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That was a heart.
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Sydney, Australia as of January 2014!
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Anyone here into bdsm? Raise your hand... that is, if it's not currently restrained.
I've sort of recently discovered that being a subbie is an interest of mine. I'm a noob to that community, doing what reading I can on the topic so I don't come off like a dumbass in those circles. It's been my experience that soooo many of the FAs I meet are more submissive, so I'm also kind of curious how many here are dominant. It'll be interesting to see who posts in this thread. ![]()
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"I am a size 0 if you multiply my current size by 0." - liz (di-va) "I just think your culinary choices could use more death of sentient creatures. Is that so wrong?" - Mini -Rosebud- I am imagining how lovely it would be to see your golden hair rising up over my belly when you are between my thighs -Rosebud- Like a cunnilingus sunrise |
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Fnord
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Brisbane, Australia.
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I am, though I haven't been very active in the local kink scene since I had my daughter. I'll play at parties on both sides of the whip, but I prefer to submit within a relationship with a man, and dominate in a relationship with a woman.
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Ditz Extraordinaire
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: oregon
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I'm a bit of a switch, but, as much as I love control in most other aspects of my life, I prefer the sub side much more sexually. It's not part of my lifestyle, though...just the occasional indulgence.
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: I am not sure anymore
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great post...very much the sub here.
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: tacoma wa
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Yes and dominant,..........any volunteers ladies??????????
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Upstate NY
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Yes I am. Dominant...
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Long-time subbie here. And yes, there are Dom FAs out there
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That was a heart.
Join Date: Oct 2006
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Haha, I had no idea, Lin!
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"I am a size 0 if you multiply my current size by 0." - liz (di-va) "I just think your culinary choices could use more death of sentient creatures. Is that so wrong?" - Mini -Rosebud- I am imagining how lovely it would be to see your golden hair rising up over my belly when you are between my thighs -Rosebud- Like a cunnilingus sunrise |
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Well if you see me wearing a collar out in public one day, don't be surprised!
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Upstate NY
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Collar in public? (Quickly writing in the notebook)
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Join Date: Jul 2008
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I think we all have a little bdsm within us.
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cencored by wife
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Rheingau / Germany.
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Switch here too...
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Join Date: May 2011
Location: Santa Clarita, CA
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I'm completely intrigued by the community, and have the sub fetishes too. I just, um, don't know how to get started (nor have anyone to start with...)
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Fnord
Join Date: Dec 2010
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Sites like collarme and fetlife can be good places to get started, especially when looking for local groups. Most groups have "munches", which are casual get togethers, usually for a meal and/or a drink. Most go in street clothes, though some will have a kink twist to them, and it's about meeting others in a safe and friendly environment outside of the dungeon. There are lots of public events around the US, including weekend long events with workshops for people of all experience levels.
There are plenty of safe ways to meet other kinksters and to get involved in the local scene. Read a LOT, and remember that it's like a buffet - take what you like and ignore the rest. Or leave it til later. You don't have to put everything on your plate at once.
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Long Time Member
Join Date: Oct 2005
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Happy hunting! You'll have fun even just looking around trying to find out what you need to start asking about, and it gets better from there. Penguin's advice is dead on. If I were you, I would pester her for more clues and hints.
I am a dominant, and i absolutely adore topping big strong women. I hope to hear from you as you discover more about yourself an the Lifestyle i think you'll really come to love. |
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Advanced Killbot
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Massachusetts.
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I switch but I prefer to sub. I'm a decent dom, I guess... I just prefer to be the bitch
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Vancouver, BC
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Yep, dom here... No one ever suspects that, just because I'm "nice" and "sweet" on the outside.
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Go Big Or Go Home
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Possum Grape, AR
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Switch...................
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Still a Fat Girl lol
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Mobile, Alabama
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I'm not into the whole D/s thing but I prefer a man to be a little more dominant than myself
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Fnord
Join Date: Dec 2010
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The thing to remember about kink, is that you can dabble with a little bit of it or a lot of it or sit at some point in between. You can add a bit of spice to your interactions or you can go for a very spicy dish. It's all completely customisable to your relationship and preferences
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Chief Emeritus
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Knoxville, TN area
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It's been my experience that a good many of those who are intrigued by this can enjoy both sides, no matter how they inherently view themselves.
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Join Date: Jan 2006
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I would say I'm a submissive...but only when I choose to be.
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That was a heart.
Join Date: Oct 2006
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"I am a size 0 if you multiply my current size by 0." - liz (di-va) "I just think your culinary choices could use more death of sentient creatures. Is that so wrong?" - Mini -Rosebud- I am imagining how lovely it would be to see your golden hair rising up over my belly when you are between my thighs -Rosebud- Like a cunnilingus sunrise |
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#25 |
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: North Carolina
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I'm a switch...sometimes it feels so good to be dominated and other times bad boy needs to be dommed.
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