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Old 08-03-2012, 11:31 PM   #1
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Anyone here into bdsm? Raise your hand... that is, if it's not currently restrained.

I've sort of recently discovered that being a subbie is an interest of mine. I'm a noob to that community, doing what reading I can on the topic so I don't come off like a dumbass in those circles.

It's been my experience that soooo many of the FAs I meet are more submissive, so I'm also kind of curious how many here are dominant. It'll be interesting to see who posts in this thread.
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Old 08-04-2012, 12:56 AM   #2
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I am, though I haven't been very active in the local kink scene since I had my daughter. I'll play at parties on both sides of the whip, but I prefer to submit within a relationship with a man, and dominate in a relationship with a woman.
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I'm a bit of a switch, but, as much as I love control in most other aspects of my life, I prefer the sub side much more sexually. It's not part of my lifestyle, though...just the occasional indulgence.
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Old 08-04-2012, 04:32 AM   #4
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Yes and dominant,..........any volunteers ladies??????????
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Old 08-04-2012, 12:24 PM   #6
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Long-time subbie here. And yes, there are Dom FAs out there
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Old 08-04-2012, 02:11 PM   #8
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Haha, I had no idea, Lin! No wonder we get along so well, haha.
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Old 08-04-2012, 08:55 PM   #11
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Old 08-05-2012, 02:02 PM   #12
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Old 08-05-2012, 03:22 PM   #13
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I'm completely intrigued by the community, and have the sub fetishes too. I just, um, don't know how to get started (nor have anyone to start with...)
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Old 08-05-2012, 05:14 PM   #14
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Sites like collarme and fetlife can be good places to get started, especially when looking for local groups. Most groups have "munches", which are casual get togethers, usually for a meal and/or a drink. Most go in street clothes, though some will have a kink twist to them, and it's about meeting others in a safe and friendly environment outside of the dungeon. There are lots of public events around the US, including weekend long events with workshops for people of all experience levels.

There are plenty of safe ways to meet other kinksters and to get involved in the local scene. Read a LOT, and remember that it's like a buffet - take what you like and ignore the rest. Or leave it til later. You don't have to put everything on your plate at once.
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Old 08-06-2012, 12:46 AM   #15
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Sites like collarme and fetlife can be good places to get started, especially when looking for local groups. Most groups have "munches", which are casual get togethers, usually for a meal and/or a drink. Most go in street clothes, though some will have a kink twist to them, and it's about meeting others in a safe and friendly environment outside of the dungeon. There are lots of public events around the US, including weekend long events with workshops for people of all experience levels.

There are plenty of safe ways to meet other kinksters and to get involved in the local scene. Read a LOT, and remember that it's like a buffet - take what you like and ignore the rest. Or leave it til later. You don't have to put everything on your plate at once.
Thanks so much for the info!! I'm looking into them...
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Happy hunting! You'll have fun even just looking around trying to find out what you need to start asking about, and it gets better from there. Penguin's advice is dead on. If I were you, I would pester her for more clues and hints.
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I switch but I prefer to sub. I'm a decent dom, I guess... I just prefer to be the bitch
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Yep, dom here... No one ever suspects that, just because I'm "nice" and "sweet" on the outside.
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It's been my experience that soooo many of the FAs I meet are more submissive, so I'm also kind of curious how many here are dominant. It'll be interesting to see who posts in this thread.
It's been my experience that a good many of those who are intrigued by this can enjoy both sides, no matter how they inherently view themselves.
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