FFA's in the UK?

[MillyLittleMonster]

Originally Posted by Sasquatch!

--Watch the BHM you like resign themselves to a life led completely alone, and live accordingly.

So damn true I knew a girl at school who was in my friendzone and she liked a guy who was "chubby" and she wouldn't say anything because she thought she would be laughed at.

I was like "GO FRIGGIN ASK OR TALK TO HIM ALREADY?!!!!"

The last time I saw him he was as skinny as a rake and still single.

She missed her chance!

[Jabbauk]

No chance of me ending up skinny as a rake, where did I put that cake.

The problem I have is a big lack of confidence, I am happy to talk to women but I just chicken out completely when it comes to making a move or anything more than just friends, I never know if they are just friends or want more and by that time I usually like them too much as a friend to risk jeopardising it

[loopytheone]

Originally Posted by Jabbauk

No chance of me ending up skinny as a rake, where did I put that cake.

The problem I have is a big lack of confidence, I am happy to talk to women but I just chicken out completely when it comes to making a move or anything more than just friends, I never know if they are just friends or want more and by that time I usually like them too much as a friend to risk jeopardising it

Well if they are a true friend to you then you having feeling for them wont change anything. It seems obligatory that all of my male friends have to have a crush on me at some point before getting over it and trust me, it doesn't alter the way I act around them or how much I care. And if they do change the way they act around you then they weren't true friends and you are better off not having them, in my opinion.

Then again, I am a total hermit and have very few friends or desire for any so what do I know! =p

[Jabbauk]

Originally Posted by loopytheone

Well if they are a true friend to you then you having feeling for them wont change anything. It seems obligatory that all of my male friends have to have a crush on me at some point before getting over it and trust me, it doesn't alter the way I act around them or how much I care. And if they do change the way they act around you then they weren't true friends and you are better off not having them, in my opinion.

Then again, I am a total hermit and have very few friends or desire for any so what do I know! =p

The problem I have is there is a girl I like and I know she likes me as she pounced on me and we have kissed before, the last time I saw her she introduced me to her husband I was like "err hello how are you" I didn't even know she had a BF! After that I went and sat with my friends and she came over and sat with me while holding my hand, now I was drunk and so was she but I have no intention of breaking up a marriage (plus her husband is built like a tank not a bouncy castle like me) so I guess I am resigned to having to find someone else who will make the first move....... It could be a long wait

[loopytheone]

Originally Posted by Jabbauk

The problem I have is there is a girl I like and I know she likes me as she pounced on me and we have kissed before, the last time I saw her she introduced me to her husband I was like "err hello how are you" I didn't even know she had a BF! After that I went and sat with my friends and she came over and sat with me while holding my hand, now I was drunk and so was she but I have no intention of breaking up a marriage (plus her husband is built like a tank not a bouncy castle like me) so I guess I am resigned to having to find someone else who will make the first move....... It could be a long wait

Oh wow, I am so sorry you got used like that. I hope you turned your back on her and never spoke to her again, it seems like she was playing you along for her own game which is never okay.

I hardly ever used to get people interested in me and then these last couple of years I have been fighting people off with a stick so you never know, you could be due your random influx of potential lovers any time now! ^.~