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    FFA Dating Guide

    This post is a companion to my BHM Dating guide posts, and shares the same disclaimers: The...
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    Dominant or Submissive?

    One last thread before I again drift off into lurker-ville ... This isn't necessarily a BDSM related inquiry, but what do you personally see as more the norm in BHM/FFA relationships in regards to dominant and submissive partners? I was thinking about this earlier while reading other...
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    In defense of FFAs -- waif to SSBBW

    There has been a lot of discussion in a couple threads -- not to mention in the past -- on FFAs, particularly in regards to thin (or skinny) FFAs. I was thinking about this and I realized that I do need to make one statement of fact in how I think and feel in regards to attraction: The type of...
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    BHM Dating Guide (Part 3 of 3)

    One last time I would like to reiterate my disclaimers as I stated in the prior parts: The intentions of these posts are to assist people and any generalizations...
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    BHM Dating Guide (Part 2 of 3)

    I again would like to reiterate my disclaimers as I stated in the first part: The intentions of these posts are to assist people and any generalizations and assumptions about BHMs, women in general and such are made with the...
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    BHM Dating Guide (Part 1 of 3)

    (Moderator edit: this will be stickied for 2 weeks, then added to a special sticky of important forum threads) This is, as requested, a simple little dating guide for BHMs out there who may feel otherwise inhibited, or otherwise troubled, in regards to dating and finding suitable women to...
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    Wookin' Pa Nub in all da wong paces: Advice to BHMs on finding love, from a BHM

    Recently, I've read a couple threads that echoed the intense frustration that many BHMs have about finding loving relationships with women. Some BHMs made statements that could be construed as passive-aggressive at best and self-martyring at worst. There we're angry opinions and expressions on...
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    "Do you have a flag?"

    I've always been envious of how the gay bear community has a flag to help identify itself to others. Well, it's time we BHMs have our flag (as well as FFAs you love us) to show pride loud and proud! Yes, I know, I am quite possibly crazy! Zagnut
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    Sex, what works for you?

    As a BHM, formerly a SSBHM, I've often found sex to be rather challenging. I had a lot of earlier negative experiences that caused a lot of fear and apprehension when those rare times I had partners came along. I often had erectile disfunction with women due to these fears, though never alone...
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    Question for FFAs about problems dating BHMs

    I'm curious but what is the biggest problem you as a FFA run into while dating / loving a BHM?
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    BHMs, don't give up ...

    I've been large all my life, and my love life has suffered as a result. I was always a good guy, but I seeemed to attract the worst women. I was perpetually a big brother and a friend, but never anyone my throngs of female friends would consider dating. I lost my virginity to a prostitute...