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Old 07-02-2011, 05:53 AM   #51
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Either, although sometimes, there is more to be seen in the dark.
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Old 07-02-2011, 05:37 PM   #52
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I like both. Lights off to heighten the sense of touch and sound, and on to be able to see our bodies together and to look into his eyes.
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Personally I知 mostly lights off. Lights on occasionally makes for a nice change, but in general:
- touch is my dominant sense, so the more I can focus on that, the more I知 into things. Vision is just a distraction.
- I知 quite myopic, hence if I don稚 have glasses on or contacts in, I知 not seeing all that much in detail anyway (and glasses tend to get in the way).

The same general rule applies to sounds, music or sexy talk is a nice change sometimes, but usually for me it is just a distraction. I知 sure that for those who are more visual or auditory this could be quite different.
I am the same way. I am not insecure about my body at all and don't have qualms about being seen. I just find lights, music and small talk to be extremely annoying and distracting.
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Old 07-02-2011, 06:00 PM   #54
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On. I need some kind of light because I like to see what's going on with my hubby...and he likes to see me I don't mind the lights off every once in a while...that can be hella fun


OH and someone asked about during the day...ummm..hell to the yes! Daytime, nighttime, miller time, any time is a good time!
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Old 07-03-2011, 04:29 AM   #55
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I don't mind what the lighting situation is as I like to see and be seen, but if I was setting up to get down.... I would do it by candlelight.
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Old 07-03-2011, 06:08 AM   #56
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Mostly, it seems to be lights-on or natural lighting in my world. I honestly don't care, although I'd prefer more lights-off or soft lighting because of eye issues and light sensitivity. But it's not at all body shame. I'm happy to walk around naked in front of my mate all day long. I figure if I'm not sure they'll like my body, or even love me enough to not care about the things that are imperfect, I shouldn't be doing naked things with them. [YMMV, of course.]
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Old 07-19-2011, 06:13 AM   #58
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Lights on or natural light. And...I'll be putting contacts in. I want to see him in detail.
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Old 07-19-2011, 06:55 AM   #59
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Im one for lights on, I LOVE to see what is going on, how could you not...your with a beautiful person, your getting intimate, your sharing yourself with another..... it dosent have to be search lights, lol! dim mood lights work well.
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A majority of the ladies who've been kind enough to be with me with have been lights off types. Most wouldn't even get undressed until the lights were out or undressed under the sheets. I've always found this kind of frustrating since I like at least a bit of light.
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Old 07-19-2011, 11:58 AM   #61
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I like low lights so I can see the womans body. Seeing and feeling the nice big body is part of the pleasure.
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Old 07-19-2011, 02:17 PM   #62
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I like the fumbling intimacy of darkness, but light is good too.

Depends what light though. Natural daylight, firelight and soft mood lighting are fantastic. Glaring bulb overhead, not so much.
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Old 07-19-2011, 02:24 PM   #63
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I haven't tried strobe light. That would be interesting. LOL
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:24 PM   #64
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Although I used to be uncomfortable with the lights on, now I can go any which way.

However, it *is* hard when your always wants the lights off because they REALLY don't want you to see them. I had an ex would say things like "you don't want to see my fat stomach" and tell me to shut up whenever I complimented him on his body. It's rough for both parties involved.
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Thats not uncommon. We ran into one of my wifes friends at a store one night and somehow their conversation turned to intimate things and the woman told Crystal that her husband hadn't seen her naked in fifteen years. They have five kids and four of them were under 15 at the time.
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Thats not uncommon. We ran into one of my wifes friends at a store one night and somehow their conversation turned to intimate things and the woman told Crystal that her husband hadn't seen her naked in fifteen years. They have five kids and four of them were under 15 at the time.
Wow. That makes me feel all sad and stuff.
I wonder if it is sometimes a trust issue in these situations. I could be wrong, but that's certainly what I thought when I was dating my ex.
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I know for myself that I'm not having a child with someone I don't even trust to see me naked.
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I found it rather distracting. However, colored light bulbs were cool.
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In my experience, in the dark is more romantic and sweet. And because the other senses, especially touch are more prevalent, I think it is one of those more "making love" moments.

In the light, I am usually not as romantic. That's when the kinky side of me comes out. Didn't really think about it until now.
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I'm sort of divided on this issue.

I sleep naked, and provided the door is locked and the blinds are drawn I will quite happily wander about the house naked without thinking much about it. Don't want to give the neighbors a free show but if I'm home alone or its just hubby and I, well (shrug). I'm not a nudist per se, but it seems pretty darn silly if you're sleeping naked and you wake up in the middle of the night to have to put on clothing to walk to the bathroom, or to the kitchen to grab a drink of water (or snack). Or if you're about to get a shower and you realize you need to grab new towels from the linen closet down the hallway.

For sex though, I prefer soft lighting and at least starting with the sheets pulled up. Its less about looks though and more about narrowing your focus to the space immediately around your bodies and not being able to look up and think gee, I should repaint that wall or dust the dresser etc. By the end though the sheets are usually at least on the floor and sometimes half way across the house and I'm back to meandering around naked while I figure out where my soda, clothes, eyeglasses and anything else I might be missing got left in the process.
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Lights on, lights off, either can be fine depending on the situation. Candlelight and firelight are usually GREAT. Or the glow from the pool light at night while you are skinny dipping is very nice. But feeling that sweet hand reaching out and touching you in complete darkness can be satisfying as well, while you reach out to return the touch received.
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It used to be off with my ex's because they didn't appreciate my body the way it was. They liked me cos of me, not because I was a bbw.

Now with my current boyfriend it's always on he loves my body from head to toe and i love it!
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