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    Sandra Weber-Zitkus (1960-2016)

    Dear Sandie, It's been a good many years since we went after it on this board and Abundance; it's been so long I forgot what all the fighting was about. But even though there were harsh things typed, I think you knew I was never your enemy. I also think you know I enjoyed your energy and...
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    Need advice about a dress :) Can you help?

    I haven't shopped for clothes in an age; so I am not familiar with all the new places online and from what I have seen so far, I haven't really fallen in love with anything. You guys really seem to know your clothing, so I felt this was a great place to ask for help. :) I am looking for a...
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    The media prodding...

    I think what you wrote was intelligent, eloquent and heartfelt. I hope you allow (or allowed) her to use a quote from you. I would make her sign something that says that your statement must be used as-is, without any editing, changing, or tweaking, and you want to see it exactly as it will...
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    I am not a big fan of material abusive toward women. I am not a big fan of sexism. I am not a big fan of objectification of women, either. Abuse of any kind--whether physical or psychological--I despise it. This kinda thing is not my cuppa tea. To that end, if a place with these kind of...
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    Then let the market decide. If Conrad notices a mass exodus--in the hundreds---he might indeed do that, and certain changes may indeed be made. Until that day comes, he has the right to run his site the way he sees fit. As far as I know, the Dimensions site and discussion forum has been wildly...
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    Of course not. This is not a size acceptance issue. This is merely about an individual or individual(s) trying to force an environment to conform with their own vision as opposed to the vision of the owner. We are talking about a discussion forum and posting on it, not whether or not to have an...
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    "Invalidating contributions?" Dramatic, silly stuff. Have we all become so overly therapized that this kind of language is used for such a non-emotional, relatively unimportant topic, in the scheme of things? Validate your own contributions. If you wait for others to do it, you'll wait a very...
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    Am I boring you, maa'm? That's a first for me, but I think I can handle it. :)
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    When I am ready, I shall.
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    I will repeat: if you don't like the game, leave the playground. If you don't like the boss, quit. If you "spent money decorating" someone else's home, that doesn't give you the right to tell them how to run it. Giving should ideally be without strings, wouldn't YOU say?
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    What Dimensions is, and is not

    If you have "valid feelings of discomfort about being viewed as pounds of flesh", why are you here? I am not, sincerely not, being disrespectful, just curious. This is a highly sexualized environment, always has been, and I find this kind of post somewhat disingenuous. This is Conrad's site, he...
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    On Being a Long Term "Other Woman"

    I agree wholeheartedly.
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    On Being a Long Term "Other Woman"

    I am sorry you had to go through that, Lily. I felt the pain in your words--it was palpable. I think many of us fall in love with people who are bad for us, or inaccessible on some level, at one time or another. If we can manage to take away something beautiful from it--even if it's a memory or...
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    On Being a Long Term "Other Woman"

    Thank you for recognizing the truth of that; I was not directing my writing at *anyone*, although it does seem I might have kicked an anthill. That was not my intent. I was just expressing an opinion, that's all.
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    On Being a Long Term "Other Woman"

    Hi Tracy- I wasn't referring to those with agreed, open arrangements. So I'm not sure why you felt the need to respond to me personally. I hadn't even read your post or posts, quite frankly. Heck, I didn't even read the whole thread. What I did briefly mention was general: I wrote that...
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    On Being a Long Term "Other Woman"

    Being unfair would be a show of personal disrespect. My remarks were not personal, nor were they directed at anyone in particular. Certainly sexual or lifestyle preferences are none of anyone's business, but on a discussion forum, if one is going to write about something--personal or not...
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    On Being a Long Term "Other Woman"

    Thank you, Ms. Fairy, for the kind welcome. In discussions like these, there are invariably a few people who will attempt to rationalize the greatest of all possible betrayals, assuming that the hole in their own hearts and chasms in their relationships is a universal state of being. They'll...
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    On Being a Long Term "Other Woman"

    1. Why would somebody lie to a person clearly looking for a relationship when one is not available? A million reasons. All of them unflattering and ineffably selfish. 2. Why would somebody go on for years returning to another, "alternate" partner despite the presence of a LTR? Same...
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    A futile fantasy: decent loungewear.

    no, i wish i did :(
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    A futile fantasy: decent loungewear.

    Hi TFG, Kinda, sorta, but maybe a little more tee-shirt-ish, if that makes sense. :) that was helpful, very sweet and I appreciate the time you took to respond. Very much.
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