Treat yourself well, have doctors who respect you and have things fall into place. There are a lot of poor quality feeders roaming around. Less likely to ignore red flags when things are in your favor.
I'm quite new to all of this since I've been "hiding" I guess, but being a feeder seems to be a thing I am quite into. I have the opposite problem of feeling like I can't find anyone to be with; so here I am with my first anything on this site.