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  1. olwen

    Sandra Weber-Zitkus (1960-2016)

    Sorry for your loss Wayne.
  2. olwen

    BBW Identity

    Those labels aren't as important to me as they used to be. I would only be offended if I referred to myself as fat and the person I was talking said "oh you're not fat, don't say that." Luckily that hasn't happened to me in a long time tho. I identify as fat but the labels don't really matter...
  3. olwen

    FA Frustrations

    Fat guys are no more a monolith than women are. They aren't all looking for the same thing. You have to get to know each one you talk to individually to find that out. You just talk to them like you would talk to anyone and if you have a rapport, then ask if they want to go out some time. They...
  4. olwen

    FA Frustrations

    There is a whole fatshion world out there where fat girls have to go out of our way to find awesome clothes. But that's just it. We have to go out of our way. Nice fashionable clothes have to be curated like museum pieces because they are so hard to find. Not every girl (even skinny ones) is...
  5. olwen

    Wait Watchers

    Phil, frumpy, dowdy, and matronly are similar but different. Clothes that make a woman look older are matronly. They don't have to be old fashioned either. Old fashioned clothes can also be retro, which can be quite fashionable. Clothes that are ill-fitting and make a woman look like she lacks...
  6. olwen

    Wait Watchers

    A fat person can call attention to their bodies in a tasteful way. I don't think clothes that are too tight or too short are tasteful on anybody tho. I don't want to see all that on any body. And yes, the tripod totally negates the reactions from people. It's just another thing she's using to...
  7. olwen

    Wait Watchers

    The pic in times square looks like nothing is happening really. Times square is crowded like that all the time and full of tourists taking pics of everything. As well as film crews and, dancing elmos, and street performers, and cops, and all what else. So a crowd is neither here nor there. On...
  8. olwen

    Wait Watchers

    I think her intentions are good, only that she fails on execution. Remember when the fat heffalump did a similar project (http://fatheffalump.wordpress.com/2013/02/14/stares-sneers-and-snickers/)? She at least used a friend with a hidden camera, but then look at what she wears. She's definitely...
  9. olwen

    Wait Watchers

    I call bullshit on her project. She's dressed provocatively and she's standing in front of a camera set on a tripod in crowded areas. Of course people are gonna look her way when they see the camera then her standing in front of it. I'd look too just to figure out what's going on. I might even...
  10. olwen

    Is It As Frustrating For Anyone Else?

    OP, there are fat women in NYC but there's no secret club where we all hang out at. But also, just trying to hit up a girl while she's walking down the street really won't work because we have places to go and things to do and you'll be the umpteenth random guy to say something that we might...
  11. olwen

    where to meet SSBBWs?

    Lots of fat people go to gyms to get fit, not just to lose weight. Fat women are everywhere. there's no secret spot. just go out and do stuff you like and if there are attractive fat women there talk to them. Easy.
  12. olwen

    Are BHMs and BBWs usually FAs themselves?

    To the OP, obviously, sites designed for people who are attracted to fat people will attract people who are attracted to fat people--regardless of size. Don't go out into the real world assuming that every fat person you meet automatically wants to be with other fat people or that they...
  13. olwen

    Clothing/Fashion Confession

    Carla, we're about the same size. Have you tried asos curve, modcloth, holyclothing, and eshakti? This dress is on sale and goes to a size 34 www.eshakti.com/Product/CL0027942/Split-neck-sheath-dress This one is also on sale http://www.eshakti.com/Product/CL0027338/Cheryl-dress Plus they do...
  14. olwen

    A Sad Situation

    He knew he had a problem and I had talked to him about it extensively for years. Everyone talked to him about it. He burned thru girlfriends who would come to me crying about all the shit he put them thru and all our other friends bailed on him. I stuck with him when everyone else was gone...
  15. olwen

    A Sad Situation

    ...Yeah...I don't think it's working the way you think it should.
  16. olwen

    A Sad Situation

    I blame myself for chiming in. Proof that I must be a true masochist. LOL
  17. olwen

    A Sad Situation

    Sorry but your approach needs work.
  18. olwen

    A Sad Situation

    What people?
  19. olwen

    A Sad Situation

    I would have stopped hanging out with him altogether really. And if he insisted on coming with me I'd make it clear I'm leaving him the minute he starts acting up and when he gets kicked out of the bar he's in his own. If being fed was my kink I would expect my partner to understand...
  20. olwen

    A Sad Situation

    You can't separate the person from the situation. That person has to decide how they want to handle it. Be all the concerned you want, but forcing concern onto other people doesn't work. I can't make an alcoholic friend get help if he doesn't want it. He knows he has problems and he has to...
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