Is it harder to come out as an FA or an FFA?

I'm curious to hear thoughts on this. As an FFA, I have only ever told one person--a significant other I trusted very much--about my preferences, and it was one of the most terrifying experiences of my life. I think a few friends have caught on without my saying anything, though I don't think they realize the extent of my preferences. I have no idea how they'd take it if I actually talked about it explicitly, though.

What do you think?