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Old 06-14-2016, 12:21 PM   #626
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Halter dresses? In my office?

pushing it to 11.
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Old 06-15-2016, 05:03 AM   #627
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Since my wife's libido came back a few months ago she is often running at probably like a seven or eight, but after years of dealing with her being at about 0.5, I'd managed to suppress my own libido pretty well, and have only rebounded to maybe a 4.

With the result that I'm getting the occasional comment to the effect of "Why were you so late coming to bed, I fell asleep before then, and I wanted to do stuff." It is an effort to bite my tongue and not say "Hey, welcome to most of my last 18 years.".

There are worse problems to have, but it just all feels weird.
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Old 06-15-2016, 10:47 AM   #628
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My libido has tanked recently. It resurfaces right at the tail end of my cycle. However for the past two days I've been physically aroused but bot so much mentally. Damn work schedule. It's hard when I get home at 11 and by boyfriend works a regular 9-5 because by the time I'm wound down from work he's ready for bed.
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Old 06-15-2016, 11:42 AM   #629
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LOL. I'm stealing your line and using it on EVERYONE.
And thanks, I'll look into the tribulus terrestris. We haven't done a lot of investigating regarding the sex drive, because he's lazy and I don't have time. He's got some viagra, and it works seriously well, but he has to want to take it. Sigh.
Feel free. It's nice and classy and to the point!

That's the difference between the two. Viagra works if you take it when you want to fuck. Tribulus makes you want to fuck. At least in my experience using it.

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Since my wife's libido came back a few months ago she is often running at probably like a seven or eight, but after years of dealing with her being at about 0.5, I'd managed to suppress my own libido pretty well, and have only rebounded to maybe a 4.

With the result that I'm getting the occasional comment to the effect of "Why were you so late coming to bed, I fell asleep before then, and I wanted to do stuff." It is an effort to bite my tongue and not say "Hey, welcome to most of my last 18 years.".

There are worse problems to have, but it just all feels weird.
I think we are near the same age. Have you had your testosterone levels checked? I did mine and they were low. So I spent a year researching and trying to boost naturally through herbs, and diet, and weight training. After a year I retested and it was still the same so I started replacement therapy which is fairly common for us guys in our 40's. I know, all my equipment worked just fine but sometimes the mental motivation wasn't there. I'd be aroused but would be like, meh screw it I'm tired. Maybe this weekend. The difference was going from being happy to do it once or twice in a week to wanting to do it 3 times or more a day. I strongly suggest to all my pals around my age to get that checked. It doesn't mean your not functioning it just means that you might not be functioning optimally. I know if I have an 8 cylinder engine I don't want it firing on only 2 or 3 cylinders ya dig?
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Old 06-15-2016, 12:18 PM   #630
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I know, all my equipment worked just fine but sometimes the mental motivation wasn't there. I'd be aroused but would be like, meh screw it I'm tired. Maybe this weekend.
This is called an equalizer. Women go through this with sex in general. It seems that women, for the most part, have to be mentally and emotionally engaged in order to really enjoy sex. When women don't want to have sex, there are many things that go into it, but most of the time it is just that mentally they are not into it, or something else is a bigger need than sex at that moment.

That being said, a low/slow libido sucks and not in a good way.
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This is called an equalizer. Women go through this with sex in general. It seems that women, for the most part, have to be mentally and emotionally engaged in order to really enjoy sex. When women don't want to have sex, there are many things that go into it, but most of the time it is just that mentally they are not into it, or something else is a bigger need than sex at that moment.

That being said, a low/slow libido sucks and not in a good way.
It's definitely something I can understand better now than when I was younger. But the cool thing about now is having the understanding but also having the drive I had when younger as well. It makes for a good combination!
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It's definitely something I can understand better now than when I was younger. But the cool thing about now is having the understanding but also having the drive I had when younger as well. It makes for a good combination!
Yes it does! That understanding makes sex better for all involved. Specially since as women get older their sex drive tends to go up.
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LG: I have no doubt that my levels are well down from younger days, from a variety of signs. But there is supposed to be a drop as we age, is there not? I never really thought of looking at getting it boosted, just assuming this was biology as intended. Still, I'll at least tentatively raise the issue the next time I have to see a medical practitioner (although to be honest, our nurse practitioner is awesome in many ways, but after several stints volunteering in Africa, her sympathy for First World Problems may not be as high as some people's ....)
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Due to many issues that are easily findable on Google, men's test levels are declining more rapidly and at an earlier age. But yes, they do drop off with age, but so does one's hair, or bone density etc. does that mean you shouldn't try to keep it if you're so inclined, or should quit drinking milk and eating cheese and quit exercising as you age because you know those things drop off naturally. There is no reason nor any shame in wanting to be your best self as long as you can. I'm not sure about Canada but there are many centers that specialize in TRT ( testosterone replacement therapy ) I would suggest going to someplace like that where they have a much better understanding than a typical family doctor would.
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Old 06-15-2016, 03:50 PM   #635
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due to many issues that are easily findable on google, men's test levels are declining more rapidly and at an earlier age. But yes, they do drop off with age, but so does one's hair, or bone density etc. Does that mean you shouldn't try to keep it if you're so inclined, or should quit drinking milk and eating cheese and quit exercising as you age because you know those things drop off naturally. There is no reason nor any shame in wanting to be your best self as long as you can. I'm not sure about canada but there are many centers that specialize in trt ( testosterone replacement therapy ) i would suggest going to someplace like that where they have a much better understanding than a typical family doctor would.
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Hubby just got measured for a kilt (don't ask) and they measured around his belly button where it sits, and he measured at 47 inches at 260 lbs. and he was sucking in a bit

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Hubby just got measured for a kilt (don't ask) and they measured around his belly button where it sits, and he measured at 47 inches at 260 lbs. and he was sucking in a bit

Haaaaawwwwttttttttttttttttt
Ooooooh. Dats nice.
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Ooooooh. Dats nice.
I always feel ambivalent when I see stuff like this. My first reaction is "damn, that's so small!" and then my next is "shit...that probably shouldn't be the first thing I think of 47" around...".
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Haha size is relative, i suppose!!! For me it was just one of those hot/wow moments, because its a stark contrast to when we met. Not really a "quantity" FFA myself; s'all about the quality, and damn he has it.
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Haha size is relative, i suppose!!! For me it was just one of those hot/wow moments, because its a stark contrast to when we met. Not really a "quantity" FFA myself; s'all about the quality, and damn he has it.
And you aren't at all looking forward to him flaunting it in a kilt, right?
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