Feeder/Feedee Thread - Page 3

choudhury · 04-11-2012, 05:06 PM

This is a fascinating thread. And I have to say that reading feedees explaining how eating turns them on, how they love food and love to be full, etc., is quite a turn on.

I don't know if I'm a 'feeder' or not, really. What I love, absolutely looove, is when my wife overeats, and when she gains weight.

She has gained steadily through our 15 years together and observing her as she hits another level of fatness - right now she is usually the biggest person in the room, with a magnificent belly that I love to caress and which she loves to have me caress - drives me wild. As for overeating, she is not generally one for huge binges (although there have been occasions) so much as just regularly eating lots and lots. Just last night we were out at dinner and, literally 30 seconds after remarking that she should lose weight, she proposed dessert and ending up eating all of the huge pie a la mode slice we ordered. I just love that.

What I don't feel any desire to do is 'control' this process or even, really, feed her per se. Very early on in our relationship I did more actively encourage and facilitate, bringing her lots of treats; there was one occasion where, when she said she should probably stop eating because she was full, I told her to finish her plate (which she did immediately, and it must be said, in a decidedly obedient way). But I eased up - I'm not sure why. It's probably good that I did, though, since her gain has been strong and steady enough that my adding to it likely would have been bad for her health.

I think she is probably a feedee? Not in the specific sense of calculated gaining but in the broader sense of loving to eat and overeat and be full - and perhaps in the slightly submissive sense of secretly liking encouragement or even commands to eat. Whether my fundamentally passive orientation - I just enjoy the process of her being fat and getting fatter, without trying to lead or steer it - makes me a feeder, I don't know.

Durin · 04-20-2012, 08:49 PM

Can someone be both a feedee and a feeder? This is certainly where my fantasies have been wandering off to lately.

The Orange Mage · 04-21-2012, 04:04 AM

Of course! Feedism isn't a monolithic thing, it's a collection of turn-ons, and not everyone has the same mix! There are people who get off on feeding/being fed who absolutely hate weight gain, believe it or not.

Prince Dyscord · 07-18-2012, 03:14 PM

I love this thread. So many people in the BBW community seem to immediately hate on feederism. It's annoying how quick they are to judge. As for me, I've never actually fed anyone. My thing is more people being comfortable with themselves, as I've found feedees tend to be rather confident.

joey86 · 07-24-2012, 09:49 AM

Interesting posts... I must say I know I need a feeder/feedee relationship, period lol.

07-24-2012, 09:49 AM	#55
joey86 Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Bristol UK Posts: 126	Interesting posts... I must say I know I need a feeder/feedee relationship, period lol. __________________ The land of Joey! Where bigger is always better :P.

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04-11-2012, 05:06 PM	#51
choudhury Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 24	This is a fascinating thread. And I have to say that reading feedees explaining how eating turns them on, how they love food and love to be full, etc., is quite a turn on. I don't know if I'm a 'feeder' or not, really. What I love, absolutely looove, is when my wife overeats, and when she gains weight. She has gained steadily through our 15 years together and observing her as she hits another level of fatness - right now she is usually the biggest person in the room, with a magnificent belly that I love to caress and which she loves to have me caress - drives me wild. As for overeating, she is not generally one for huge binges (although there have been occasions) so much as just regularly eating lots and lots. Just last night we were out at dinner and, literally 30 seconds after remarking that she should lose weight, she proposed dessert and ending up eating all of the huge pie a la mode slice we ordered. I just love that. What I don't feel any desire to do is 'control' this process or even, really, feed her per se. Very early on in our relationship I did more actively encourage and facilitate, bringing her lots of treats; there was one occasion where, when she said she should probably stop eating because she was full, I told her to finish her plate (which she did immediately, and it must be said, in a decidedly obedient way). But I eased up - I'm not sure why. It's probably good that I did, though, since her gain has been strong and steady enough that my adding to it likely would have been bad for her health. I think she is probably a feedee? Not in the specific sense of calculated gaining but in the broader sense of loving to eat and overeat and be full - and perhaps in the slightly submissive sense of secretly liking encouragement or even commands to eat. Whether my fundamentally passive orientation - I just enjoy the process of her being fat and getting fatter, without trying to lead or steer it - makes me a feeder, I don't know.

04-20-2012, 08:49 PM	#52
Durin Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 392	Can someone be both a feedee and a feeder? This is certainly where my fantasies have been wandering off to lately.

04-21-2012, 04:04 AM	#53
The Orange Mage ♓ Fishy Pisces! ♓ Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Vandalia, OH Posts: 2,176	Of course! Feedism isn't a monolithic thing, it's a collection of turn-ons, and not everyone has the same mix! There are people who get off on feeding/being fed who absolutely hate weight gain, believe it or not.

07-18-2012, 03:14 PM	#54
Prince Dyscord Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: PA Posts: 121	I love this thread. So many people in the BBW community seem to immediately hate on feederism. It's annoying how quick they are to judge. As for me, I've never actually fed anyone. My thing is more people being comfortable with themselves, as I've found feedees tend to be rather confident.