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Yeah, I don’t think there’s a set “minimum” - a relatively fit guy with a chubby face and a bit of a belly will usually register as a “BHM” to me more than an objectively heavier guy who carries weight more evenly.

Sad face sad face...computer just arrived this week, been clickity clacking away and hoping to have something to show for it soon!

I think it’s telling that you used the phrase “standards may be more forgiving” re: non-fit guys being into BBW. As a fit woman who has never been attracted to fit men, I think you are missing the “A” part in (F)FA pretty majorly. People who are attracted to BHMs and BBWs aren’t attracted...

How old is he? If it’s younger than mid-late thirties, his metabolism will likely come to a screeching halt at some point. I dated a guy a few years ago, where I was his first girlfriend post thirties weight gain - he’d always been naturally thin. He also had a habit of eating an entire tub of...

I feel bad for updating just to say “no updates”, but my personal computer met a bitter end (RIP) and I suspect writing BHM romance/erotica on my work computer would get me a one way ticket to the unemployment office. However, new computer is en route, so there should be more updates soon!

It’s easy to say “don’t care what other people think!” but much harder to do it. If you are having a hard time leaving the house, try going with one or two people you trust as a buffer at first. Or go places where you will have common interests with people - like a gaming night if that’s your...

Reading through, this thread really went off the rails, so I’m just going to address your first post. - It’s probably not that helpful for me to point out, but it bears mentioning that 250 is not terribly big. Definitely small enough that you could attract a non-FFA - which might actually be...

Definitely don’t do it for other people, that sounds like a recipe for disaster. Also, with some exceptions I think F/FA can be fairly flexible on body type. I know personally an average size guy with chubby cheeks will always make my head turn, and as a woman who is fairly “small” but not...

Age - 28 Height - 5’4 Weight - 125 Waist size - not a clue Clothing size - I’d say 4, but I have clothes ranging from 00 to 10 that all fit perfectly, so shout out to women’s clothing designers for getting that standardization down to a science.

I love where this is going! Your writing is even more impressive since English isn’t your first language!

Edgy take bro.

It sounds like online flirting in general, to be honest. You’d find the same thing on Tinder or Match.com or JDate. Which is to say, you probably aren’t doing anything “wrong”, it’s just the nature of the beast. A niche hookup site is still a hookup site, with all the pitfalls that entails.

@FleurBleu - I appreciate the feedback on this and the last chapter! I’m the first to admit I hate editing even when I get paid for it, so I rarely if ever edit the things I write recreationally. You’ve given me some good ideas going forward!

She smiled to herself, even at that bland message. Hunter’s name on her screen always made her tingle a bit. And he was going to see her apartment - a brief panic washed over Luna as she realized she hadn’t even checked if it was clean. A few minutes later, she was in the lobby watching Hunter...

Luna awoke to the smell of bacon and coffee. She fished her phone from where it had fallen under Hunter’s spacious guest bed. 4:05 am. She knew Hunter was an early riser - he’d have to be, to run a cafe - but this was intense. On a normal day, Luna wouldn’t even be up for another two hours or...

It sounds like you’re already doing everything right in terms of supporting him. The real question you may want to pursue if he decides to get a second surgery is: is he unhappy enough with his body and frustrated enough with traditional weight loss methods to risk his life to be skinny? If...

Oh no, I’m so sorry all this is going on! It’s a lot to deal with. Sending good thoughts.

Creepy - I like it. We don’t get a ton of the darker BHM stories!

I don’t feel guilt about what I like, so I think it’s a bit easier for me to separate actively ruining someone’s life from appreciating someone the way they are. For me, the line is crossed when you are forcing, bullying, etc someone to do something against their will or that doesn’t feel good...

But if you’re the one “getting teary eyed when you think about him loving you”, then you need to be honest with yourself about what you actually want from this. If you truly didn’t want anything from him, you’d roll your eyes at the “love” and “beautiful” comments because you’d recognize them...