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Old 08-27-2012, 11:59 AM   #1
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I'm hoping to have a squashing session with a BBW and I just wondered if any members would like to share their experiences and maybe give instrustions on whats involved and what happens?!

Thanks for your comments in advance!
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Old 08-28-2012, 12:16 AM   #2
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squashing is my favorite form of foreplay.

But it is still a bit taboo, many women who are comfortable with their weight worry about resting on another person. I have found this is true for woman of all sizes I have had girls leaning forward because they don't want to hurt me by sitting on my head or neck, it has happened with girls that were 120lbs and girls over 400lbs. No one has hurt me yet but this fear cannot be avoided, all you can do is communicate that it is what you want and make sure you are both comfortable with one another.

I think the biggest problem you will face [HA!] is getting her to let go and just ride you. I like to hold hands with her while i am underneath so she can feel some support [mental and physical] as well as to communicate, two short squeezes to get her to get up, but all in all you need that trust so start to build that relationship Bro.

And it isn't something you ask for over dinner, don't bring it up too early, again if you two are comfy talking about it right away and sex is in the air, great, but I would stow all squishing talk until the fire is lit and you two are taking off your clothes, and no I don't think the rules are much different or it is somehow less kinky if you are asking her to sit on you WITH her clothes on.

Once all is go and she is ready remember there are a few things to consider.

Don't do it on the floor, you will need a surface with a bit of give just so you aren't incredibly sore in the morning. choose a bed or couch with as much room as necessary and stay away from waterbeds and leather or fake leather couches, you are likely to get sweaty and with leather this moisture will seal in the freshness so you will have a lot of trouble breathing. all of these surfaces are actually fun but maybe not for the first time.

If she is really big and can cover you [lucky you] but there is definitely a danger of suffocation so again a simple communication system of squeezing hands or tapping her thigh can let her know what you need. One tap for air two to get up, sort of thing. Or heck, ask if you can bring a snorkel, I don't like too many props [well... hold that thought] The way I do it I want her sitting as long as possible so I want her as comfortable as possible, the inch wide clear pvc tubing works it is hard to completely crush and smooth to the touch, run up to home depot I think its like $3 a foot.

fecal matter in the eye can give you pink eye, I think being exposed to it many times raises your resistance [in fact I am damn near sure] if you are hanging out underneath for an extended period of time or with someone new I would suggest keeping your eyes tightly shut, bring a towel or do what I do, wear swimming goggles. ...the small ones.

After that its all personal preference, Have fun! I like getting a big woman and eating her from underneath, or having her use me as a chair while she watches TV or is at the computer. There is a world of fun down there dive in. I just got an idea from a Porn I saw a few weeks ago I ordered one of these online and I can't wait till it gets here. http://www.savannahstoys.com/the-accommodator.html I think this will solve all my problems, so good luck to both of us

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Old 08-29-2012, 02:01 PM   #3
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Old 08-30-2012, 03:57 PM   #4
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No thang mang

I thought there would be more Squashing/Sitting fans but apparently not.

I have always been a fan, Finding new positions on the bed is always fun but I also have a small secondary mattress to throw on the floor or for more support.

Its weird but its definitely a thing, it has something to do with asphyxiation, Some people find it a turn on in some situations with trouble breathing or being made immobile by a heavier body.

Don't worry, don't Panic but of course you should ease into it, do not let your squasher rest their full weight on you right away.

But I don't think I gave enough credit to the Squasher and that being the body of a living person in an incredibly intimate situation they [at least in my experience] have been very sensitive and aware of my issues and tolerance.


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Old 09-10-2012, 10:20 AM   #5
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I enjoy getting squashed my by my girlfriend. She's always slightly nervous about my safety though. I don't think she needs to worry. I admit that my breathing becomes a little more difficult when she's on me, but not to the point that I'm in any danger.
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I find this interesting! Maybe one day!
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Old 09-22-2012, 08:53 AM   #7
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I have an ex that would occasionally facesit me but it wasn't her "thing." I on the other hand loved every second of it. She had thighs that dreams were made of.

I fantasize about getting squashed/smothered/ facesat on.
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:45 PM   #8
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I really like the feeling. My partner loves to feel my weight, sometimes he wants me to sit on his chest while I eat dinner. It started out as something I only did for him, but now its such a turn on for me!
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I would be interested in this. Hopefully some day. *sigh*
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Old 09-27-2012, 09:38 PM   #10
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squashing / face sitting / being on top during intercourse / etc...these are all different things. seems like it might be helpful to not (hah) mush them all together.
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well if you would like to try it I'm game
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Curious as well.
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Squashing intrigues me. My ex was pretty big and she used to be on top during sex and she was rough as hell. The feeling of her coming down with all her weight on me over and over was amazing. And I'm submissive by nature, too, so I can see how squashing would fit right in to a sex life for me. Bu it's one of those things that are really, REALLY hard to approach with a new sex partner. "Hey I was wondering if you'd be at all interested in sitting on me for an extended amount of time." Not really easy to just bring up.
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Squashing intrigues me. My ex was pretty big and she used to be on top during sex and she was rough as hell. The feeling of her coming down with all her weight on me over and over was amazing. And I'm submissive by nature, too, so I can see how squashing would fit right in to a sex life for me. Bu it's one of those things that are really, REALLY hard to approach with a new sex partner. "Hey I was wondering if you'd be at all interested in sitting on me for an extended amount of time." Not really easy to just bring up.
Miskatonic....I have met a man who likes me to be on top as well, I weigh380lbs and he about 210. Yes, I do worry about hurting him but i have had surgery on both knees(they do not bend behind me without great pain) and find it almost impossible to get on top. I wonder if anyone else has had issues like this and what they did to do it without the knee pain. I have looked and talked to people but nobody seems to have any ideas...I would like to make him happy. Can anyone please guide me?
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This is something that I do enjoy very much. I agree with a few people here not something you bring up on a first date though. Need to ease your way into it.

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Someone asks for help and you tell them to take heroin, and when someone calls you on it you act like an ass. It's not endearing or helpful or desirable. Maybe you were joking, but it wasn't funny or the time for that sort of attempt (an attempt that failed, btw).
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