Aurora, nobody has anyone else. Not the way you mean it.I think most guys who have a hot gal enjoy the idea of showing her off.
I agree we're all guessing here--not judgments so much as offering up opinions based on the information provided by the OP, exploring all sides of the issue and voicing our thoughts. I don't think anyone who's posted against the idea of coaxing wifey into doing a paysite has called the OP names or said he's this or that, so much as trying to reason with him about why it's a bad idea.I guess I just think a person has to have all the pieces of the puzzle in order to make judgment calls.
Personally, I don't think Mossy's idea is a bad one at all: There are ways for a man to make money by posing for porn. It seems obvious that he should try this route first.