How fat do you like 'em?

[Cors]

I am the most attracted to people who at least twice my size.

Threads about physical preferences make me a little uncomfortable, even though we like what we like and this is a safe space where we could discuss it. I think it is important to be sensitive about making comments like "yes I love them big but not too big" on a site for fat people and their admirers.

[Chimpi]

Quite fat - fat in mind, in spirit, in body and in soul.

[analikesyourface]

It really depends.

I'd like a REALLY big guy (700+) but I honestly couldn't deal with that, I don't think.

My current boyfriend is about 270... and gaining.... but he's also muscular, so doesn't look *chubby* really.

But typically I like guys who are 6'2+ and 350+

[Loki666]

for me I like girls who are much shorter, and prefer girls to be around 300 at least, but my fiance is around 5'1 and 260 I think and I love her body, she has such a sexy belly, big boobs, big everything but her height lol

[Orso]

Of course weight does not weigh people, there are lots of other things involved, from personality to looks, from intelligence to confidence, from sympathy to tastes.

In any case if we speak of weight only my hormones would say the bigger the better, sky is the limit. Anyway, because of health issues, mobility issues, social interactions issues, accessibility issues and a few dozen more issues, to make life easier for my woman and me, I would say my ideal is about two-and-half/three times the 'normal' weight.

Let's say my practical ideal is between 140 and 165 kilos - say 310 to 360 pounds - for the average lady about 1.65 m - 5'5" tall.

[Jon Blaze]

I'm not big on numbers at all. It's more about how I see the person.
Trend wise it's usually between 130-500ish, but I mean it varies based on a number of things.

Height? Usually between 4'11" and 6'1." But again: Trend, not a rule.

[S13Drifter]

I dont have an exact number but over 200 and you're catching my eye, 300 oh yea I'm look at you hun, 400 whats yo number, and so on with silly pic up lines.

[FA Punk]

I like women of all sizes

[chicken legs]

Considering the different levels of fat, according to Gabriel Iglesias,

1. Big
2. Healthy
3. Husky
4. Fluffy
5. Dayuuuuuum
6. Oh helll noo

The thing to remember is everyone carries their weight differently but I can usually go up to Dayuuuuuum.

[TrickBaby]

Guh, such a hard question as it changes often and depends on the guy. ( A great build and handsome face will always sway me regardless of what the scales say) I used to say 200-300lb but that's laughable now...

[Webmaster]

I've attempted to answer this question several times in this thread, but each time found that it really wasn't possible without a lot of qualifications. For example, if you generally like blondes, there will still be a lot of women with brown or red hair that catch your eye. And even if someone is your physical ideal, you may find you have nothing in common, or just don't click. Or you may find that there's a difference between what you want and what you need. Or that you've fallen for a number rather than a person.

That all said, super-sizes always attract my eye. There's just something about so much woman that fundamentally and inherently appeals to me and draws me. That was always so in my earliest sexual dreams, and it remained so when I grew up. The fatter the better.

There was a time in my life when I was preoccupied with the difference between what society considered "fat" (hardly fat at all) and what I considered fat and desirable (a lot fatter). For a long time I thought the women of my dreams simply did not exist in real life. I remember the thrill I felt when I saw that NAAFA's old NAAFA Date program in its preferences questionnaire had a "400-plus" category. My dates at that time were generally midsize, and I realized that I wanted a supersize woman in my life, and at that time I arbitrarily felt that was 400 pounds plus.

When that happened I definitely did feel sort of a "I was lost and now am found" kind of feeling, like I finally had the answer to what I had always wanted and needed. I love supersize women, and I always will. There is something unique and wonderful in a very large woman that simply appeals to me in every way.

That all said, life, of course, is like Forrest Gump's proverbial box of chocolates: you never know what you're going to get. Coincidences, circumstances and whatever else life throws at you means that what you think you want is not always what you get or need. You also find that love conquers all, and that you always find beauty in what you love.

In the end, what it all boils down to is that I simply like fat women. How fat has preoccupied me at times in my life, but over time specific numbers mattered less and less.

[Dromond]

I don't have a "number." I've dated women from slightly plump to solidly super-size, and been attracted to them all. Measurements don't matter to me. What attracts me is what matters. Simple as.

[sierrak]

Originally Posted by chicken legs

Considering the different levels of fat, according to Gabriel Iglesias,

1. Big
2. Healthy
3. Husky
4. Fluffy
5. Dayuuuuuum
6. Oh helll noo

The thing to remember is everyone carries their weight differently but I can usually go up to Dayuuuuuum.

I don't have a problem with going up to what I would call "Oh hell yessssss!"

[Weirdo890]

My preferences can be all around the fat spectrum. In terms of sheer physical attraction, it depends on how they carry their fat.

[CastingPearls]

Honestly, the last man I fell in love with, I had no idea what he looked like when we first started talking. I fell in love with his intelligence, his wit, his enthusiasm and amazing talents, his endearing goofiness and what I thought was his integrity, and was charmed by his subtle and sometimes not so subtle pursuit of me. It wasn't until I already was friends with him, that I saw a pic, (and was thrilled) and we became friends on Facebook, then Yahoo, then Skype. I was his first Dims friend on Facebook. And Yahoo. And Skype, come to think of it. lol He already knew what I looked like. I used to post a lot more pics than I do now.

Had he weighed 200, 300, 400, even 500 lbs. It wouldn't have mattered to me. I loved the person inside the body. I knew he was a BHM and figured that when we met, we would figure everything else out. It didn't work out that way, but my point is that yes, I like 'em big. I don't rule out small though.

The heart though is the biggest part, of a man, to me.

[Alicia Rose]

I'm really not sure how to answer this. I love ~really big~ girls, to the point that one of my girlfriends calls me a chubby chaser... But all of those aforementioned girlfriends are significantly thinner than I am, and I find them gorgeous and sexy as well. I guess I can find someone attractive anywhere from 100 to 1000 pounds, it's all about your attitude, personality, intelligence... All that stuff. The brain is the sexiest organ, after all.

[Shan34]

All my life I've loved big guys. My first love was a big guy. But I married a skinny, very small framed man...soon to be divorced but spent 12 years together. It truly does boil down to everything else that makes the man. However, on pure instant attraction, I only ever notice the big guys.

35 and very boy crazy...I love them all!

[sanderbwa]

Well I guess this is a really 'hard to answer' question. At least for me. I find ladies from 300 to 450 lbs especially attractive, but it's not the weight itself what makes them attractive. I really like big bellies, thighs, booties etc. but for me it's really important what's inside. But they have to be fat as I can't even imagine being with a 'normal sized' girl.

[chicken legs]

Originally Posted by sierrak

I don't have a problem with going up to what I would call "Oh hell yessssss!"

The thought of a "Oh hell yessssss!" kinda blew my mind a bit.

[Blackhawk2293]

Originally Posted by RedXII

How fat do you like 'em? Simple as that.

I prefer my women to be heavier than me and I'm 224 lbs... and there is definitely no weight limit. 300, 400, 500, 600 whatever

[Blockierer]

I'm a succer for supersized women.

[asmodeus]

Originally Posted by RedXII

How fat do you like 'em? Simple as that.

Chunky, maybe athletic but tending to plump, with the emphasis on a rounded, still-growing tummy.

[SuperBatAquaGreenFlash]

I'm not that knowledgeable about weight, so my range may not fully (or even accurately) represent what I find physically attractive, but I find women 200 lbs up to 350 lbs attractive, after which my tastes are kinda picky. There are some "SSBBWs" that I've seen and couldn't help but think, "she's hot," but I'm generally not in to them.

Of course, true love is more important and I'd only ever want to be in a relationship with someone who I can to some level emotionally, intellectually and philosophically relate to (As well as relate to in terms of entertainment).

[S13Drifter]

I think a more appropriate way to think about this question is that if you are in a bar and in front of you there are a line of women ranging from 100 to 400 pounds (just used these numbers as an example) who are to going to walk up and talk to first?

Me I'm going for the 300 girl first. Thats just me.

[BigBeautifulMe]

Man, if it stops at 400 some of us are screwed.

I know you said you're just using those as an example. I'm teasing.