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Well the thread is titled "Anyone Fattened up a BF or Hubby" so who else would it be aimed at except FFA or female feeders?
 

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what if the gentleman is gay? not saying he is...but that is a possibility.
Of course it is, but if you're fattening up a BF or hubby, then even if you're a guy, it's still about a male partner being bigger. Any thread about fat boyfriends or husbands still indicates that it would be aimed at admirers of fat men, whatever the admirer's gender was.
 

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Of course it is, but if you're fattening up a BF or hubby, then even if you're a guy, it's still about a male partner being bigger. Any thread about fat boyfriends or husbands still indicates that it would be aimed at admirers of fat men, whatever the admirer's gender was.
Correct, but you pointed out FFA's or female feeders. That's what i was pointing out
 

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Maybe don't post this in a thread clearly geared towards FFA/female feeders?

thanks.
Is a guy's perspective not allowed here? I didn't see any rule saying that all posters in this thread had to be female. My opinion is just as valid as anyone's here, and my opinion is that I would not want a girlfriend to try to fatten me up.

If you want to restrict opinions to female FA's and female feeders, place it in that board as Rowan said, not the erotic weight gain board. I'd have left it alone if it was on that board.
 

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Is a guy's perspective not allowed here? I didn't see any rule saying that all posters in this thread had to be female. My opinion is just as valid as anyone's here, and my opinion is that I would not want a girlfriend to try to fatten me up.

If you want to restrict opinions to female FA's and female feeders, place it in that board as Rowan said, not the erotic weight gain board. I'd have left it alone if it was on that board.
It just doesn't make sense to post in this thread.. you really aren't adding anything positive or beneficial to it. That'd be like LoveBHMs going into the fattest/skinniest pics thread and quoting some girl and being like, I like girls better when they're on the thinner side.

Sometimes you're better off saying nothing especially when the thread was clearly not intended for you.
 

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It just doesn't make sense to post in this thread.. you really aren't adding anything positive or beneficial to it. That'd be like LoveBHMs going into the fattest/skinniest pics thread and quoting some girl and being like, I like girls better when they're on the thinner side.

Sometimes you're better off saying nothing especially when the thread was clearly not intended for you.
Thank you!!!

Your opinion and your sense of sexuality and what is/is not appealing are of course valid. But a thread about men gaining weight is not the place to express them.
 

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Thank you!!!

Your opinion and your sense of sexuality and what is/is not appealing are of course valid. But a thread about men gaining weight is not the place to express them.
Couldn't disagree more. I think this was exactly the right place to express that thought, because this is something where my opinion is quite relevant to the topic. Not all men would want to be fat, and that's the perspective brought to this thread by what I posted.

It just doesn't make sense to post in this thread.. you really aren't adding anything positive or beneficial to it. That'd be like LoveBHMs going into the fattest/skinniest pics thread and quoting some girl and being like, I like girls better when they're on the thinner side.

Sometimes you're better off saying nothing especially when the thread was clearly not intended for you.
Those are apples and oranges. That thread would clearly be intended only for the praise of being fat. Nowhere in this thread does it say all posts must be positive concerning the prospect of a man gaining weight. As a man who could have to deal with this down the road, I am adding something beneficial to this thread, which I have stated above.
 

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Wrong.

The Erotic Weight Gain board is a protected forum and the rules clearly state it is for positive discussion only of feeding and gaining.

If you don't think men should be fed or gain weight, this particular board is not where it belongs.

If you personally don't want to be fed/fattened, probably your best bet is to not participate in feederism.

Since you did not read the rules, here they are:
Erotic Weight Gain subforum: This forum is for use by those interested in all areas of weight gain, feeding and topics directly related to those things. The forum is for positive contributions and participation. In other words, if you have nothing good to say about a topic, or constructive/related pro-topic conversation to add, then you should not be posting and any such posts will be removed or edited as appropriate. Repeat offenders may lose access to this board.
 
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I think LoveBHMs puts it pretty well, NoWayOut. There are lots of places on Dimensions where it is fair game to talk about how you aren't comfortable with feeding, and it is fine that lots of people are not comfortable with it or with some aspects of it or whatever. In face so many are not comfortable that these protected areas were created so that those who want to talk about enjoying it can do so.

Back on topic: lots and lots of ladies have fattened up boyfriends or husbands....just not all of them intentionally, and of the intentional ones not all were FA, I'm sure. I guess the question was meant to be read as 'Have any Dimensions posters fattened up...." or something like that? I think this is one thing that can make life a bit easier sometimes for female FA: if they don't say anything most people will assume otherwise.
 

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I didn't notice that protected forum part until now. It seems kind of silly to me- if no dissenting opinions are allowed then you can't really have much of a discussion. I prefer the Socratic Method to an echo chamber. I don't really have strong feelings about feederism either way, but it's interesting to watch others duke it out and come up with compelling arguments.

I don't think I've ever gained weight with a girlfriend. If anything I probably eat a bit less because I'm happy to share my food or let her take the leftovers if she wants them.
 

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I'm on a tear here.

If it seems silly to you, do not post here.

This is a protected forum for fetishists to discuss feederism/gaining/feeding/stuffing.

It's NOT a conversation, it's not a discussion. I don't give a rip what you think of it, this is not the venue for you to tell me or anyone else what you think about our sexuality. If you don't care about feederism don't post here.

There are a bajilliondy message boards on the internet devoted to every possible topic. If something does not appeal to you, don't participate. Don't go to forums about cooking and say you'd rather eat out, don't go to forums about skiing and say you hate the cold, don't go to forums about animal rights and say you love steak.

And don't come HERE and say you don't get feederism.
 

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This discussion about what is appropriate should really be in another location since it has nothing to do with the topic being discussed in this thread. It seems all too often discussions divert away from the topic and degenerate into what is appropriate, etc. Discussions about what is appropriate should be moved to a proper place where it may continue without effecting the original topic of discussion. Just my two cents...
 

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^hahaha. i like the evilness in that post.

if a guy was willing i'd def do it. no doubt about it.
 

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I didn't notice that protected forum part until now. It seems kind of silly to me- if no dissenting opinions are allowed then you can't really have much of a discussion. I prefer the Socratic Method to an echo chamber. I don't really have strong feelings about feederism either way, but it's interesting to watch others duke it out and come up with compelling arguments.

While I usually am up for discussion and both sides of the arguement, I think that this particular subforum would errupt if we followed that thinking.

I know alot of people have strong negative opinions about feeder/feedee talk, so the only way to actually communicate with others that have similiar interests is in a forum when we are protected.
 
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