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Old 02-27-2013, 09:31 AM   #1
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Default do you like flabby or round and firm bellys?

Just curious about this lately. Do you ladies prefer a flabby soft belly on a guy or a round firm gut? I've always had a soft jiggly belly and always wished it was a little more of a round gut but just thought I'd ask..

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Old 02-27-2013, 10:08 AM   #2
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Personally, I love and much prefer the way a soft, jiggly belly looks and feels. I associate comfort, sexiness and protection with that softness much more

Opinions of this are sure to vary from FFA to FFA, that's just mine.
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I like something in between -- but more on the soft side.
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Old 02-27-2013, 02:34 PM   #5
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Soft, definitely! I don't like hard, round guts at all, I want something to sink into and squeeze! Embrace your soft belly or I will do it for you!
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I like both. Soft is squishy like a pillow, so comforting. However, firm and round, I love to kiss and nuzzle, no matter the size.
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I like both. To be truthful, whatever it is that the guy I like has, is what I like, if that makes sense.
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'Fraid I won't be of much help, as I like both. I love all bellies - hanging, protruding, double, split (as in where there is a big line from belly button on down), firm, flabby, etc. I really love it, though, when there is cellulite on the belly; not sure why the little ripples make it even lovelier, but it does for me!

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Old 02-28-2013, 08:23 AM   #9
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yeah i figured there would be some spread of both but just always felt a little uncomfortable with my squishy belly in public esp with a shirt thats started to get a little tight. It's not huge being 185lbs and all but i've just never been lucky enough to have anyone really celebrate it with me and encourage it. thanks for the feedback so far!
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as i sit here at work staring down at the poor little thing
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Old 02-28-2013, 06:20 PM   #11
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soft and round every time. The cuddlier the better
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Awwww!!! That is soooo cute and lovely, you have nothing to be self conscious about at all!
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Old 03-01-2013, 07:12 AM   #13
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yeah i figured there would be some spread of both but just always felt a little uncomfortable with my squishy belly in public esp with a shirt thats started to get a little tight. It's not huge being 185lbs and all but i've just never been lucky enough to have anyone really celebrate it with me and encourage it. thanks for the feedback so far!
Hey, the soft squishy belly is better for you--s'true! A ball belly is from having a lot of 'vascular fat' meaning fat in the abdominal cavity, packed in around your internal organs (and in the liver), and that fat seems to be more metabolically active in all the bad ways that they talk about fat (higher levels of inflammation, various other things that I don't recall). The soft fat is fat right under the skin, which doesn't seem to cause as many problems (although best of all, health wise, is fat below the waist, which you don't see a lot of on many guys).

Speaking as someone with more of a ball belly, I'd trade for a soft & squishy one in an instant!

ETA: also, ball bellys stick out and get in the way more..... (please excuse the tip of my nose poking its way into the pic--shot from overhead)
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haha very valid points i hadnt thought of it from health perspective.
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Hey, the soft squishy belly is better for you--s'true! A ball belly is from having a lot of 'vascular fat' meaning fat in the abdominal cavity, packed in around your internal organs (and in the liver), and that fat seems to be more metabolically active in all the bad ways that they talk about fat (higher levels of inflammation, various other things that I don't recall). The soft fat is fat right under the skin, which doesn't seem to cause as many problems (although best of all, health wise, is fat below the waist, which you don't see a lot of on many guys).

Speaking as someone with more of a ball belly, I'd trade for a soft & squishy one in an instant!

ETA: also, ball bellys stick out and get in the way more..... (please excuse the tip of my nose poking its way into the pic--shot from overhead)

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It depends who has it. The woman I love makes me like her belly. But still flabby bellies are nice
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Old 03-05-2013, 01:50 PM   #17
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Awww man, now Tab's got me paranoid if i have the good or the bad fat! Which will undoubtedly lead to me asking my friends and family and the subsequent strange looks that will result afterwards, lol. I always thought the size of the muscles under the fat cause the area to be more firm but then again thats why they don't pay me to think...
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I'm not sure if its just the red instead of black or successful eating, but do you think it looks any bigger/softer? I have a weekend of meeting up for lots of meals this weekend so should be good!
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I like big, soft bellies. Squishy is nice. =)
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Soft and flabby for sure, they usually have a nicer jiggle with a wiggle while walking.
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I like when a guy has a firm, prominent belly. I think it's so cute.
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