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Old 07-17-2014, 01:02 PM   #101
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I know this thread is older, kinda dead, but hoping I get a response. Advice on giving/receiving head:

I'm a minor noob still learning all the different ways and easiest ways to give head without getting too out of breath, it's kind of difficult. I was wondering if you ladies had any specific tips. I know the cradle the balls work the shaft, etc, but anything else I'm missing out? The first time I gave my bf head I got out of breath too quick and he had to finish, last time I did it all on my own and happy because he said he normally isn't able to get off that way, and this time again I went too hard (no pun intended) and ran out of breath again! It's like I can't pace myself! And gentleman, is there anything specific you like the ladies to do? I know everyone is different and I'm glad he is vocal about it afterwards and during, telling me what to do, etc. But it's nice to heard different peoples opinions, so if anyone has any opinions or advice let me know! I figured this might be the thread to ask in but if I can ask somewhere else let me know lol.
hmm.. everyone is different.. to be honest.. you can be with the same partner for years.. and giving head changes with that person as well.. Some days it is quicker.. others days it takes longer....

My Advice, find a good mix between playing, teasing and sucking...if you start to feel out of breath.. pull back a bit and alternate between sucking and licking..... or stroke the shaft while sucking on the head....use different variations until you catch your breath again and can go full tilt..

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Old 07-17-2014, 03:11 PM   #102
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Xo--I think I can speak for many of the guys here by saying there is no such thing as bad head as long as there isn't teeth involved..
Good thing you said many, lol. I'm under-sensitive and I can barely feel traditional head, teeth is the only way I can actually enjoy it and it appeals more to my masochistic side than my sexual pleasure. Even the best head I have ever received was insufficient to make me come,and it was with someone I was very comfortable with and had fantastic sex, otherwise.

As for preferring to give head than receive, it is a facet of subservience, not necessarily submissiveness. I am a dom and it is one of my greatest joys to please my sub until she writhes and peaks and gasps for breath, while she is tied to the bed and completely at my mercy. Sensory deprivation is all kinds of fun, btw.
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Old 07-17-2014, 03:29 PM   #103
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Xo--I think I can speak for many of the guys here by saying there is no such thing as bad head as long as there isn't teeth involved..
In that case I didn't do bad because I never have teeth involved. Though afterwards he did try to make me feel better by telling me about some drunk girl way back when who gave him head and left bruises on his dick. LOL

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hmm.. everyone is different.. to be honest.. you can be with the same partner for years.. and giving head changes with that person as well.. Some days it is quicker.. others days it takes longer....

My Advice, find a good mix between playing, teasing and sucking...if you start to feel out of breath.. pull back a bit and alternate between sucking and licking..... or stroke the shaft while sucking on the head....use different variations until you catch your breath again and can go full tilt..

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Thank you! I've got everything down, just need to work on that middle ground and alternating lol.
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Old 07-17-2014, 04:57 PM   #104
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You can also use hold the shaft with one hand and with your fingertips of your other hand (in a shape similar to the left hand in the picture), place your fingers over the top and grip the shaft between the fingers and thumb and keep stroking upwards quickly. This also sounds silly but is one way to catch your breath - stick your tongue out and relax it the best you can and one of you flick the tip back and forth against it for a bit.
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Old 07-17-2014, 05:27 PM   #105
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Teeth is not necessarily a bad thing for those into it. Some men are.. some men like their balls squeezed.. or pulled... people have their preferences..

Just have fun and enjoy.. listen and watch for cues and it should work out well..
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I don't enjoy getting head for the most part. I feel to selfish. Plus I really enjoy feeling a womens body. I do enjoy going down. If we are both naked, and she is on top of a 69 then I do and I do find that to be really sexy... but her unzipping my pants and having me just sit there, NO.
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Old 11-05-2014, 07:47 PM   #108
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I think it is all about preference and personality. I have experienced receiving oral and my partner made it clear she was the one in control. Other partners have engaged in it as though my penis was something to be worshipped. I like it both ways, actually. I am a sub at heart, but it was also very nice when my partner would use her mouth so lovingly on me.

If you think about it, as a male you are very much opening yourself to her and making yourself more vulnerable than ever. It's a sacred trust. Unfortunately, I had a girlfriend violate that trust. I made her mad at me and didn't realize it. She kept it a secret until she got me all relaxed and...vulnerable. Then she sunk her teeth into me. I have never been so desperate in my life to get out of a woman's mouth. I was bruised, but to my surprise she didn't break the skin. Once she made her point she still expected me to have sex. She said her "vagina had heeling powers" and would make me feel better. Seriously. Guys, I can't make this stuff up. Incidentally, her vagina did make me feel better, but after that glimpse of crazy I was looking for an exit strategy. Our breakup followed shortly thereafter.

As for giving, I am a very willing giver. I don't consider it an act of submission, though I can see why some would see it that way. And if my partner (wife now) wants to see my going down on her as an act of submission I am fine with that. She holds a lot more power over me than I do over her, and I am not the least bit ashamed to admit it.
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Maybe I just never had a good one, but I prefer to give, and not receive
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if you start to feel out of breath..
I love the feeling of warm breath on... So if you're out of breath slowly exhale right there...

I might prefer mutual oral to regular sex personally. Also I tend to find after going down on a woman the skin on my chin and cheeks feels very smooth. Bonus!

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Until I asked this question, my opinion was formulated from all the porn, TV, and comedy shows I've watched over the years; not by talking to women and asking them how they felt about giving head.
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That's like basing your opinions of meat off spam and canned tuna. It's not the real thing my friend.

If I formulated my views on sexuality from porn I'd think every woman had fake boobs, that I needed to manscape before every sexual encounter, and that every one has an orgasm EVERY time.
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Recieving, yes. Giving, not so much.



Recently had a break through with my girlfriend as her gag relex has lessened and she finally reached past the halfway point. It's been slow going and I kinda gave up on practicing with her but she persists. Finishing in her mouth is another story.
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Porn seems to carry with it the risk of creating massive distortions in male sexuality. Not every man, but a definite percentage of consumers of hard-core porn seem to hold degraded views of women and also seem to have unrealistic expectations for what real women should be like.

As for the original question, I'd like to pipe in here, because I too am one of those weird males who has never really cared for receiving oral sex! I've been lucky enough to have had a number of different women administer it, so it's not a matter of technique (if such a thing even makes much difference). It's not that I actively hate it, I just don't care for it all that much.

(But I CERTAINLY have no disrespect to a woman who does it. It never occurred to me to think that way.)

As while we're on a touchy subject, I'll go a step further - I'm not crazy about giving it, either. This (relative) dislike has to do mostly with body odours that I find rather a turn-off. Sorry if that offends or sounds prissy; it's just how I seem to be wired. If my partner takes a shower beforehand, then I'm fine with giving it. Still, I feel a bit guilty that I don't administer it more often than I do, in general.
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As while we're on a touchy subject, I'll go a step further - I'm not crazy about giving it, either. This (relative) dislike has to do mostly with body odours that I find rather a turn-off. Sorry if that offends or sounds prissy; it's just how I seem to be wired. If my partner takes a shower beforehand, then I'm fine with giving it. Still, I feel a bit guilty that I don't administer it more often than I do, in general.
At the risk of giving TMI, this is one of the things I love about giving oral. I find the natural scent...intoxicating.
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