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boompoet

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I have re-written this post about ten times because it's hard not to sound like I'm whining. I am not a whiner, ask anyone who knows me. The point of this thread is to ask for guidance. I can't seem to find what I'm looking for anywhere, and believe me I've been looking. I have come to some conclusions in my search and please, correct me if I'm wrong here. There appear to be more BBW than BHM. There also seem to be more FA than FFA. I've done some looking around and can't seem to find a place, group, forum, or dating site that caters to BHM / FFA specifically or BBW / FA specifically and all of them seem to try to force BBW and BHM together while offering no other options for either. The only site I've seen mentioned in the forums is fantasy feeder and it's so limited it's not really for me. I also had a hard time getting past the porn banners all over the place. :blink:

I actually know a BBW (6' 280 with an hourglass figure) who also happens to be into another lifestyle, BDSM. She said she's always liked little men (I mean tiny, like 100 lb, small frame guys), and finding them has never been an issue, made easier because the “lifestyle” is apparently a tight knit group, but it's always been more difficult for me to find women to date even though I have a wider scope. I'm also not going to get into BDSM just to find a woman. I personally don't like getting the crap beat out of me, nor would I want to beat the crap out of a woman, so that leaves that out. :doh:

After having scoured the Internet all week, I have to tell you, I'm at a loss. I decided to turn to my new friends for guidance. See, I have not been in a relationship in two years. It was five before that, not only because I'm picky, but also because so is everyone else. I was hoping to find a dating site or yahoo group that might be useful,but after looking through all 375 Yahoo groups... nothing. Aside from the afore mentioned fantasy feeder, I can't seem to find any other sites. Most of the other sites I have been able to scrounge up just link back to this one. There are 16999 members of this forum so there has to be some interest in this subject. :huh:

I know I'm an attractive guy relativly speaking. I know I'm an intellectual. Women always love an artist so I've got points there... but after the last several (well, the majority of) relationships I've had, my confidence is just about shot. I need a fresh perspective if I'm going to find a woman who finds me attractive and respects me and what I'm hoping is that someone will have a suggestion or some advice. Anyone?

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