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Old 02-15-2013, 11:09 AM   #1
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I find that things that turn me on about the same sex are different from what turns me on about the opposite sex.

So what turns you on about the same sex?
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i read it 20 times but i have absolutely no idea what you want!!

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It's the person who turns me on, not their gender. I love my partner's body because it's theirs and I love giving them pleasure and exploring it. I find all different body types attractive, thin and fat for men and women.
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It's the person who turns me on, not their gender. I love my partner's body because it's theirs and I love giving them pleasure and exploring it. I find all different body types attractive, thin and fat for men and women.
So what you're saying is that you find a person's personality important and what they look like isn't important.

I find that I'm mostly an FFA in that I find fat men and women the most attractive although I still find fit people to be somewhat attractive. Although I have difference when it comes to what I find attractive in each sex. For example I prefer long hair on women than men and I prefer a pear-shaped woman but not a pear-shaped man. I like pretty looking women but not pretty looking men.
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oh gawd sex means gender here, right??

...should learn some vocabulary!


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So what you're saying is that you find a person's personality important and what they look like isn't important..
Their personality, humour and intelligence are what's most important to me, looks come after that. Meaning, I won't put someone's appearance first or have that be the reason I want to be with them. When I fall for a person, I love their body, their looks. I may or may not find someone of a similar body shape or look attractive. I can find random people on the street attractive without being attracted to them, because I don't know them.

I don't have this setting where I prefer one body shape over another, one gender or sex over another. It's the person I'm into, and that makes their body the one I want to play with. A partner's looks are always important, and I do expect to find them attractive and be attracted to them. I just don't have a check list of must haves for it. It's just not how I'm wired. I know plenty of people are more specific than me in their tastes.

Daniel, AFAIK, your sex is what's between your legs, your gender is what's between your ears. I could be wrong on that, but I'm pretty sure that's how it's defined.
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I didn't mean to offend because I'm sorry if I did. I get the impression that you were somehow.

By turn ons, I meant both personality and looks and if it differs for both sexes. Creating this topic was inspired by the fact that I find different traits (both personality and looks) attractive in each sex.
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I didn't mean to offend because I'm sorry if I did. I get the impression that you were somehow.

By turn ons, I meant both personality and looks and if it differs for both sexes. Creating this topic was inspired by the fact that I find different traits (both personality and looks) attractive in each sex.
I wasn't offended, though I think we may have been misunderstanding each other. I have a thing for nice hands and shoulders (though "nice" is a quality that's hard to define, it's one of those "I know it when I see it" things), and I do like a good goatee on a man, but I don't really have any must haves that differ all that greatly between sexes.
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This is a hard one. I have a wide variety of taste in men. Think Chris Crocker/Adam Lambert all the way to Dwayne Johnson/Vin Diesel.

As for women, though, I'm much more particular. I like a curvy woman. More hourglass, but pear shaped is nice. Nice full lips, delicate hands, and not overly girly taste in fashion sense.
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my tastes in men and women are poles apart. I love women who are soft and chubby, so when i cuddle them i almost feel like i am sinking into them like they are to me . When it comes to men i love the feeling of a big man carrying some extra weight but fit with it. I love the feeling of being held by a man like that big powerful arms and hands holding me. Making me feel safe and secure
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If I had to chose I prefer guys who are more on the skinny side. And that of course is not the case with females.
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Nice, wide hips and butt, not overly large breasts and I like them anywhere from skinny to BBW.
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The one I am crushing on at the moment makes me an amazing sub roll most days. I'm now asking myself if part of the attraction is because she feeds me and gives me an extra cookie every once in a while. She is pretty hot too
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While I'm generally only sexually attracted to BHMs when it comes to men, I enjoy women of all sizes. For some reason, I like my men on the feminine side and women on the masculine side. I don't care about an alternative look on men (piercings, tattoos, hair dyed) but love it on women.
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For me it's usually been a combination of freckles and a figure that goes whaboom.

But lately I've been attracted to more androgynous/alternative types, I think it may be the tattoos. Any girl with full sleeves is just horrifyingly attractive.

Not that I do anything about it *sigh*. I think I may need to see someone about my touch phobia.
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Andro for me is just so deliciously subversive and attractive..

What turns my head physically:

Dark, sparkly eyes.
Dark, short hair.
Freckles in special, strange places.
A smile that bursts into a wide, cheeky grin.
A strong, sometimes sultry voice.

When I really develop a crush it's because they:
Are wise, proud and grounded but not egotistical.
Are personable and warm.
Laugh often and merrily (a laugh that ripples through the night).
Have a strong sense of self.
Don't mess around with games, gossip.
Recognise people's feelings and acknowledge their own power.
Speak another language besides their mother tongue.

Hmmm no wonder I'm yet to find this magical woman, that's a tough order!
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I’m some degree of attracted to most women, while I’m not at all attracted to most guys. But periodically I meet a guy that just grabs my eyes and kicks my imagination into a frenzy of “what if”s. It is rare enough that I haven’t ever figured out all the hot buttons, but a few things they’ve had in common. In general I’d say mildly androgynous, not so much in terms of looking feminine but more in terms of not flaunting typical strong male identifiers.
- not tall (not necessarily short, but not tall),
- somewhat even thickness chest through hips, this could be a guy who is kind of fat all over or someone who isn’t notably fat but just build that way—but this eveness more in a chubby or stocky way than in a skinny way.
- no facial hair (I think facial hair can look great on guys, but the ones who have caught my eye have been the sort who were not only clean shaven but probably couldn’t grow too thick of a beard if they tried),
- many but not all have been plump, not lazy but not in shape either, so that when they were walking they breathed just a little bit heavily (although a couple have been fairly athletic, but not neither bulky with muscles nor wiry.) But not all slumped and slouchy either, head up meeting the world.
- I’m pretty sure there are particular proportions, face shapes, complexions, and what not that play into it, but I couldn’t say just what.
- Age has been all over the place, from quite a bit older to quite a bit younger.
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I’m some degree of attracted to most women, while I’m not at all attracted to most guys. But periodically I meet a guy that just grabs my eyes and kicks my imagination into a frenzy of “what if”s. It is rare enough that I haven’t ever figured out all the hot buttons, but a few things they’ve had in common. In general I’d say mildly androgynous, not so much in terms of looking feminine but more in terms of not flaunting typical strong male identifiers.
- not tall (not necessarily short, but not tall),
- somewhat even thickness chest through hips, this could be a guy who is kind of fat all over or someone who isn’t notably fat but just build that way—but this eveness more in a chubby or stocky way than in a skinny way.
- no facial hair (I think facial hair can look great on guys, but the ones who have caught my eye have been the sort who were not only clean shaven but probably couldn’t grow too thick of a beard if they tried),
- many but not all have been plump, not lazy but not in shape either, so that when they were walking they breathed just a little bit heavily (although a couple have been fairly athletic, but not neither bulky with muscles nor wiry.) But not all slumped and slouchy either, head up meeting the world.
- I’m pretty sure there are particular proportions, face shapes, complexions, and what not that play into it, but I couldn’t say just what.
- Age has been all over the place, from quite a bit older to quite a bit younger.
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Wow, this is possibly the least hot description of attraction i've ever read.
Good. If I want to write something hot, I'll put it into a story. For trying to tease out what it all means I was pretty much trying to avoid getting distracted by anything hot, and just look at it more analytically--plus being married and all I try not to go into much detail on anything that gets me hot and bothered in real life (again, I feel better saving that up for stories).
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