What are your feelings that attraction to large people is an actual sexuality rather than a preference? Because I often read people say " it's just my preference, like some people prefer blondes".
For me it runs deeper than that. I tried to hide my sexual attraction to big women, hidden till I was in my mid twenties. I always dated, what would be considered your average size women. Once, I accepted that I would never be sexually satisfied with an average size women, it was life changing! It was just a different experience, that was more amazing than I could have ever imagined.
I have always had a very healthy sex life and enjoyed it but it is not the same. I still see slimmer women attractive and beautiful but not sexually.
For me it runs deeper than that. I tried to hide my sexual attraction to big women, hidden till I was in my mid twenties. I always dated, what would be considered your average size women. Once, I accepted that I would never be sexually satisfied with an average size women, it was life changing! It was just a different experience, that was more amazing than I could have ever imagined.
I have always had a very healthy sex life and enjoyed it but it is not the same. I still see slimmer women attractive and beautiful but not sexually.
