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Old 04-21-2012, 11:12 AM   #26
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good thread ! gonna try to be as honest and respectful as possible.

there is a few things in a SSBBW/BBW that i dont find so hot,ill come to that in a sec .

To explain with words those feeling and sensation that are unique to every single persons , i have to start with what i like .

i found out that for me its pretty much all about proportion and texture .
No matter how tall or how fat . ex: 4"7 280 lbs , or 6 and 600 lbs , if both well proportioned ( i mean by this , some legs , butt and arms some belly etc round and fat all over ... ) , i will be almost equally attracted .

now for the "bad" bits . few things that can come in the way of proportion and texture for example , Lymphoma is one of my biggest Nemesis , in sever case , it really can transform some one shape and proportion to some extreme level , let see for example , a ssbbw with the right leg 4 times bigger that the left one , that some how can bother me .
i am not sure about the medical therm of this next one but i saw rolls of skin that can dry and turn black , crack , and almost feel like leather . i dont "like" the change of texture .

i dont mind scares , or stretch march , little hair , or sweat , zit ,etc
i am ok with red mark or what ever color they can be , as long they dont mess too much is the over all texture .

but i also believe that if i develop strong feeling for some one, none of this will matter that much , i believe love can take over any imperfection .
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Old 04-21-2012, 11:26 AM   #27
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I would have thought we'd been over this before....

It goes back to the saying, "Different Strokes for different Folks."

Different individuals have preferences for different things, this includes the "bad bits".

Because of this,there isn't really such a thing as "bad bits" since there will almost always be a person out there that likes the "bad bits".

Some are fans of cellulite, others double chins, others stetch marks, thunder thighs, pot bellies, etc.

I think you get the point.

What some call "bad bits" are only "bad bits" to certain people.

Hell, to the mainstream fat parts are "bad bits".
And we all know this isn't the case around here.
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Old 04-21-2012, 11:46 AM   #28
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I do like it when certain large BBW have beard. Just a few to tickle.
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now for the "bad" bits . few things that can come in the way of proportion and texture for example , Lymphoma is one of my biggest Nemesis , in severe cases , it really can transform some one shape and proportion to some extreme level , let see for example , a ssbbw with the right leg 4 times bigger that the left one , that some how can bother me .
i am not sure about the medical therm of this next one but i saw rolls of skin that can dry and turn black , crack , and almost feel like leather . i dont "like" the change of texture .
This is the kind of stuff I wanted to discuss. I am very thankful for your honesty.
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I always wondered what men really thought about a BBW/SSBBW having a larger/fatter mons pubis. I wondered for a long time if mine was abnormal, because you get used to seeing the thinner, flatter mons of other women as displayed in pictures and movies and such.

I can now say that I love mine as is, and it is normal and beautiful.
I had a very similar experience with my breasts. As a fat woman my boobs look very different from the perky ones you see in R-rated movies and for a long a time I thought they were weird and unattractive. After actually seeing what other FAT women's breasts looked like I learned mine were perfectly normal. It can be a confusing experience to see body parts look one way and yours look totally different. But once I realized it was my lack of exposure to different body types, not my breasts, that was the problem I learned to appreciate their beauty.

I can definitely see even FAs falling prey to such a trap, especially young ones. If all youre exposed to are perky breasts then you probably assume everyone looks that way. Even the web models who are gorgeous but take a lot of time and care to look close perfect in every set can lead to a let-down seeing a real naked non-perfect fat woman. Everyone's body is different and it just takes time and exposure to learn to appreciate all the "imperfections".

(Although I still do wonder if most male FA's appreciate the saggy-ness of fat women's breasts?)
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Old 04-23-2012, 02:25 PM   #34
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You know, I think in order to comment on this topic, I'm going to need to conduct much more close-up inspection. Any volunteers willing to further the cause?
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I don't know what interview this quote came from, but it's hard to disagree with this. From my vantage point, the aforementioned features (fatter mons pubis, saggy breasts) seem like very desirable things, i.e. generous amounts of tender feminine flesh. Deep cavernous navels, angel wings, soft fat arms and fingers, rolls, extra chins, voluminous saggy boobage, tremendous soft bellies, basketball asscheeks, doublewide hips, tree trunk legs with or without cellulite, soft round faces...these read like a list of things desired by people with FA tendencies. I agree with the notion that media presentation of the human body has raised the bar on both male and female alike to preclude a natural presentation, and that's rather unfortunate; it leaves impressionable people feeling the need to make themselves presentable when naked by an arbitrary standard, which as we can all imagine is hard to do when one's body type is not in vogue.

I honestly can't think of much that would be considered undesirable by an FA, outside of prehaps a catastrophic medical issue, and even that gets overlooked by those who admire the woman as opposed to her fleshy body. Minor dissymmetry is something I find inconsequential, such as one breast being slightly larger than the other. Skin discolorations from chafing, size or color of areolae or nipples, and mild body hair where it is usually found are also of no consequence to this FA, so razors are not needed; any extreme body hair resembling the, uh, individual upthread, might be an issue for me. Is that a man, or a woman with hypertrichosis?
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What's gross?

What are the bad bits we're talking about? Cellulite and stretch marks? Chafing and sweating? I like the former on me, but not the latter.
In most cases you can't have one without the other,so if FAs want to love my fat,they have to put up with the less attractive stuff too
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That's most certainly not bad bits!
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People call them stretch marks but I call them tiger stripes. RAWRRRR!!!
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Oh that's awesome! And should totally be on a tank top (to show off those stretch marks)
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People call them stretch marks but I call them tiger stripes. RAWRRRR!!!
I've mentioned elsewhere around here that I now refer to my stretch marks and lumps and bumps as body braille. Something you need to read with your hands to enjoy fully and to learn the whole story
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There are no such things as "bad bits" on a woman I am attracted to. On any woman, for that matter. Everyone's vision of beauty if different; we are all flawed. I find the flaws to be perfect imperfections. Am I even making sense?
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I LOVE that! Big, deep and soft… It's a major turn on!

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I always wondered what men really thought about a BBW/SSBBW having a larger/fatter mons pubis. I wondered for a long time if mine was abnormal, because you get used to seeing the thinner, flatter mons of other women as displayed in pictures and movies and such.

I can now say that I love mine as is, and it is normal and beautiful.
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The male population at Dimensions is hardly representative of the male population in general. If we didn't find larger ladies attractive, with all that goes along with being larger ladies, we wouldn't be here. It's not political correctness, it's a strong self selecting positive bias.
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So do I lol I thought it was my idea
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I'm neutral about it most of the time. It is most dependent on the person and the specific trait. On occasion I do like stretch marks and cellulite, but not requirements, nor are they things I'm very serious about.
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OMG I've never been called "beautiful woman" so many times in one night. His hands were EVERYWHERE and he loved every fat, jiggly inch of me.
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Isnt' that the most amazing experience EVER????? Just recently had that and it was the lovliest!!!!!!
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The webmaster was right. I didn't want 'politically correct' answers. I didn't want guys to say 'oh yeah I like the X' when really it was a bit iccy to him I wanted the truth.

As this thread has gone on I have realised that a fat fetish all emcompases the perceived bad bits.
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