Recent content by superodalisque

the ops wife is thin and diets and doesn't identify with being fat. I support her because she has her own body identity and she owns it. she doesn't have to be like me for me to respect her body autonomy. the op is always posting stuff about how fat people should basically take BS and basing...

strange to think it's supposed to be such a bad thing to ask admirers to pressure other admirers who don't behave well to behave better.

why are you so worried about me instead of the issue? why are you avoiding ? what are you going to do to improve the situation as it stands now? how are you going to bring together the worlds of admiration and acceptance in such a way that people believe it? pretending like i'm somehow...

humanity hasn't let me down. life isn't a fat bash.

the problem is you are making this about me. why not address my challenge of encouraging a sense of honor that will endear admirers to groups that do look at them askance right now. that is the problem, too many people focusing on personalities instead of the issue. it's an old trick, wallowing...

I went to one about three weeks ago after not having gone to anything for quite a while. some friends of mine came up from Miami and were interested in going to something here. it was pretty much the same old thing but sadder. you get some really odd activities and mindsets in the south when you...

lol isn't it interesting how that happens lol

you've got it. how it's okay to chose the battle of leaving people hanging out there in ways that encourage other people and even them, if they notice, that they aren't worth the trouble.

well here are some direct points re: your post then: the point being the denial and the refusal to address the core issue of why trust is lacking and what needs to be done about it. yep, people who ignore valid claims of bad behavior help to perpetuate them. people who do it can hang...

the point being the denial and the refusal to address the core issue of why trust is lacking and what needs to be done about it.

confronting a prejudice doesn't mean you have to go on the attack. confrontation might mean doing something about the situation, like making a security guard aware. animals were being abused. great starting point right there.

not because you posed the question but you actually acted like the idea were practical on the thread among other issues, like feeling it's okay to be prejudice toward someone because they date black people. so no I have nothing to say to you. I wouldn't IRL and I don't here either. have fun...

keep trying to turn around and invalidate what people are trying to say and you'll continuing having the same situation of a lack of trust and people unwilling to entertain your seriousness.

if you think you are one of the people i'm talking about and are lumping yourself in with them I won't argue. you must be one.

honestly, I couldn't take your post that seriously. I mean, if you think it's realistic or even a good idea for supersized women to walk around on concrete floors in high heels and be waitresses for sub minimum wage there isn't much else I wouldn't put by you. I didn't expect much realism or...