to get my things when he took the smile as an opening to say very loudly "you know....men don't like to fuck fat women." Now, this was before Dims, and before feeling relatively comfy in this body of mine, which is a whole lot bigger now.

I didn't say boo to him because I didn't like to be rude....crazy hey. Of course if someone said that to me now I'm sure I'd not be so timid, but I am more a lover than a fighter. Besides, what goes around surely comes around.
My God, that was terrible of him. Wow. I'm so sorry.
Heavy_Cream is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 01:58 PM   #8
cherrysprite
 
cherrysprite's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 54
cherrysprite can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokescherrysprite can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokes
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by littlefairywren View Post
Years ago when I was shopping on my own, I foolishly smiled at a random man and was moving on through to get my things when he took the smile as an opening to say very loudly "you know....men don't like to fuck fat women." Now, this was before Dims, and before feeling relatively comfy in this body of mine, which is a whole lot bigger now.

I didn't say boo to him because I didn't like to be rude....crazy hey. Of course if someone said that to me now I'm sure I'd not be so timid, but I am more a lover than a fighter. Besides, what goes around surely comes around.
Wow, what a jerk. My response, "You know, women don't like to fuck dudes with tiny dicks, so I guess we are both out of luck, huh."
__________________
"We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give." -Winston Churchill
cherrysprite is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 02:10 PM   #9
Lamia
Like OMG!!
 
Lamia's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: The Land of Nod
Posts: 1,627
Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by littlefairywren View Post
Years ago when I was shopping on my own, I foolishly smiled at a random man and was moving on through to get my things when he took the smile as an opening to say very loudly "you know....men don't like to fuck fat women." Now, this was before Dims, and before feeling relatively comfy in this body of mine, which is a whole lot bigger now.

I didn't say boo to him because I didn't like to be rude....crazy hey. Of course if someone said that to me now I'm sure I'd not be so timid, but I am more a lover than a fighter. Besides, what goes around surely comes around.
What a rancid piece of crap. I hope he has a rotting crotch fungus he caught from a skinny 2 dollar whore.
__________________
"Do not call the tortoise unworthy because she is not something else"
Lamia is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 02:16 PM   #10
LovelyLiz
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 3,247
LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by littlefairywren View Post
Years ago when I was shopping on my own, I foolishly smiled at a random man and was moving on through to get my things when he took the smile as an opening to say very loudly "you know....men don't like to fuck fat women." Now, this was before Dims, and before feeling relatively comfy in this body of mine, which is a whole lot bigger now.

I didn't say boo to him because I didn't like to be rude....crazy hey. Of course if someone said that to me now I'm sure I'd not be so timid, but I am more a lover than a fighter. Besides, what goes around surely comes around.
Geez that guy is an asshole. Sorry you had to be confronted with such idiocy, LFW. It's so hard to know what to do in those situations when you're just blindsided by insults when going about your own business. I usually am just kind of dumbstruck about how someone could say such an ignorant thing, and don't say anything either, but then spend the next several hours creating clever and biting retorts in my mind.

Though, the fact that he immediately jumped to a sexual type of insult is very telling, eh?
LovelyLiz is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 03:17 PM   #11
Yakatori
Hard to say, really...
 
Yakatori's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: "Empire State of Mind"
Posts: 2,349
Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!Yakatori keeps pushing the rep limit!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by mcbeth View Post
"...I usually am just kind of dumbstruck about how someone could say such an ignorant thing, and don't say anything either, but then spend the next several hours creating clever and biting retorts in my mind. .."
An experience the French have a somewhat vivid idiomatic description for, one of my favorites: L'esprit de l'escalier
Yakatori is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 04:01 PM   #12
Lamia
Like OMG!!
 
Lamia's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: The Land of Nod
Posts: 1,627
Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Lamia has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by mcbeth View Post
Geez that guy is an asshole. Sorry you had to be confronted with such idiocy, LFW. It's so hard to know what to do in those situations when you're just blindsided by insults when going about your own business. I usually am just kind of dumbstruck about how someone could say such an ignorant thing, and don't say anything either, but then spend the next several hours creating clever and biting retorts in my mind.

Though, the fact that he immediately jumped to a sexual type of insult is very telling, eh?
He was afraid she was trying to get in his pants. I've had similar experiences. I was out one time with my friends having a good time and laughing and I went to the bathroom. When I came out I was still giggling about whatever it was we were laughing about and this guy stopped me and said "What are you so happy about fatty no one is going home with you?" Of course I was very shy back then and was mortified. I am starting to think assholes know who they can give crap to and who they can't.

Poor FA don't have a shot because we've had so many years of shit like this that we're in a defensive position almost all the time.


I haven't really had anything like that happen in a long time
__________________
"Do not call the tortoise unworthy because she is not something else"
Lamia is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 05:49 PM   #13
Tania
Disneyland Bobsled Team
 
Tania's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: The corner of Small World Mall & Matterhorn Way.
Posts: 1,975
Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default

Maybe they were jealous that you have nice, big body parts and they... don't.

*makes the tiny penis hand signal*

I'm pretty sure that the guys who go out of their way to pick on women's bodies are essentially projecting their own feelings of physical inadequacy on other people.
__________________
You're such a strange girl
I think you come from another world

~ The Cure

"She will never submit to any thing requiring industry and patience, and a subjection of the fancy to the understanding."
~ Mr. Knightley on Emma, Jane Austen's Emma
Tania is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-15-2011, 06:09 PM   #14
EvilPrincess
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,083
EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!EvilPrincess has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default

About 10 years ago I was on a big job search, had tons of interviews and even had one in the same city where my Mother's Father and StepMom lived. Mom's Dad at that time rarely spoke, was almost deaf and had a bad case of dementia. When I went to the house to visit them my Aunt was there and some other people. After I walked in, said hello and a round of hugs, I sat on the couch and we all began talking about the job interview I had just had. Mom's Dad just sat there not saying anything as usual, not really there just watching TV. During a gap in the conversation he turned to me waved his hands in my direction and said "Too FAT, lose weight" That was the first time I had heard his voice in about 10 years and was the last time I ever heard it.

family puts the fun in dysfunctional
EvilPrincess is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2011, 05:04 AM   #15
Deacone
For Azeroth!
 
Deacone's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Bristol, UK
Posts: 1,498
Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!Deacone keeps pushing the rep limit!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Tania View Post
Maybe they were jealous that you have nice, big body parts and they... don't.

*makes the tiny penis hand signal*
I lol'ed so hard at that I spat my cereal out on my laptop

lol
__________________
Blaaarrrr
Love me!
Deacone is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2011, 08:13 AM   #16
Pitch
 
Pitch's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Louisville, Ky
Posts: 230
Pitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 clubPitch is a member of the 500 club
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by EvilPrincess View Post
About 10 years ago I was on a big job search, had tons of interviews and even had one in the same city where my Mother's Father and StepMom lived. Mom's Dad at that time rarely spoke, was almost deaf and had a bad case of dementia. When I went to the house to visit them my Aunt was there and some other people. After I walked in, said hello and a round of hugs, I sat on the couch and we all began talking about the job interview I had just had. Mom's Dad just sat there not saying anything as usual, not really there just watching TV. During a gap in the conversation he turned to me waved his hands in my direction and said "Too FAT, lose weight" That was the first time I had heard his voice in about 10 years and was the last time I ever heard it.

family puts the fun in dysfunctional
That takes the cake for one of the most jacked up things I've ever heard.
__________________
"And you look a little touché'd..." -[SIGPIC]http://i53.tinypic.com/2zi3h3k.jpg[/SIGPIC]
Pitch is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2011, 02:36 PM   #17
Tania
Disneyland Bobsled Team
 
Tania's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: The corner of Small World Mall & Matterhorn Way.
Posts: 1,975
Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!Tania has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Deacone View Post
I lol'ed so hard at that I spat my cereal out on my laptop

lol
*High five!*

oh and...

*hands you a towel for lappy!*
__________________
You're such a strange girl
I think you come from another world

~ The Cure

"She will never submit to any thing requiring industry and patience, and a subjection of the fancy to the understanding."
~ Mr. Knightley on Emma, Jane Austen's Emma
Tania is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-19-2011, 10:49 AM   #18
lovelocs
Nunc est Bibendum
 
lovelocs's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Squaresville USA
Posts: 1,102
lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default For All of You

Not snapping on people (especially those who are clueless ,
deliberately inflammatory , or suffering from mental deficiencies )
shows class and dignity.
Attached Images
File Type: jpg JamesDixonMedals.jpg (30.7 KB, 228 views)
__________________
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Ad astra per alas porci.
lovelocs is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-21-2011, 10:29 AM   #19
lollipops708
 
lollipops708's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: texas! its bloody hot here!
Posts: 22
lollipops708 can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokeslollipops708 can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokes
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by littlefairywren View Post
Years ago when I was shopping on my own, I foolishly smiled at a random man and was moving on through to get my things when he took the smile as an opening to say very loudly "you know....men don't like to fuck fat women." Now, this was before Dims, and before feeling relatively comfy in this body of mine, which is a whole lot bigger now.

I didn't say boo to him because I didn't like to be rude....crazy hey. Of course if someone said that to me now I'm sure I'd not be so timid, but I am more a lover than a fighter. Besides, what goes around surely comes around.
Holy crap! how could you not have ripped him a new one?

I've been through somthing kind of simillar..(well now that i think of it not really but somthing equally as horrible) When i was 18 My best friendand i (and he had been my bestfriend for 10 years at this point) got really drunk one night and proceeded to have sexual relations, (which was amazing to me because i was head over heels in love with him and had been for the past 4 years) well when morning came swiftly followed by sobriety he looked over to me as we were tangled in the sheets and said " you know.. if you werent so fat I wouldnt have had to have been drunk to do that. If you were to lose weight.. i could date you"

lollipops708 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-21-2011, 09:07 PM   #20
LovelyLiz
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 3,247
LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!LovelyLiz keeps pushing the rep limit!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by lollipops708 View Post
Holy crap! how could you not have ripped him a new one?

I've been through somthing kind of simillar..(well now that i think of it not really but somthing equally as horrible) When i was 18 My best friendand i (and he had been my bestfriend for 10 years at this point) got really drunk one night and proceeded to have sexual relations, (which was amazing to me because i was head over heels in love with him and had been for the past 4 years) well when morning came swiftly followed by sobriety he looked over to me as we were tangled in the sheets and said " you know.. if you werent so fat I wouldnt have had to have been drunk to do that. If you were to lose weight.. i could date you"

DANG. So, so brutal. I felt the punch in the gut vicariously as I read your story. If you don't mind me asking, how did you respond, and what happened in your friendship?
LovelyLiz is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-21-2011, 09:27 PM   #21
littlefairywren
Chi Chi
 
littlefairywren's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Sydney, Australia
Posts: 15,316
littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!littlefairywren keeps pushing the rep limit!
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by lollipops708 View Post
Holy crap! how could you not have ripped him a new one?

I've been through somthing kind of simillar..(well now that i think of it not really but somthing equally as horrible) When i was 18 My best friendand i (and he had been my bestfriend for 10 years at this point) got really drunk one night and proceeded to have sexual relations, (which was amazing to me because i was head over heels in love with him and had been for the past 4 years) well when morning came swiftly followed by sobriety he looked over to me as we were tangled in the sheets and said " you know.. if you werent so fat I wouldnt have had to have been drunk to do that. If you were to lose weight.. i could date you"

Wow, thanks for all the words of encouragement ladies. It's surprising how things like this can have such an impact.

lollipops...I feel for you so much after reading your post. What an incredible douche bag!
__________________
There is only one happiness in life -- to love and to be loved ~ George Sand
littlefairywren is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-24-2011, 07:57 PM   #22
luscious_lulu
Boobzilla
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,523
luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!luscious_lulu has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default

After my boss telling me he didn't think I could do my job (I've been doing it for 11 years), then having him treat me like I was stupid all week, I managed to not tell him to take the job and shove it up his ass.

I also refrained from telling him that I'm probably the smartest person on the team & if I quit he'd be so fucked.

So I think I deserve a huge gaudy medal. It should be the size of a hub cap.
__________________
I have a dream & in it something eats you.
luscious_lulu is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2011, 05:50 AM   #23
daddyoh70
DYELB?
 
daddyoh70's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Delaware
Posts: 2,869
daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.daddyoh70 has ascended what used to be the highest level.
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by lovelocs View Post
I just looked at her. She had just finished politely noticing that I had had 3 leftover biscuits with jam (*gasp*). She claims to never get hungry, and tends to get sick after she eats. I'm six inches taller than her and a good 100 pounds heavier, and I'm a damn sight healthier, fat and all.

...(snipped) I did not bust her upside the head with a skillet. I think I deserve a medal.
How have you won the medal of patience, tolerance, and non-violence toward clueless folk?
**Disclaimer** I'm not a BBW, but this kind of shit really pisses me off. Not just towards BBW's, but ignorance like this toward any group. I just wanted to show my respect to all of you for what you've had to endure and the way you've all handled yourselves.

lovelocs, perhaps you should have suggested to your friend to research the symptoms of bulimia, and I don't mean in a sarcastic way, or consult a doctor for some possible physical ailment. That just doesn't sound right. To you and all the women here, and everywhere for that matter, who have tolerated such ignorance, I bow to you

Quote:
Originally Posted by luscious_lulu View Post
After my boss telling me he didn't think I could do my job (I've been doing it for 11 years), then having him treat me like I was stupid all week, I managed to not tell him to take the job and shove it up his ass.

I also refrained from telling him that I'm probably the smartest person on the team & if I quit he'd be so fucked.

So I think I deserve a huge gaudy medal. It should be the size of a hub cap.
Lulu... I couldn't find you a medal, but I did find gaudy and hubcap in the same picture. Perhaps if you run out of tolerance, this could be useful going upside someone's head. I present to you.....



__________________
"Be at peace with God,whatever you conceive Him to be." Max Ehrmann

"Don't ever shoot my Sunday joyride music down" Wesley Willis
daddyoh70 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2011, 06:29 AM   #24
lovelocs
Nunc est Bibendum
 
lovelocs's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Squaresville USA
Posts: 1,102
lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!lovelocs has a ton of rep. Literally. As in over 2000!
Default

If that hubcap were silver, I'd order one now. Just sayin'.

Lulu, you do deserve a medal, because I have quit jobs over that ignorance.

Lolli, you don't deserve a medal. You deserve to go back in time, go upside his head, and then get a dispensation.
__________________
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Ad astra per alas porci.

Last edited by lovelocs; 06-25-2011 at 06:38 AM.
lovelocs is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2011, 01:09 PM   #25
lollipops708
 
lollipops708's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: texas! its bloody hot here!
Posts: 22
lollipops708 can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokeslollipops708 can now be the recipient of "two cans" jokes
Cool

Wow ladies, thank you for you're support. and after that happened he then told me that he would no longer be my room mate because his new girlrriend ( who looked like a god damn,curly hairer barbie doll and we now know us actually a drug addict) wanted to move to waco. So I pretty much broke down much to my humiliation. i just sat there and cried. He got dressed, and mov3d away 3 days later. A few months later he tried to come crawling back begging for a place to stay and for our friend ship. And over the past 3 years the only time I've seen uim was when my mothetr invited him to my wedding.
lollipops708 is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:09 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Copyright Dimensions Magazine. All rights reserved worldwide.