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    Too picky for the fat girl in the family…

    It's also probably worth asking yourself why these kinds of people keep ending up in your circle to begin with. A lot of guys on here talk about how their friends are not that judgmental and couldn't give two sh*ts about how fat or thin their girlfriends are. So if it's something you keep...
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    Can telling a girl your an fa work adversly to her self esteem?

    Given that the OP said he's willing to help her lose weight, I think the issue is more her constant self-hatred than her potential weight loss. So, Joswitch, I would say that your issues and the OP's are not one in the same.
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    What do you like about the previous poster? Part Trois!

    She has a contagious joyful expression and knows how to own and rock her immense sexiness no matter whether she's wearing a corset or a t-shirt.
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    Female: You're Doing it wrong.

    My analogy expressed agreement with you. I thought it was self-explanatory. The negative responses to the word "obese" in the fat community, and the connotations, seems to me to have a lot in common with the connotations of the word "female" as opposed to "woman." And why so many of us...
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    Hypothetical question

    Isn't that the point and the implication of the question? Which group has it harder/easier than the other? If men would rather sleep with a thin black woman than a fat white woman, then we can assume that fat is a more stigmatized quality than blackness, and vice versa. I don't find the...
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    Fat sex with a non-FA

    Exactly. Sometimes it feels like some of the men in this community push very hard for the idea that ONLY a card-carrying FA who only desires and has a strong/narrow preference for fat women will be able to sustain a mutually-satisfying physical relationship with a fat woman. That is simply not...
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    Female: You're Doing it wrong.

    Female:Obese :: Woman:Fat
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    you guys might wanna see dr oz to day

    I think that as much as these conversations seem repetitive and circular and boring, we need to keep having them, because they bring up really important tensions and issues that are not going away. Like, what do we do about the fact that even if an individual doesn't want to represent an entire...
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    Has There Ever Been a FA/BBW Couple Pic Thread?

    I love the playfulness and sexy fun you guys always have going on in your pics! Great couple. :)
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    BBW Confessions thread

    Thank you so much, butch. I hope that for me too. And I am so happy for the loving and life-giving relationship you have found! You guys are such a beautiful couple. :)
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    Hypothetical question

    I just never see the point in the Suffering Olympics, and trying to argue about whose suffering or oppression is worse than another's. Racism exists and is destructive and horrendous. Sizeism exists and is destructive and horrendous. The End. (I'm not saying that one isn't worse than the...
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    Has There Ever Been a FA/BBW Couple Pic Thread?

    Thanks, B. :) Hope all's well with you. Peaceful? Awesome! :) Thanks! Thank you, Isa! I just say that because he's not strictly an FA, and since this is the FA/BBW thread I just don't want to give false advertising. But I'm fat, and he loves me, so that's good enough. ;) Thanks, CP :D...
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    Everyday Food Pics - Part II - keep snapping!! :D

    Please invite me to your Super Bowl party next year. I want those!
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    Has There Ever Been a FA/BBW Couple Pic Thread?

    In honor of today, the 1-year anniversary of my mcbeth-Admirer and I being together. :) We hung out in Chinatown for the Lunar New Year.
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    BBW Confessions thread

    IC that today my boyfriend and I are celebrating one year of being together. It's been a wonderful experience of love and growth for me, and it's an amazing testament to the work of healing that has happened in me over the past several years - from being a person who desperately wanted to be...
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    Georgia vs Fat Kids

    I agree with you that certain healthy behaviors like eating fresh fruits and vegetables and getting plenty of exercise and sleep are on the decline among children. And I also agree that encouraging these behaviors, in ALL children, is important. Singling out the fat ones does more harm than...
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    My 600-pound Life: New TLC Show

    I absolutely think it's possible to tell a story like this with sensitivity and integrity. I do not think this will ever happen anytime in the near future in mainstream television. But I would also be very very happy to be wrong! I read a few other articles that seemed to feel like this show...
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    My 600-pound Life: New TLC Show

    Just a head's up...another one of these shows of a person losing hundreds of pounds (through surgery) and the producers and participants treating it really like a circus side-show kind of thing is about to premiere tomorrow. My 600 Pound Life on TLC. To add insult to injury, they use a snippet...
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    What's on the dinner table tonight?

    Homemade Russian food. Noodles with Russian meatballs (kotleti), a pickley/eggy/cabbagey salad (a kind of modified Olivier salad), and handmade thin bread with parmesan. (Visiting family and one of my family members had surgery last week, so the women from his church are bringing us awesome...
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    Something truly horrible that I need some opinions on...

    So how do you respond when you encounter those kinds of lies and disrespectful, hateful comments? Do you speak up or remain silent?