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Old 11-19-2014, 10:20 AM   #1
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Question Does being an old man equate to creeper?

I am 63 years old, but I still enjoy the dimensions site. I have a fat fetish, but that's about all I have in common with most members. I realize that I am waaaay too old to be friends with people who are young enough the be my grandchild. I sometimes feel like I am, or maybe thought to be, a creeper. There aren't many places I can go where it is not so crazy to enjoy fat.
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Old 11-19-2014, 10:46 AM   #2
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I am 63 years old, but I still enjoy the dimensions site. I have a fat fetish, but that's about all I have in common with most members. I realize that I am waaaay too old to be friends with people who are young enough the be my grandchild. I sometimes feel like I am, or maybe thought to be, a creeper. There aren't many places I can go where it is not so crazy to enjoy fat.
There are plenty of people your age or older here, we just don't advertise it... trust me.
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Old 11-19-2014, 10:57 AM   #3
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I'm not in your bracket, but I am at the point where some posters are barely older than my kid, and it won't be many years before some will be younger than him. Certainly this makes me wonder at times if I'm a creeper.

Overall my take on it is that so long as I treat each poster as an interesting adult who I'm talking to at a neighbour's Christmas party, it is probably OK (although as a second order issue, I do try to watch myself to make sure I'm engaging with a fairly broad demographic on here)
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Old 11-27-2014, 12:46 PM   #4
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I'm an old fart at 60 and one of the reasons I left this site several years ago was because I felt I had gotten to old for the crowd here and felt very much out of place. And now that I've come back I still feel that way...
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Old 11-29-2014, 01:43 AM   #5
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I am 63 years old, but I still enjoy the dimensions site. I have a fat fetish, but that's about all I have in common with most members. I realize that I am waaaay too old to be friends with people who are young enough the be my grandchild. I sometimes feel like I am, or maybe thought to be, a creeper. There aren't many places I can go where it is not so crazy to enjoy fat.
I'll turn 60 in January. Then I will join the 60s forum. I realized at age 17 that I'm into fat women. It's a fetish or some think it's a preference, it doesn't matter. I'm a Dimensions regular for 15 years now. I'm not too old to enjoy fat related discussion. We older guys should give advice and support to younger FAs and BBW and of course admire the ladies adequate our age.
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Old 11-29-2014, 03:07 AM   #6
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I am 63 years old, but I still enjoy the dimensions site. I have a fat fetish, but that's about all I have in common with most members. I realize that I am waaaay too old to be friends with people who are young enough the be my grandchild. I sometimes feel like I am, or maybe thought to be, a creeper. There aren't many places I can go where it is not so crazy to enjoy fat.
Hi Tom,

I am the same age you are. My husband is a couple of years older. I don't have a fat fetish, you might say that I am one. 'Been fat all my life and finally figured out that's the way things are for my life. I agree with Blockierer that we can be friends with people on this board regardless of their age. And sometimes we can give them advice and a lot of the time they give us advice.

That is one of the strengths of this community - different ideas and learn from others. And even more important we have members all over the world we can talk to. I feel one of the best things I can contribute is a fierce defense of fat rights. In sixty plus years, I have been thru a lot of BS and have gotten out of most scraps only slightly mangled.

I don't recall being identified a creeper here 'bouts. Pest yes. Biased yes. Long-winded, run-on posts - most definitely. And I forgot, sometimes snarky and often a curmudegeon.
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Old 11-29-2014, 07:42 PM   #7
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. I realize that I am waaaay too old to be friends with people who are young enough the be my grandchild...
Why? I admit that Americans tend to segregate themselves by age, but you and I are old enough to see through that BS. There are lively, interesting people in every age group, just as there are beautiful people of all sizes. I treasure my friends of all ages, from those in their 20's to those in their 80's. After all, bodies may age, but minds are timeless.
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Old 11-30-2014, 11:27 PM   #8
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"...Americans tend to segregate themselves by age... I treasure my friends of all ages, from those in their 20's to those in their 80's. After all, bodies may age, but minds are timeless. "
Just as a community without memory is doomed to repeat its mistakes...
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Kudos to ANYONE that keeps in engaged in life. In addition to learning from others who are not-into-lady-gaga-bieber and that demographic, how about admiration for people that have lived more life than (place your preferred label here).

I have always had better times with people a decade or more older than myself. Everything from experiences, maturity, and confidence attract and turn me on.

So don't feel you're a creeper. It is not your problem that someone else might choose to use that label. It's probably a security or self-esteem issue for that person.

Welcome back ATrueFA and others. I embrace you and invite you to contact me.

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After all, bodies may age, but minds are timeless.


You're quite right, Doc. My mind is timeless. At age 77 I often forget the day, the month, and even the year (the newspaper helps me with that one) - not to mention any number of other things (whose face is that in the mirror - the one I seem to be shaving. Can't be mine - could it?)

Well, as long as I remember the good stuff and forget the bad stuff, everything's hunky-dory.

But am I a creeper? Yeah, if I stumble and my cane land out of reach.
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Dr. F.... I wish I could rep you.. (damn changes) But I agree with you. Friends are friends regardless of their age(s).

True your friendship with a 20 something will not be the same as the friendship you have with someone in their late 40's.. and the friendship you have with someone in their late 40's will be different than the friendship you have with someone that is 63, but they are friendships nonetheless and they have their own value and merrit. (Even if it is just on-line)

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You won't be perceived as being a creeper for being older, but if you behave in a creepy manner, then you will be. Being friends with people of different age isn't creepy. Behaving in an overtly sexual manner with people much younger than you, especially if uninvited, will give the creeper vibe. Doing that with people you don't have an existing relationship (friend or more) with can give it off, too. There are some people who can make dirty comments to me and I not only like it, but encourage it, while others I don't know as well will creep me out if they do it.
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