Are you turned on by your own fat? :)

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  1. Feb 9, 2019 #61

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    To answer the question, YES! I am most definitely turned on by my own fat, but beyond that I find it comforting too. It just feels right and good to me to live in a soft, round, squishy body. I've been chubby since I was very young so I don't even know what it would be like to live in a skinny body, but I suspect it would feel really uncomfortable and "off" for me. Also sometimes I think about how much I love food and how eating can be almost like a form of sex to me, and then I look myself up and down and think "Well if that's true you're kinda slutty aren't you?" Lol. :p
     
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  2. Feb 12, 2019 #62

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    I feel the same...this is the true me! I lost weight before...but it didn't feel right. I love how big and soft I am and getting!
     
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    I’ve been skinny all my life, I graduated at 140 pounds, taken 20 years to get to 200. I want to continue this journey and I’ll be honest I never felt right being thinner. I’m much more comfortable in my skin the bigger I get and I hope that trend continues!
     
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    I think I've probably enjoyed seeing how I've grown and put on weight in an appreciative process, not erotic. I admit I like what I see in the mirror and how my clothes fit on me. Whether or not I'm "turned on" is a thought process I'm not sure I can put into words at the present time, if some of you get my drift...
     
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    I have to admit I get turned on by pics of me being fat, or seeing myself in a mirror when I think I look particularly good. Then I have to do something about it.
     
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    ... I plead the 5th :)
     
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    "...am and getting!"

    lovely words and sentiment :)
     
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    Absolutely! I used to be almost 300 and enjoyed my belly, moobs, and body covered in stretchmarks from gaining weight so quickly. I had to lose weight and keep it off for work, but I'm slowly starting to gain again and while I'm currently around 220, I can't wait to reach the 300s and I'm excited at what my body will look like at that weight!
     
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    I used to be a skinny kid and I feel happy that I did gain weight somehow.
     
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    I love my fatness, I'm 420lbs right now and it's so jiggly and soft, I just love it so yes, it turns me on :)
     
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    Yes, I love it when I feel my big belly.
     
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    Yes absolutely
     
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  13. Feb 23, 2019 #73

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    omg this morning I was sitting in a chair tying my sneakers, not wearing a shirt and I felt one of my breasts jiggle and quiver...instant turn on...my chest used to be firm and hard, now it is full and fat and folds over. TMI lol
     
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    I had a similar experience driving the other day, Ct pot holes and I felt myself jiggling a little more than usual. Hopefully more to come!
     
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    I have quite a bit of chest (breast) fat too. I'm currently taking a medication one of whose listed side effects is "enlarged breasts in males." Cool! I asked my doctor to double the dosage and she did. Gee, I always wanted a pair of my very own.
     
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    LMAO and some wonder why I don't show my face here - this is getting wayyyy personal, and Dims is forever! So future generations in, perhaps, the year 3019 will see our innermost thoughts, and see that some men 1,000 years ago were into their own titties. ;) By then we will all have 3rd eyes and be genetically perfect and body fat will have been proven to be benefical in every way to one's health, just like in Woody Allen's "Sleeper," cigarettes were proven in the future to extend life.
     
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    That's an interesting question, but it might also take away some of the fun and mystery if we really "knew" who likes whom. Maybe we need something like a hanky code or a lapel pin - or a button that says "Member, Future Farmers of America" or something else that's obvious to "us" but leaves the rest of the world clueless.
     
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    And maybe 1,000 from now, perusers of the Dimensions archives will realize that we're the generation that achieved Fat Liberation.
     
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    There's already a gay hanky code for chubs and chasers and, since gay men don't seem to use it any more, perhaps we could borrow it. The apricot hanky is for chubs and chasers. Worn on the left, it means one is fat and, worn on the right, it means one likes fat. Since it also means that one is looking for some sexual pleasure, the apricot hanky on the left states more than the obvious. Not all fat gay men buy into the chubs and chasers scene and I think that this fits in with fat people in general. Some of us identify as fat and are comfortable and happy with it. An apricot hanky would identify fat people, who would probably not mind being told by someone that they want to go on a date with us, because we're fat.

    (I have an event in my diary for the inaugural meeting of a group of people in my town, who self-identify as fat. Not all of us fit into that category.)
     
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    Yes. I especially love it now that when I lean forward to sit up, I feel my belly pushing out on my legs.
     
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