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Old 11-12-2011, 12:07 PM   #1
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So my girlfriend is very body conscious, (well to everyone except me), and im trying to convince her that she has an amazing body! So, she told me to post a couple of pictures of her to see what type of reaction and feedback she would get. So here they are, what do you all think?
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Old 11-12-2011, 01:08 PM   #2
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She's pretty. You may run into issues with the mods for posting someone else's photo, I'm not exactly sure how the rule is written, but I think there is one. Your girlfriend looks like one great hug, too.
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Old 11-12-2011, 02:14 PM   #3
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Old 11-12-2011, 03:59 PM   #4
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If she's body conscious this is something she needs to cope with herself. Learning to love her body internally and emotionally should come from her own resolve, whether to accept it as it is or change it to suit her better, not based on the opinions of strangers who all prefer a wide range of types of shapes and sizes. She's never going to be able to please everyone here, and really, she shouldn't try to or be concerned about it because it's not healthy. If you love her body, great, if other people like it, fine, but what's really important is that SHE likes it and not allow the opinion of others be the deciding factor in that.

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Old 11-12-2011, 04:31 PM   #5
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If she's body conscious this is something she needs to cope with herself. Learning to love her body internally and emotionally should come from her own resolve, whether to accept it as it is or change it to suit her better, not based on the opinions of strangers who all prefer a wide range of types of shapes and sizes. She's never going to be able to please everyone here, and really, she shouldn't try to or be concerned about it because it's not healthy. If you love her body, great, if other people like it, fine, but what's really important is that SHE likes it and not allow the opinion of others be the deciding factor in that.

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I agree with that statement.

But, if she still wants feedback, she looks very cute. It looks like she has nice hair too. But beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. So, it just depends on which beholders you ask.
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:50 PM   #6
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If she's body conscious this is something she needs to cope with herself. Learning to love her body internally and emotionally should come from her own resolve, whether to accept it as it is or change it to suit her better, not based on the opinions of strangers who all prefer a wide range of types of shapes and sizes. She's never going to be able to please everyone here, and really, she shouldn't try to or be concerned about it because it's not healthy. If you love her body, great, if other people like it, fine, but what's really important is that SHE likes it and not allow the opinion of others be the deciding factor in that.

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You make a valid point. But this really wasn't meant to change the way she views herself and her body when shes in public. She is an extremely confident person, but she just gets a little shy when it comes to her body. Also, i was trying to prove to her that men liking larger women is very common, and im not the only one in the universe lol.
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:51 PM   #7
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Also, thank you for the comments and feedback... we would love to here more!
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Old 11-13-2011, 12:50 AM   #8
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... she just gets a little shy when it comes to her body.
Yeah, I'm not falling for this. I'm getting a different impression than that.

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... we would love to here more!
Yup, that sounds more like it.

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Old 11-14-2011, 01:52 PM   #9
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Wow! she's hot I love her blonde hair too you are a very lucky man
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Old 11-14-2011, 02:20 PM   #10
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uh youre posting this on a forum for lovers of fleshier folk. of course you're going to get good responses. that kind of a 'duh'.
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There is a great response about the importance of her loving and accepting herself. I think that is valid and essential.

Secondly, if she simply wants to know that there are people that support her if this is how or what she likes to look like, the answer is yes! She's very cute.

Personally I like much bigger curves, but she's definitely very pretty.

She doesn't have to look or be a certain size or weight to be beautiful.

Life really isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself and being all that you can be. That might sound like an army ad, but I really believe you need to make life be as happy, exciting, enriching, and simply the best it can be for yourself. Of course sharing with others is all part of that too. So, post more pics of her soon, lol!
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[QUOTE=Saoirse;1812398]uh youre posting this on a forum for lovers of fleshier folk. of course you're going to get good responses. that kind of a 'duh'.[/QUOTthats what my point was exactly! It was more of a confidence booster then anything
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uh youre posting this on a forum for lovers of fleshier folk. of course you're going to get good responses. that kind of a 'duh'.[/QUOTthats what my point was exactly! It was more of a confidence booster then anything
Why does she need other people's confidence? Isn't yours all she needs?
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Why does she need other people's confidence? Isn't yours all she needs?
No. All she needs is her OWN confidence.
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Well, she's blonde with a delightfully curvy figure...I'd say you're a lucky man to be with a lady like that.

As for her confidence? She should be perfectly happy with who she is, whatever her scale says.

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No. All she needs is her OWN confidence.
You're absolutely right. My bad.
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So my girlfriend is very body conscious, (well to everyone except me), and im trying to convince her that she has an amazing body! So, she told me to post a couple of pictures of her to see what type of reaction and feedback she would get. So here they are, what do you all think?
Not to gush, but good lord....a) red is a great color on her, b) very cute little freckles and complexion, and c) mouthwatering slight stretch marks, killer figure.....She's obviously got model type looks, and anyone who appreciates a voluptuous figure is drooling over her
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