Can a person stop being attracted bbws and ssbbws?

Can a person stop being attracted to bbws and ssbbws. After liking since they were 16. And now he is 53. Over the years. The bbw and ssbbws. Over the years he was put down,laughed at. Made fun. And social media didn't work..And the person has not been on a date in 10 years. And sexual intimate with a lady in 6. Years but been called ugly,toxic white male. He feels too old,angry and has too many physical scars on his body. And ready to give up. Any advice?