freedombigirl
Well-Known Member
Hi,
I haven't posted for a while and a lot has changed since I last did, I am in another relationship and have been for 6 months. I love my girlfriend but the other day she went to the doctors about something (not related to this) and she was advised to loose weight.
We were texting/talking on the phone about this (I was at work) and she asked me if I would still fancy her if she lost weight. (She is nearly 16 stone/220lbs and 5 foot 1).
When we saw each other we talked more about this. She knows I've always loved big women. I told her I would still love her but I think she could sense that I may not fancy her as much.
The doctor has said she is healthy so I guess the loosing weight would just be a precaution, but I really don't want her to loose weight and part of me feels selfish/controlling for saying that. I have told her all this and she says she can understand and wont take the doc's advice.
I'm still felling bad about it though and wondered if anyone could give me some advice please?
Thanks.
I haven't posted for a while and a lot has changed since I last did, I am in another relationship and have been for 6 months. I love my girlfriend but the other day she went to the doctors about something (not related to this) and she was advised to loose weight.
We were texting/talking on the phone about this (I was at work) and she asked me if I would still fancy her if she lost weight. (She is nearly 16 stone/220lbs and 5 foot 1).
When we saw each other we talked more about this. She knows I've always loved big women. I told her I would still love her but I think she could sense that I may not fancy her as much.
The doctor has said she is healthy so I guess the loosing weight would just be a precaution, but I really don't want her to loose weight and part of me feels selfish/controlling for saying that. I have told her all this and she says she can understand and wont take the doc's advice.
I'm still felling bad about it though and wondered if anyone could give me some advice please?
Thanks.
