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    Is there minimum requirement to be considered a BHM?

    Yeah, I don’t think there’s a set “minimum” - a relatively fit guy with a chubby face and a bit of a belly will usually register as a “BHM” to me more than an objectively heavier guy who carries weight more evenly.
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    BHM North Enders by Starling (BHM, WG)

    Sad face sad just arrived this week, been clickity clacking away and hoping to have something to show for it soon!
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    Not sure if it's my insecurities talking or I am seeing a red flag.

    I think it’s telling that you used the phrase “standards may be more forgiving” re: non-fit guys being into BBW. As a fit woman who has never been attracted to fit men, I think you are missing the “A” part in (F)FA pretty majorly. People who are attracted to BHMs and BBWs aren’t attracted...
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    Weight Gain Tips for Skinny Guys

    How old is he? If it’s younger than mid-late thirties, his metabolism will likely come to a screeching halt at some point. I dated a guy a few years ago, where I was his first girlfriend post thirties weight gain - he’d always been naturally thin. He also had a habit of eating an entire tub of...
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    BHM North Enders by Starling (BHM, WG)

    I feel bad for updating just to say “no updates”, but my personal computer met a bitter end (RIP) and I suspect writing BHM romance/erotica on my work computer would get me a one way ticket to the unemployment office. However, new computer is en route, so there should be more updates soon!
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    Accepting your body?

    It’s easy to say “don’t care what other people think!” but much harder to do it. If you are having a hard time leaving the house, try going with one or two people you trust as a buffer at first. Or go places where you will have common interests with people - like a gaming night if that’s your...
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    BHM but not a FA, how to change?

    Reading through, this thread really went off the rails, so I’m just going to address your first post. - It’s probably not that helpful for me to point out, but it bears mentioning that 250 is not terribly big. Definitely small enough that you could attract a non-FFA - which might actually be...
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    Should I consider gaining?

    Definitely don’t do it for other people, that sounds like a recipe for disaster. Also, with some exceptions I think F/FA can be fairly flexible on body type. I know personally an average size guy with chubby cheeks will always make my head turn, and as a woman who is fairly “small” but not...
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    What size are you all?

    Age - 28 Height - 5’4 Weight - 125 Waist size - not a clue Clothing size - I’d say 4, but I have clothes ranging from 00 to 10 that all fit perfectly, so shout out to women’s clothing designers for getting that standardization down to a science.
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    BHM The Improved You

    I love where this is going! Your writing is even more impressive since English isn’t your first language!
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    Opt in issues

    Edgy take bro.
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    I feel conflicted with living the fat lifestyle

    Your follow up makes a ton of sense. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with indulging those “lifestyle” urges every once in a while - every month, twice a month, every six weeks, whatever works for you. That way you can keep your fetishy side happy (which is important!) while still feeling in...
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    I feel conflicted with living the fat lifestyle

    Where do you see this as at odds with being an environmentalist? I haven’t heard this before. There are lots of fat vegans, hippies, and environmental types - but maybe I’m missing something?
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    Not sure what I’m doing wrong

    It sounds like online flirting in general, to be honest. You’d find the same thing on Tinder or or JDate. Which is to say, you probably aren’t doing anything “wrong”, it’s just the nature of the beast. A niche hookup site is still a hookup site, with all the pitfalls that entails.
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    BHM North Enders by Starling (BHM, WG)

    @Unbasher - I appreciate the feedback on this and the last chapter! I’m the first to admit I hate editing even when I get paid for it, so I rarely if ever edit the things I write recreationally. You’ve given me some good ideas going forward!
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    BHM North Enders by Starling (BHM, WG)

    She smiled to herself, even at that bland message. Hunter’s name on her screen always made her tingle a bit. And he was going to see her apartment - a brief panic washed over Luna as she realized she hadn’t even checked if it was clean. A few minutes later, she was in the lobby watching Hunter...
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    BHM North Enders by Starling (BHM, WG)

    Luna awoke to the smell of bacon and coffee. She fished her phone from where it had fallen under Hunter’s spacious guest bed. 4:05 am. She knew Hunter was an early riser - he’d have to be, to run a cafe - but this was intense. On a normal day, Luna wouldn’t even be up for another two hours or...
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    Supporting a BHM who doesn’t love being a BHM?

    It sounds like you’re already doing everything right in terms of supporting him. The real question you may want to pursue if he decides to get a second surgery is: is he unhappy enough with his body and frustrated enough with traditional weight loss methods to risk his life to be skinny? If...
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    Loopy's Lusciously Lavish Lair

    Oh no, I’m so sorry all this is going on! It’s a lot to deal with. Sending good thoughts.
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    BHM Own You. [Gay, WG, Dark]

    Creepy - I like it. We don’t get a ton of the darker BHM stories!
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