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  1. sammy1nz

    WTF Sweden! Trans people forced to be sterilised if they want official gender change!

    Yes, all a bit disappointing really. I guess I should be grateful that I live in New Zealand where at least getting a legal gender change is possible without surgery and where I can at least have a civil union. But I have to say it stuck in my craw that I'd have 'lose the wife'. I was tempted to...
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    WTF Sweden! Trans people forced to be sterilised if they want official gender change!

    Not that different in a lot of countries. Canada is a place where GRS (effectively sterilisation) is required before gender can be legally changed. Here in New Zealand there is no such requirement, but, having got the court order, I couldn't get my birth certificated 'cleaned' until I lost my...
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    Trans

    Creepy chasers? OMG!! I pass easily but, of course, some people know. I get hit on sometimes relentessly at a party where word gets out. I've been sexually assaulted four times in four years. I guess I do understand the fascination with trans people. I had it myself until I transitioned. But...
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    Trans

    Try not to be so down Sowhat. Someone I know tells me with a laugh just to 'change back' to the way I was. I guess that's the answer. We all keep doing it because it's the best way forward. Which doesn't mean to say there are not the trials and tribulations, particularly with friends. I lost a...
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    Trans

    Hey Tracii - yes it is good to see this thread still living! Can't complain about my lot - I bit the bullet a couple of years ago - turned up to court and told the judge and clients to call me 'ms'! Hahaha. But I have to say that making an effort to present definitively as one gender is more...
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    Trans

    The whole 'weakness' notion is reinforced IMHO by the DSM IV which, of course, is a manual generated for insurance companies. Driven by big business, shrinks and drug companies, this American manual is out of step with the rest of the world where WPATH and even the European Parliament is coming...
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    Where Are The Women That Fancy BBW/SSBBW?

    Forgive me for being slow. I'm an infrequent lurker! I'm not sure what touched me about this thread. I suppose the lonely reaching out of the first post and the chorus of appreciation that followed. I was nearly 200lb at my maximum, but am probably around 160 now and I'm about 5'7. I love my big...
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    Grace Nuyten

    Hi All. With great sadness I saw a reference yesterday to Grace Nuyten having passed away. Grace and I were partners for nearly three years in the late 90s. Sadly we parted and not on particularly good terms. The last I heard from her wouldn't have been perhaps early 2002. If any one has...
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    Trans

    More MTF than FTM? I think a lot more FTMs are capable of and indeed do run "stealth". They're there but are often only visible when they choose to be. We had a meeting the other night with an 84 year old FTM who has written a book. He gave a talk about his experiences getting secret surgery in...
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    Trans

    I had to laugh about being seen as FTM. It happens to me all the time in trans circles. I look way to feminine to be wearing a men's suit. Sometimes people just don't believe me when I tell them I'm not.
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    Trans

    Well done.
  12. sammy1nz

    Trans

    Nice post Geektastic. Any discussion of definitions carries danger because trans people often don't fit into categories. The group I'm in has an interesting friction point. We try to be inclusive and accept that a person's first steps might simply be crossdressing. On the other hand we don't...
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    Trans

    Great post Sowhat. You could be in a lot of trouble with the trans group if you left your 'vette's supercharger brochure behind! The funny thing is, I find I'm in trouble for riding a bike to the trans meeting AND for having tits at a bike meeting. There's a bike club near here called the...
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    Trans

    You've seen it Cors. Here in NZ whenever there is a meeting, people are expected to introduce themselves. There are those who say their name and announce that they are "post op". It's about heirarchy. I find it offensive. I don't wish to sound like a prude, far from it. But I'm interested in...
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    Trans

    I agree with the comment about body image issues often going with gender dysphoria - the discomfort trans people feel. I never cared about how I looked until I started unpicking my masculine fascade. I traded a whole lot of confidence for a truckload of insecurity! I used to be quite robustly...
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