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Old 06-12-2011, 07:45 PM   #1
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Old 06-12-2011, 07:51 PM   #2
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It's either licence to masturbate as often as possible to to sleep with as many people as possible. Or maybe both

In seriousness, I guess it's for those who are unsure where they lie on the Kinsey scale and feel the need to stick a pin in it. For ease of conversation I refer to myself as bisexual, though "open to opportunity" is a better descriptor. A lot of people seem to think that once you stick one label on yourself, that's it for life, when that doesn't have to be the case. Sure, for some it is and they're happy with that (on either end of the scale), but I think there's a large portion of the population whose sexual preferences are fluid and it depends on the person rather than gender.
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I would say its trying new things that you normally wouldnt do.

Hell I'll try anything once....twice if i like it. LOL
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Old 06-12-2011, 09:46 PM   #4
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People also use it as a catch-all to describe curiosity about kinks too.
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Old 06-13-2011, 12:05 AM   #5
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I was dating this girl and one day I decided to flip up the back of her skirt and kiss her butt. When she didn't complain I did it more and more until it turned into full fledged ass worship.

Its one of those things that felt good and I went with it. I "explored" a side of me that wasn't there before.

I'm sure others have similar stories to what turns them on and how they went about dealing with it.
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YeH. It's all about trying new things that could be sexual to see if it's your cup of tea or not Best with a trusted partner though.
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How does one explore one's sexuality?
Step 1. Go out and have sex with a bunch of women.*
Step 2. Go out and have sex with a bunch of men.*
Step 3. Masturbate a lot*
Step 4. Choose either, the one you like best or all the above.
The End
*Does not have to be done in this order.
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Old 06-13-2011, 09:49 AM   #8
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I don't know, but I think it requires spelunking equipment and a trained search wombat
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my way, whatever has gotten me rock hard in my thoughts, i have either chased it, or wanked off to it. if i didn't feel bad about it afterwards, time for round two, and three and so forth.
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Really? What do people mean when they say this?
Because one's sexuality is more than insert peg in hole. To find out what that more is, one needs to explore.
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Step 1. Go out and have sex with a bunch of women.*
Step 2. Go out and have sex with a bunch of men.*
Step 3. Masturbate a lot*
Step 4. Choose either, the one you like best or all the above.
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LMAO Very true.
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Because one's sexuality is more than insert peg in hole. To find out what that more is, one needs to explore.
But inserting peg in hole is definitely one of the fun parts.
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But inserting peg in hole is definitely one of the fun parts.
Also fun:
  • Peg in fat rolls
  • Peg in other holes
  • Fake peg in a hole
  • Double-sided peg used for two holes at once
  • Peg used as a bludgeon on various parts of the body

*please note that I have only partaken in one of the aforementioned activities and therefore can not verify the actual funness of all of them.
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Well, I meant that I enjoy the peg in MY hole(s). And some of those things won't work if the girl isn't a BBW.
  • Peg in the hole with belly rubbing your clit
  • Moobs to nibble on
  • Watching a BHM's lovely rolls coming waves toward your clit
  • Being squashed by a belly

I have participated and greatly enjoyed all of these activities.
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Ive done some exploring. Would like to do more. All I need is someone to explore with
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I think it means, really figuring out what you're into sexually. Like, without giving a shit what people think. And find out what you're really into..with an open mind.
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I like exploring my sexuality with friends. lol NO, I DON'T HAVE MASSIVE ORGIES.

What I mean by this, is I am very open with my friends about what I like sexually. They are either taken-aback or they are more than happy to immerse themselves into my perversions/kinks (these are my favorite friends ) lol All my immediate friends are people that I enjoy sharing things with and they share with me. I think sex should be something less taboo and more talked about. I can't tell you how many times I've gone with several friends to sex toy stores, sex toy parties, or leather/bondage stores lol I'm not a shy girl
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I like exploring my sexuality with friends. lol NO, I DON'T HAVE MASSIVE ORGIES.

What I mean by this, is I am very open with my friends about what I like sexually. They are either taken-aback or they are more than happy to immerse themselves into my perversions/kinks (these are my favorite friends ) lol All my immediate friends are people that I enjoy sharing things with and they share with me. I think sex should be something less taboo and more talked about. I can't tell you how many times I've gone with several friends to sex toy stores, sex toy parties, or leather/bondage stores lol I'm not a shy girl
You are so lucky to have friends like that. I've always gotten the "taken aback response" when discussing my perversions/kinks.
And once again, you post something and I go http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXBep...eature=related
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And once again, you post something and I go http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXBep...eature=related
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I think it's important to be able to "read" those friends that you think would be into the same things as you. Don't be a creeper about it Maybe it's easier for women? lol Although, two friends I go with are my gfs and one friend is a guy. They all know what I like and even LOOK for what I like lol "Hey, Katie. Totally saw this bald guy with a goatee you'd like the other day...." lol Omg, or one time I was riding in a car with two of my friends and they saw this bald guy with a goatee and wearing those sexy blue/green tinted black sunglasses....and he was a construction worker (mmm hard working sweaty guys LOL)....they yelled to the construction worker that I want to blow him. It's true, but gosh. LOL
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F&P, that's totally like my friends and I. We're pretty open and discuss our kinks a lot. We also know more or less each other's taste. When a friend needs to vent about their kink, they usually come to me cuz I discuss it with anyone like nothing they can come up with is weird, which is probably why they keep coming back. It's good to have that level of openness and trust with friends. Plus makes visits to the sex shop and meat market (aka bars) that much more fun. Because you all know there's no judging going on.
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This is one of the reasons my girlfriend and I split after 8 years. What's awesome is that she found someone a lot quicker to "explore" w/ and they're currently in an 8 month relationship. Me, on the other hand, am still looking. My recent development of abandonment issues will probably be addressed in another thread.

But I find that I can't really have casual sex. I need to establish an emotional connection first, I think. I've been with three women since becoming single, and they've all ended in disaster. My libido is all sorts of messed up these days.

However, after finally experiencing what it's like to be with a BBW (and thoroughly enjoying it) I'm beginning to realize that that alone isn't enough. I need someone with the same kinks. I need someone into feederism and gaining. And I don't care to what extent. Feeder, feedee, mutual gainer, or simply an FFA*, whatever. I think I need that to develop with someone sexually.

And that's a huge pain in my ass. I feel like I can't just meet someone and hit it off and hope for a long-lasting relationship without sharing that one thing, no matter how amazing they are. And that's precisely how I want to meet someone - through chance.

Pardon my French, but I think I'm fucked.







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